Things have been real tense with my husband and I lately, we don't make love very often,we get agrivated with each other. I asked him if he's bothered that we don't make love very often he told me no, but I have noticed that when he goes to kiss me he just kisses me on the forhead, cheek, or nose. And if he kisses me on the lips its just real quick peck. What does this mean when your husband begins doing this?
2006-09-18 04:15:57 · 13 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to say, but this doesn't sound good. sit him down and say that you have sensed alot of distance, and ask if there is anything on his mind. Tell him how you feel about his actions, and you would like to work through whatever is going on, rather than ignoring it, and say please talk to me.
2006-09-18 04:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to sound mean OK, but I think there are a few things for you to take into consideration. It could be that he is unhappy that you can't have kids. He may be looking for a way out of the marriage. He big Marine you sick young woman. If he is an extremely energetic individual and your unable to keep up he may want to find someone able to do strenuous thing he likes. I assume your about the same age. It would be tough to be forced into being a couch potato because your wife can't do anything because of her heart. It may not be right for him to think this way but it may be the truth. Confront him or get the truth from one of his friends.
2006-09-18 05:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Plantoneonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember back when you both were the happiest together and see what has changed
And confront him about it let him now that something isn’t right and figure out what it is that needs to change to make your lives together happy again.
Be spontaneous, Try different things that will spice things up a bit.
2006-09-18 04:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys need to have a heart-to-heart talk. that night be the only way to really get everything out that is bothering you. It might not be the fact of him being bothered that you two don't have sex any more. It may be a bigger issue. Hope everything works out for you. Good luck!
2006-09-18 04:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has been this way since the beginning of marriage then it probably means nothing. If this is a dramatic change it means he's fulfilling his needs elsewhere barring any medical reasons.
2006-09-18 04:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means "the fire is gone" from the relationship. He's viewing you as a friend, not his wife and lover. Do whatever it takes to renew the fire, or your marriage is in trouble. He has to see you in a "different light" than just a friend. Talk to him, and see what's missing in your relationship. Good Luck!!
2006-09-18 04:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there some trouble to me too.
Maybe time for some counseling?
Couldn't hurt.
2006-09-18 04:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your husband but I never want to be with another guy who stops kissing me....been there, hated it.
2006-09-18 04:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hate to be the one to tell u but hes gone else where
2006-09-18 04:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋