What did he say or do? Or was it you that asked him about it an.al stuff?
I would like to ask my girl about doing this. Could anyone help?
2006-09-18 06:31:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he just asked
2006-09-18 06:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by chinagirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first off, you probably shouldn't start out there first.......go ahead and have regular intercourse til you feel that you guys are in the moment.....thenpull away and gently rub against it and straight up ask her.....Just ask "can we try it?" .... Usually if you guys are truly in the moment and its the first time.....she'll say yes, but then again if she doesn't want it she'll tell you too! Don't worry if she says no right away, cuz a girl can usually tell if its an alright time. Just try another time.Thats what my husband did when we were dating.....and it worked.
2006-09-18 13:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by arielchrisandjunior 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't really verbally ask at first. Started by inserting a finger sometimes during intercourse and you gradually start liking it. Then after some time had passed he just asked if he could.
Good tactic because even if she thinks she won't like it at first, she will see that it can be very stimulating!
2006-09-18 13:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nunya 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My girl asked me if I was into it. At first I was a bit hesitant. I made sure to put on a condom with a lot of lube, and we did it. She told me how good it felt for me to do it to her. Once I got into the swing of things, I started to enjoy it. We both had a wild time, and we have had several goes of it since. My girl has a g-spot in her behind, so she is addicted to it now.
2006-09-18 14:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Brad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those questions that you ask when you are together sitting down talking. Swing the discussion to sex and what you like and don't like. Also bring up things that you might want to try along with things that you are not willing to try.
Its better to talk about these things while dressed and not trying to "get there" as you ask.
2006-09-18 13:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Parisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i ask him or he ask me, first of all we both, whoever be my man at the time and me, we have good peni s... and vaj..ina sxxx for some times. [ the only place u shd NOT kiss lick is the oshole, acc ovid art of love.]. slowly pass ur hand fingers from the buttcks into between them onto the as.hol,and keep presssing stimulating the nerves, care ur nails, wait till the she will ask. otherwise too let the hard topic point will stray into the an,al route, by his or my scheme. but its i who have to keep the lub jel at hand. the novely wears away soon, unless its gangup w variety.
2006-09-18 13:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by kamesvari i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first make sure that it is something that she will attempt.
Ist attempt is not always the best. It is something that comes with patience. Let her tell you when and how and if she says stop then stop. Get it nice and wet first. Start with your finger until she's ready for more. If shes anything like me she will be begging you for more!
2006-09-18 13:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Buttercup=sweetness 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He rolled me onto my back and gently had his finger rub back there. I knew what he was doing so I was cool w/ it. She may not be and she might freak out. If she does just let it go and talk about it another time. If you press the issue at that moment, she's very likely to get upset. Be gentle, remember, it hurts like a m***** f*****!!!
2006-09-18 13:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she can ram a carrot up your @SS first, you can both enjoy the pleasure together, if you don't think you would enjoy it what makes you think she would.
ask her first and if she's not to enthusiastic about the idea let it go.
anal sex with a woman is the first step towards anal sex with a guy, be careful what you wish for.
2006-09-18 15:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Chiprat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We talk about the different things we like and don't like to each other ... it makes things very easy and open ... !
He use to lick & play with my @ss while he was giving me oral sex .. then slowly used his fingers ... after that I was willing to try out a vibrator ... once things were nice and comfortable we went all out ... !
In fact I didn't even really like anal or want to try it out until my BF started opening up to me about it ... !
2006-09-18 13:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her and if she says yes try it ...make sure you have plenty lubrication...but dont pressurise her into doing something that she doesnt like.
2006-09-18 13:35:34 · answer #11 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋