alright im wit dis gurl for 2 years right. and i work six days aweek about 9 to 11 hours a day. she works 4 days aweek n goes to school 2 days she works 10:30 to 5. n on the two day she at school she goes 10:30 to 3. you no i understan its hard on her but when ever i got time off wit her i want to do something wit her and she never wants to do anything..she says she not feelin good. then when im at work she is always doin something wit her sister like goin to the mall or goin out to eat ect...and also i always want to have sex so ill ask her almost everyday n she never wants to do it so i get really made at her sometimes we will go for like 3 weeks wit out doin anything. PLeeeeez help
2006-09-18 06:41:31 · 18 answers · asked by jerzabest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like your being played. The malls and eating out is all about cruzing for your replacement. Kick her to the curb now or be kicked to the curb soon.
2006-09-18 07:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could it be she goes out with her sister to fill the void when you aren't there and so when you are home with her she doesn't need that void filled. She just wants to spend the time with you. As for the bed department wine and dine her. Think of those little unimportant things that you know she likes and pamper her. It doesn't have to be big. One time my mate spelled I Love You on the lite brite and I never forgot it! Sounds corny but girls like corny. Good luck!
2006-09-18 14:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Brianne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe like most things in your life, the answers are right there in front of you.
For example -- "check spelling" is quite good at fixing your little slips and it's right there in front of you, suggest you give it a try.
Now for your girl, maybe it's not that she doesn't want to do anything, more like she doesn't want to do whatever you are suggesting. Maybe the solution, again right there in front of you, is to say something to the effect, "Hey I'd like to spend some time with you, what would you like to do or where would you like to go".
Lastly, there's nothing worse than hearing a broken record, "let's go to bed", "let's go to bed", let's go to bed". Gets pretty monotonous really fast --- try a little romance first.
2006-09-18 13:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem like you two have much of a relationship at all. I would set aside a good half hour to talk to your girl and tell her that you want to be with her and spend time with her but it doesn't seem like she's putting forth the effort. One person cannot make a relationship work. Takes two.
2006-09-18 13:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an idiot. She wants nothing to do with you. She's just hoping that you'll get fed up and move on and save her the trouble and guilt of dumping you. She's got somebody else in her sights if not already having sex with him. She's trying to better herself and move ahead. She sees you as a dimwitted loser with no future. No offense.
2006-09-18 13:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by sol_s_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be with the wrong girl. You need to sit back and reevaluate your situation. Maybe you need a girl that would appreciate you more.
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Good luck
2006-09-18 15:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to do some activities the you know she enjoys doing or suprise with a romantice date. If that doesn't work, then I suggest that you talk with her and ask her if there's something wrong and let her know how you feel about your situation, Good Luck!!!
2006-09-18 13:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u really sure that she loves u? are u really sure, that she is faithfully to u?.. if we love someone so much we need lots of time wanna spend together.. like making love, dinner. I think you shud check this thing out again, if she really be with u coz she loves u, or she juz need a company. thats it.
2006-09-18 13:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to re-evaluate the relationship because it doesn't sound like you two are on the same page.
2006-09-18 13:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u all about the sex...or do u love her....if it's just about making yourself feel good then get some lub and use your hand....but if you love her ...let her know...sometimes it takes more than saying we haven't done nuttin in 3 weeks to get a girl to want to be with you....
2006-09-18 13:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by littlebittyprettyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋