There was a question from a guy whose wife wanted to do it one time with a guy who had 10". Almost everyone jumped up and screamed no! Isn't the problem with that his wife will still want to do it even tho he said no and now he's not going to know if she will go behind his back? Isn't it beter just to let her do it with his knowledge and things will be out in the open and she'll have more respect for him?
2006-09-18 02:24:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You let your wife or g/f do it and let me know how you feel afterwards.
2006-09-18 03:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're wife loves you enough to tell you what she wants, and you should be at least relieved she's open enough to tell you, if even a tiny bit let down and jealous of the situation. Women aren't that much different from men in needing some sexual spice. As long as you remain acting the same loving way, she should be able to experiment. She might enjoy the new experience, but It's not going to be a "life changing event" as everyone thinks. You are the one she fell in love with, and that isn't likely to change unless you treat her like a criminal. She might reciprocate by being open, and sharing the experience with you. TL;DR, many men cheat, but would never under any circumstance leave their wives for someone else.
2016-03-27 07:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a very special couple, with an exceptional relationship, to be able to indulge&enjoy a hedonistic lifestyle. Swingers for example. Doing something behind your spouses back is more dangerous than discussing it and deciding to try it, or not. A woman seeking a 10 incher sounds like someone who has been around. Believe it or not, many women would find that size uncomfortable. At least at first :) Just watch a porn film to be reminded how much an experienced woman can take. Women are way ahead of us men in the sex department. A couple can be partners in this adventure just like they are in other parts of their life. Its far better to share than to decieve..
Good luck in whatever choice you make.
2006-09-18 03:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is silly and stupid.
You are worried that she will lose respect for her husband, but she is the one that lost all respect by asking to have an affair in the first place.
Maybe I want a woman with bigger or smaller boobs, but I am not asking my wife if it's okay to find a woman to play with nor would I disrespect my wife by seeking out another woman.
2006-09-18 02:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem here is that the woman wants to have an affair, no matter what the reason!!! If she wanted to know what it was like to be with someone like that then she should of thought of that before she got married. I really feel sorry for her husband, he must really love her alot to be willing to put aside his feelings just to make her happy. She is a VERY selfish woman that should appreciate the love of a great husband!!!!!!
2006-09-18 02:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Why would you let your wife have an affair with any guy? Who cares what his endowment is. I can see you've never been with a woman
2006-09-18 02:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any little respect she has for you now will evaporate if you "let" her have sex with another man. Have some self respect and find a woman who loves everything about you! This is just the beginning...next she'll want to experiment other ways. Please either stand up for your marriage or end it.
2006-09-18 02:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by noambition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be ridiculous. What good is a 10 without stamina and control? That's crazy you shouldn't let her do it. How would she feel if you wanted to do it with someone with larger or smaller breasts than she has? Buy a toy and explore.
2006-09-18 05:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is...........Will he still have respect for her!!!!!!!
When two people are in a relationship, they should not want or even think about another man/woman! They should be satisfied,& respect the one that they are with!!!!!
2006-09-18 05:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , my wife and I had a great sex life except she never got off during ... I would have to go down on her to make her climax.
We talk about it Now she comes all the time with huge men its ok we r still together
2006-09-18 02:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by wimpie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my country there is only one solution for that : DIVORCE. Kick her out and tell her that she can do anyone without your permit ion. Personally i would kick her *** only for asking and after i would kick her again only for thinking to ask me and the third move would be divorce! Be strong if she asked you today and you said no she will not ask the second time! And that is a fact!
2006-09-18 02:31:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋