Marriage & Divorce - 13 September 2006

She left today, same as one year ago: "I'm not happy". Only child age two, left him too. Last time she wanted to come home after 5 weeks. Suggestions welcome.

2006-09-13 15:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by Madji 1

There's financial ties and a unborn child involved as well.....

Thanks for any info.

2006-09-13 15:03:32 · 15 answers · asked by Miss.Understanding 3

2006-09-13 14:53:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife of 10yrs left me and said she would not come back she left our son and hasnt tryed to call should i try and start dating again or wait for her she said she still loved me but it was time to move on how should i take this i have already changed the problems i had and i am working hard to keep hope.i dont know what to do

2006-09-13 14:45:51 · 15 answers · asked by eddie w 1

I dont beleive it. On the Tom Likas show tofday he said that he doesnt look at other woman when he is sexualy satified and physicaly attractive to his woman. What does that make me, my man looks at other woman (which I find disrepectful, if its in front of me) but apparently this is what all MEN and WOMEN do. I must say Tom likas has some good points but I dont know if this is true, because why do so many men look at porn when they have HOT woman. Is there any men out there that can honestly say they DONT look at other women

2006-09-13 14:45:21 · 15 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

Can they really look beyond it?
I think they could, but society looks at them & judges them on their wife (like a car, showing off a new bmw vs. a beat up old whatever).
Isn't there a small part of it that they think about what others think of them & therefore are not OK w/ it?

I ask because a friend of mine has a husband who always verbally abuses her for being overweight but she puts up w/ it (and then complains to me)

2006-09-13 14:43:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just want some opinions. both men and womens would be nice.

:-D

2006-09-13 14:34:56 · 12 answers · asked by Katy 1

she said for her to move to usa i have to come to indonesia and turn muslem and then we can marry and move back to usa.

2006-09-13 14:33:51 · 13 answers · asked by hoopy507 1

He is in the military and I cannot talk to him for a week to ask him what this is all about. The person says they miss him and has left a phone number for him to call them.

2006-09-13 14:26:15 · 37 answers · asked by Dolphin73 1

2006-09-13 14:14:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance' had a scare on the back of her neck and I asked her what it was. She said it was from an accident. Then, a month later,I noticed another one that was symetrical on the left side. So I asked her again. She started to deny it again, but then she finally admitted that she had some plastic surgery in she said she felt embarrassed. I told her that I think she is a liar and she says that I am being too hard on her and I should not hold this against her cuz she was embarressed.

She also lied about how sexual she was in the past. I asked her and she did not tell the whole truth. Then I asked her again some months later and she admitted to being promiscuious and said that she was afraid that I would judge her. Does she seem like someone not to be trusted?

2006-09-13 14:13:02 · 33 answers · asked by joe man 1

Looking for fun things for me and fiance to do and I'm interested in seeing if ya'll are as creative as I am.

2006-09-13 14:11:35 · 12 answers · asked by Bridezilla 2

i noticed that they marry a lot of big woman or unattractive woman.
why??
i was in love with this guy for about a year
he was my first love and he left to korea and forgot about me within a year.
he always told me that he would come back for me and if i would marry him and stuff like that.
its been 7 years and i am just wondering if you think he regrets it.

like if any of you are in the military why do you do this and do you regret not being with the one you left behind?

2006-09-13 14:04:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone here ever wanted to be with another coup_e (m_n and wi_e)? My wife tells me that I am si_k to even think about it.
What is your honest opinion?

2006-09-13 13:57:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Trying to spice up my love life a bit....

2006-09-13 13:55:32 · 29 answers · asked by Kevin 1

I do. Don't forget to tell yours that you love them.

2006-09-13 13:47:34 · 14 answers · asked by tumadre 5

Has your spouse cheated more than once? Are they on their last chance?

2006-09-13 13:35:30 · 12 answers · asked by daniwani 1

My wife and I have been seperated for 3 months. We both still have some feelings, although not all of them are good.

Would joint counseling help? Or, should I just hang it up.

We have a 16 year old son.

2006-09-13 13:23:29 · 21 answers · asked by Chris L 2

One thing about divorce that scares me to craziness is that I don't want to be alone the rest of my life. I have three kids and I don't see anyone ever being ok with dating a women with so many obligations. :( I fee like I am attractive (110lbs, super long hair, nice personality, active in outdoor stuff, etc) but that doesn't seem to help me feel any better. Do men really care all that much????

2006-09-13 13:06:39 · 52 answers · asked by RainaDeLaSol 2

After seperating from her mother i began to have feelings for her after she approached me..i'm 34

2006-09-13 13:04:40 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

DH cheated on me for two years. I've given it a year and still not happy. Sometimes all I see is him "with" her and it infuriates me. How long should I keep on trying??? We have children.

2006-09-13 12:56:53 · 25 answers · asked by RainaDeLaSol 2

legal since hes illegal and has no papers and is not a citizen of the us

2006-09-13 12:56:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've heard that confidence is the sexiest thing, and that's what I want to be on my honeymoon. The wedding is in two weeks...help me, please!

2006-09-13 12:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 12:51:27 · 10 answers · asked by LA LA 6

Some homemade type gift that I can show my appreciation...or a cute date idea?

2006-09-13 12:50:06 · 7 answers · asked by Kiwi 1

Tell me more.

2006-09-13 12:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by sheila c 3

has the last name of who shes divorcing does he have any ritgs too the baby if your in arkansas i mean whats the law?
the dna was ran and the real father has steped up too the plate
can the divorced father who is not the father have any claim on the child? the child is four months old

2006-09-13 12:47:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this crazy fantasy that may be disturbing to some but it's something that I think about a lot.

It starts off with my husband coming home and without a word grabs me by the hair, drags me to the bedroom, and shoves me onto the bed. He ties my arms and legs to the bed posts while I'm face down. Then he blindfolds me. He still hasn't said a word. He again pulls my head back by my hair and starts nibbling my neck- more like biting. Then he goes down my body- biting and squeezing me. Then he slaps my butt a few times really hard. Enough that it stings and probably leaves marks. Then he starts having rough anal sex with me. I have never had anal sex so I don't know why I fantasize about it.

I know that's crazy but does anybody have similar fantasies or have I just lost my mind???

2006-09-13 12:45:38 · 24 answers · asked by T B 1

My wife loves me, but she is destroyed any feelings I have for her with her demanding ways and constant nagging. She has alienated my family and we have no close friends. I have no love interests, this is just trying to figure out whats best for my kids. As a dad I know the chances of getting fair custody of my kids is 0%, as we are both professionals and have a spotless record. Counseling is out since we both work in that profession. Ideas would be appreciated as well as opinions. I have a 4 y.o. daugther and 1 y.o. son.

2006-09-13 12:34:01 · 25 answers · asked by Charles B 4

can you tell if you couple is having an affair?
what signs can help you detect the truth if you have the doubt?
if it was to be truth what would you do or say to him/her?

2006-09-13 12:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by CHIQUITA 2