2006-09-18 08:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by wife of Ali Pasha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are dumb enough to look for a baller, you will invariably end up with a scrub.
How 'bout looking for a smart, nice, funny guy who keeps you on your feet and respects you?
2006-09-18 08:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by A S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.....get a job yourself...a good one. I don't even consider dating women who don't have career aspirations for themselves, or barely have a highschool diploma and arn't going to college. I've been pretty successful in life so far...especially for my age. but it's only because i'm smart with my money. when i bought my house last year at the age of 23 i did so because i was paying my own way and no one elses. i guy who's prosperous in life wants a woman who's prosperous as well. that way the relationships a 50 50 thing. you want to get a "baller"....then become one yourself so that guys with money don't see you as a mooch. the #1 reason why people who are considered "ballers" leave a girl after they've "used her" is because they know that in alot of cases....the girl is trying to use him as well. so they flash some cash until a girl gives it up ...then dissapear after they hit it.
2006-09-18 08:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by anthony v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself. you need to look like baller material. Make your list of exspectations for your idea baller. STICK to your list. don't excecpt any thing less than what you want. don't go out looking for a baller either. let him see you aren't insterested and it will make him want you more.
2006-09-18 08:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by may_may_bj 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont you try a real man?? what are you 16?? a baller or a scrub, what are you TLC??
2006-09-18 08:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at yourself. are you worthy of attracting ballers? carry yourself in a manner that wouldnt attract trash and you will be fine.
2006-09-18 10:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend has the same problem. what type of men you date and what race and where you looking at.
2006-09-18 10:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mindy T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋