Marriage & Divorce - 18 September 2006

he has many affairs . finally he ends up having two kids outside of his marriage with another lady . well this lady dies who bared his children . his wife doesnt know nething till the other lady dies . now he is in a pickle . so he has to tell his wife . so he does . guess what she does . she accepts the kids and raises them . as her own . . what do u think u would have done in that situation ?. and how do u feel about the wife and what she did?

2006-09-18 03:31:25 · 21 answers · asked by txrkanawalls 2

My wife and I got married earlier this year. I ended a two year super mentally abusive marriage 2.5 years ago-i was the abused. Anyways, my current wife had one two year relationship and one one year relationship. She knows that these people calling her time to time bothers me. She insists conversations are very 'normal'. Both of the men are married. One of them i just found out has been being lewd, sending sexually charged emails and text messages. My wife told me about this the other day when this person then asked her to meet him in another state-she told him no way. My wife is very open and spontaneous - that is one of her many qualities i absolutely love. At times she likes to play with fire though. Unfortunately i know her ex-scumbag from college. My wife now agrees that she talking to this person is not a good idea. He wants to get into her panties as far as I am concerned. I sent the emails to his wife and ripped both of them new ones via a HATE MAIL.what else should i do?

2006-09-18 03:24:13 · 28 answers · asked by pagerDOWN 1

Or does she/he has to convert.
What are the rules?

I heard one can be half jewish. But the movie "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" says otherwise, the groom has to convert.

2006-09-18 03:23:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 03:17:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think..... Men complete Women ....Or ...women complte Men ?

2006-09-18 03:15:35 · 12 answers · asked by sorena 2

picking me up by my neck, dragging me on the floor, pushing me to the ground, slaping me, locking me out of the room, not letting me get on the pc..... shaking me, putting me up against the wall, holding me down, ect. ect.

2006-09-18 03:14:15 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 03:11:09 · 6 answers · asked by gagirl3939 1

My wife has been out oftown for a few days and I want to do something romantic for her when she gets back. I want to have "it" waiting for her when she gets home. Any ideas?

2006-09-18 03:08:40 · 10 answers · asked by ????????????????? 1

I feel mine is having one.... because his is upset with me all the time with no reason(almost all the time)!!!!......and we almost dont have intimacy.........giveme your opinion

2006-09-18 03:08:39 · 11 answers · asked by haki 5

I have married for love twice, apparantly I dont know much about love. im going for sex and money now, any ideas?

2006-09-18 03:07:47 · 4 answers · asked by deet deet 3

Even after we caught our parteners having an affair and got most the facts(we think) still waste our time looking for evidence,via the phone bill,or internet? What is it going to achieve? If more evidence comes up will it make the cheated feel better? why waste our times or more hurt on the family arguing? is this a normal response? is there anyone else out there who has done this. and then felt like they have let themselfs down by showing the cheater they even cared?

2006-09-18 03:06:14 · 16 answers · asked by karenna m 1

After living with my wife for one year i come to know she was having an affair with my bestfriend when i went for a jobtrip for one to two weeks. I going was it making her go with my bestfriend?

2006-09-18 03:05:14 · 27 answers · asked by richy 1

Even after we caught our parteners having an affair and got most the facts(we think) still waste our time looking for evidence,via the phone bill,or internet? What is it going to achieve? If more evidence comes up will it make the cheated feel better? why waste our times or more hurt on the family arguing? is this a normal response? is there anyone else out there who has done this. and then felt like they have let themselfs down by showing the cheated they even cared?

2006-09-18 03:05:06 · 11 answers · asked by karenna m 1

TWENTY DOLLARS

On their wedding night, the young bride approached her new husband and asked
for $20.00 for their first lovemaking encounter.

In his highly aroused state, her husband readily agreed.

This scenario was repeated each time they made love, for more
than 30 years, with him thinking that it was a cute way for her
to afford new clothes and other incidentals that she needed.

Arriving home around noon one day, she was surprised to find
her husband in a very drunken state.

During the next few minutes, he explained that his employer
was going through a process of corporate downsizing, and he had
been let go. It was unlikely that, at the age of 59, he'd be able
to find another position that paid anywhere near what he'd been
earning, and therefore, they were financially ruined.

Calmly, his wife handed him a bank book which showed more than
thirty years of steady deposits and interest totaling nearly $1
million.

Then she showed him certificates of deposits issued by the
bank which were worth over $2 million, and informed him that they
were one of the largest depositors in the bank.

She explained that for the more than three decades she had
"charged" him for sex, these holdings had multiplied and these
were the results of her savings and investments.

Faced with evidence of cash and investments worth over $3
million, her husband was so astounded he could barely speak, but
finally he found his voice and blurted out, "If I'd had any idea
what you were doing, I would have given you all my business!"

That's when she shot him.


You know, sometimes men just don't know when to keep their mouths shut!

2006-09-18 02:57:54 · 16 answers · asked by Dawn C 5

Well him and i have been together for 4yrs and have a daughter together.We seperated for 4months in different states, now ever since he came back he keeps talking as if i want to take my daughter here or there i will you will not stop me becuse i dont like it when she goes to her aunts house cause there is drugs. Im not willing to lose my daughter and he keeps deffending her.. I want to finish school and I have to pay for it that fine in all but he wants me to stay home to take care of the baby instead of getting a job. Then tells me that your school is last in my mind and he has made it so hard for me to go to school anymore for my GED. It's werid (like a gut feeling) sometimes I really do think im mading the biggest mistake getting back with him. My best friend yes he is a guy we've known each other ever since we were 2yrs old and were both 18yrs now. My b/f get jelouse and pissed off if i talk to him or have anything to do with him. I don't knwo what to do

2006-09-18 02:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by Kristy 2

are you remember your b/f when u have sex with your husband

2006-09-18 02:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is 50 and does the most childish things when he is mad at me. Today he took his motorcycle to work since he knows I hate it. (another story, another time). But to ride it, he had to warm it up and we live on a cul-de-sac. Wonder how the neighbors liked that at 5:45am. Why do they do this kind of childish retribution?

2006-09-18 02:45:33 · 18 answers · asked by Chloe 6

I am tortured by the past and it keeps resurfacing. the other night i dropped down the scroll bar on yahoo and saw (Adult friend Finder). I woke him up to simply ask.."do you have a profile on here?" he said "No" so i typed in his email address while he was sleeping and it said your password has been sent to your email... so i caught him lying about that.he says he hasnt been on it since we had gotten back together a.the thing is i am discusted and embarrased that the man that i married wrote **** in his profile that said,

"Im a easy going, genuine guy with sexual desires that need fulfilled. i love meeting new people, travelling to new places, but as im stuck here for a while, so a little fun isnt too much to ask, is it?
iv'e had a lot of relationships that went nowhere, mainly cause i felt no sexual attraction, so i want to see what iv'e been missing.
Im looking for someone open minded and who knows what they want.sex is what im looking for, but if anything did come .

Any advice?

2006-09-18 02:39:21 · 21 answers · asked by whatdoudo? 1

My husband finishes the intercourse very fast it doesnt helps me please suggest how to get from him?

2006-09-18 02:38:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married but have feelings for another man and I can tell that this other man has feeling for me. I have decided that I can't interact with this other man anymore because these feelings I have are wrong and I don't want these feelings to go any further. Does anyone know how long it will take to get thoughts of this other man out of my head. It is really difficult because he is a married neighbour and my husband recently became couple friends with them. After knowing them for a couple of weeks I noticed there is chemistry between me and the husband (of the couple) and the other day, when we had a moment alone in the hall he tried to kiss me.

2006-09-18 02:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by applecheeks 1

I would like to know women like the mustache? whether it is irretating during intercourse? While kissing other body and soft parts?

2006-09-18 02:28:51 · 23 answers · asked by Sunil 1

that if you went out with another couple , and they talked about sex and all their partners

2006-09-18 02:28:24 · 11 answers · asked by wimpie 1

its been a 2years now since we got married but no trust developed between both of us.i do try to trust him but sometimes the past still haunts me and drives me up the wall.he is not a honest person.every time we get into an arguement he blames me for every thing.he never accepts his mistakes .this strange behaviour is disturbing me.now i think its time to decide.why men cheat on wife?

2006-09-18 02:25:33 · 9 answers · asked by vjbr 1

There was a question from a guy whose wife wanted to do it one time with a guy who had 10". Almost everyone jumped up and screamed no! Isn't the problem with that his wife will still want to do it even tho he said no and now he's not going to know if she will go behind his back? Isn't it beter just to let her do it with his knowledge and things will be out in the open and she'll have more respect for him?

2006-09-18 02:24:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married and a couple of months ago we met our new married friends down the street and the 4 of us have become good friends. The problem is me and husband (of the couple) have hit it off rather well and there is a great deal of chemistry between us. We can feel it in the air. The other night he tried to kiss me and I said that it was wrong but since then I can't get him out of my mind. Now I'm NOT going to have affair because I know that it's completely wrong so I have to block him from my thoughts but I'm having a hard time with this and I'm wondering if anyone has any advice as to how I can move past this. My life was good before we met this couple and now I'm filled with guilt and misery wondering how long it will take to get this guy out of my thoughts and my husband back into the lime light. I'm also wondering how this has happened and how can I be a good person when I'm married and wanting another man? Is it a test? I would be grateful to any insight on the matter. Help!

2006-09-18 02:19:00 · 24 answers · asked by applecheeks 1

My daughter has gone to see her father over the course of three weeks on her regular visitations wiht him. He is 37, lives with his mom. The house is completely filthy, smells, there is dog poop and pee in the floor of the kitchen, trash everywhere, throw up stains everywhere, the room that is supposed to be my daughters is trashed wiht their stuff stacked up in it, no room to walk, her sheets are never washed, she bascially doesn't even have a room. They only buy fast food and don't have regular meal times (which leaves my daughter starving sometimes), they don't make her brush her teeth (she is 12 and should do it on her own but she is the type of child that needs reminding), she can't take a bath when she is there because of the filth. Recently, her cousin, 16yrs and a known drug addict has been come over there when it is her visitation with her dad. They let this girls boyfriend, 17yrs and a known drug user, sleep over while she is there. What can I do legally? Anything?

2006-09-18 02:16:43 · 7 answers · asked by KatheeVonE 3

As we watch TV, there always seems to be a commercial that show scantily clad women. Now me being a man, this doesn't bother me in the least. I don't get excited and want to jump all over my wife, I don't get an erection and I don't think about them after all is said and done. My wife on the other hand, has a fit when these commercials come on, she get totally agree with me, turns the channel, or throws the TV remote at me if I watch the commercial. Most times, I will turn my head or get up to do something while the commercial is playing. It doesn't bother me when she watches her stories that show men in various states of clothes. I am so confused as to how to overcome this problem, besides not watch TV with her, or continue to not look at the TV when the commercials come on. BTW, i do not make any comments about the subject matter on the TV.. just so you know.

2006-09-18 02:15:28 · 12 answers · asked by Pilot 202 1

I am a married man of 10 years and have three wonderful children. I love my wife very much but she has absolutely no libido what so ever. We have talked and talked about this issue all with no resolve. I am wondering if there is anyway out there for me to lower or totally eliminate my libido so I do not want "it" anymore. I believe this with this no longer an issue in my life and our marriage we will be much happier. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

2006-09-18 02:14:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what it is but my fiance and I get into arguments so much lately I don't think I can do it anymore. I am happy at times but I guess the problem is that I can't tolerate him any longer. When we get in to arguments he makes me so mad I just want to kill hime literally, he doesn't know he's pushing me out the door and I am developing a disguise for him. I really am pushing to keep it together though for my daughter's sake and because I don't want to let him down as well. I am tired now and I feel like I have given it my all, I would pay good money to be drama free! I have tried talking to him sensibly, tried bringing in my mother to hear both sides (because she's not bias), and even suggest couseling. I have basically lost my attraction to him, I guess I love him and respect the fact that he is the father of my child and has great qualities but my gut feeling says he not the man for me!! What do I do?

2006-09-18 02:10:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

has a big lipstick kiss, smells of her perfume, and is sighned I Love You and Miss you very much. She moved out of state 3 months before his birthday, yet the card had no addresses on it and no postage.I found this card by accident. After many months of them swearing that nothing was going on I felt like a fool, only to find just recently her current phone #. Yes I called it. She has been gone for a little over a year.(?) He tells me I thought it was a joke about the card and he had absolutley no answer for the phone #. What do think? Men please lets
get some real answers here.

2006-09-18 02:06:13 · 3 answers · asked by quite contrary 2