he has many affairs . finally he ends up having two kids outside of his marriage with another lady . well this lady dies who bared his children . his wife doesnt know nething till the other lady dies . now he is in a pickle . so he has to tell his wife . so he does . guess what she does . she accepts the kids and raises them . as her own . . what do u think u would have done in that situation ?. and how do u feel about the wife and what she did?
2006-09-18 03:31:25 · 21 answers · asked by txrkanawalls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think she is definitely a Lady - and her husband should be very thankful and appreciate her more for her reaction to the news and her actions of taking in the kids. She must really love this man and she knows the real meaning of forgiveness.
What would I have done? I'm not sure - but I'm sure I would be madder than he_ _ at him for a while!
2006-09-18 03:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Topez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you talking in 3rd person? Is that you?
This man has to take full responsability of his own with the children and with the wife: she has to do what she feels but she has no moral obligations for anything because he needs her now and the game of cheaing is over for now. There are legal problems too, are there any other children of this marriage? If she decides to accept the children ,it would be a good thing to see a counsellor to help out with the the situation and a legal aid for the rights and responsabilities of everyone involved> Good luck!
2006-09-18 04:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that did the same. She believed in her wedding vows, "for better or worse". She loves the children, and is content with the husband.
I at first thought she was stupid. I couldn't have been that strong to have forgiven , let alone raise my husbands kids from an affair.
But, I suppose, her true devotion to her husband is what is making them a happy family now.
2006-09-18 03:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She accepted his affairs and took in the children to raise as her own. Correct?
I would say that is one angel of a woman. She may be a little naive or desperate to accept the affair(s) without comment, but she is one wonderful woman not to punish the children for the mistakes of the adults.
I don't think I could have been that understanding to my husband. He would be paying for it for the rest of his life, assuming I didn't kick him to the curb.
2006-09-18 03:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The wife is obviously much more of a caring adult than the husband. She's put aside her personal feelings about the husband's treachery and took in those two kids who need a loving home in the time of hardship. The husband's a scumbag.
2006-09-18 03:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by anon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The wife is great, she have done the right thing. While, the man is shameful. Curse. God bless the fairy lady and the innocent kids.
2006-09-18 03:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Billy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The wife is a very strong woman. The wife may have known he was an adulterer and still stayed married.
2006-09-18 03:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would have been extremely upset, but the kids are not at fault of their parents behavior. This jerk of a husband should realize how fortunate he is to have such a loving and caring wife.
2006-09-18 03:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by ginger13 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The wife is obviously a very loving and forgiving person who cares about her husband and the welfare of his children.
If she thinks this is the right thing for her to do, then it's wonderful that she's doing it.
2006-09-18 03:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by johntadams3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the wife should have left him and let the man take care of the two kids, simple as that.
2006-09-18 03:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋