my husband is a 2 minute man and its so annoying he says we start at the same time but damn this is crazy how do i get him to go longer .it takes me a little alot longer than 2 minutes
2006-09-18 03:58:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to your local sex shop and buy a cream. There is a cream you can put on your man that will de-sensitze him a bit and will make him last longer. My man doesn't really have a problem here, but we got some for fun one time to try it, you are only supposed to use a little, well we were going at it and after like almost 3 hours, I asked, "how much of that stuff did you use?" He said"I coated my whole penis with it" we laughed and I told him, your only supposes to use a little, it was soooo funny, but the stuff works good. Needless to say that night, he never did go off, I was long done after 4 hours, but we still laugh about it.
2006-09-18 04:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would suggest slowing it down and getting into more foreplay. I think alot of guys have had the problem of getting over-excited and ending too quickly, but if its happening all the time that's a more serious problem, and I feel it could be mental as well as physical. Your man has to have the mindset that he's going to take care of you, not just take care of himself, roll over and fall asleep. And if he's not willing to work on it, or doesn't think he has a problem, its never going to change. But that's why its your responsibility to let him now how you're feeling, and that it is a big deal to you. Especially if he's not taking care of you in other ways. Anyway, good luck with that.
2006-09-18 11:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by thecrisman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having your hubby go off the bathroom or bedroom with some alone time about an hour or so before the sex between the two of you. The masterbating done before hand, should allow him more time with you, if preformed soon after his alone time.
I use to have a hubby that I could make bets with myself how long it would take us! lol Was depressing.
Try talking with your hubby about your needing more time to get worked up. Try longer forplay also.
Good luck.
2006-09-18 11:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 minutes? that's terrible. It should take you at least 1 hr to 2 hrs from start to finish to really enjoy love making. Well the only way to achieve a long ejaculation is to concentrate and work on it. Maybe when he is ready to ejaculate, he should pull out and hold his penis so he does not ejaculate. He could try masturbating and that always helps. What about meditation?
At least tell him to give you some long and slow oral sex so that way you can enjoy it more than just 2 minutes of ______!
2006-09-18 11:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend with the exact same problem, it used to drive her mad.. and of course us girls talk and give advice so, she got her hands on some viagra, the first couple of times they used it, it didnt work, but now they plan a night, get rid of the kids and get totally trollied, he takes the viagra, early on they have a bit of play ( he does what he has to do) then later, he still making tents with the bed sheets and she gets what she wants for longer than ever before.
Hope it helps.
2006-09-18 11:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Top Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't considering your feelings, so the trick is to negotiate BEFORE the sex, not after. As he begins to get heated up, lead him on for awhile, but then as the clothes are coming off say, "Wait." Tell him that if you're going to have sex that he must meet your needs too, or you aren't going to proceed with something you find unsatisfying. Do also tell him that you really WANT to have sex with him, but you've decided you want it your way at least half of the times you have sex.
2006-09-18 11:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he can't last long enough for you get him to go down on you and satisfy you that way. Some guys just *** faster than others. and it takes something else to satisfy the woman. A lot of foreplay for you would be good too. Get you hot and ready for a goood loving.
2006-09-18 11:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wine & dine him. Do four play, take it slow when he starts to blow bring him back down. Talk move around hell start dancing. Do anything just to take his mind off of it for a little while. Ahhh men they are just sooooo easy. It can be frustrating if you love him be patience.
2006-09-18 11:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using two condoms can help to de-sensitise your husband, which will help him last that bit longer. Try concentrating on oral also, make him go down on you until you've been satisfied...then he can be as quick as he wants!
2006-09-18 11:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by kenfitameen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
takes most woman 15 minutes, and most men 5
2006-09-18 11:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋