Marriage & Divorce - 13 September 2006

How many orgasms is normal for a woman and can you have too many ?

2006-09-13 09:15:24 · 3 answers · asked by aurageorges 1

we broke up sunday i love her deeply still i cant eat or sleep or get my mind off her

2006-09-13 09:12:07 · 12 answers · asked by dieseldick3408 2

I am not aware I am a pervert or anything, just a nice honest bloke.

2006-09-13 09:11:14 · 20 answers · asked by Blendin 1

His Pros: He works approx.16 hours per day/7 days a wk, pays all bills 4 last 9 months since wife has health issues. His cons: He has custody of 5 kids (2 R over 18). He refuses to help w/behavior of his children; he never spends time with his wife 1 on 1 even before children came to live w/them, when she was working. He thinks marriage should be on auto-pilot. Her Pros: She's the only adult member of house who's not illiterate. She does all of the paperwork for the home, helps w/homework for all kids (none of which are her's biologically), goes to PTA , attends parent teacher conferences, chauffeurs kids wherever they need to go (when/if he allows her to use his vehicle since they only have one). She does all of husband’s paperwork, taxes, negotiations w/employers, etc. Her cons: 2 yrs ago (yr 3 of marriage) she started to drink and, now needs 10 beers a day not even to get a buzz, just to keep away DTs and horrific scarry hallucinations. Who's the most screwed in this situation?

2006-09-13 09:07:20 · 4 answers · asked by Book Diva 2

What was the process???

2006-09-13 09:06:39 · 13 answers · asked by **What??** 4

Why are x wifes so bitter, she is making our lives hell at the moment, there are two children involved. This must have an impact on them. She doesn't know when enough is enough. Always ringing and putting my husband down, harassing him. Has anyone else had experiences of this kind.

2006-09-13 09:06:38 · 14 answers · asked by janey 2

My husband couldnt get our new car seat installed in the parking lot of Target, so he was upset and returned it. On the way home he kept yelling at me over and over (our baby was in the back seat) I didnt want him to return it (last one) I just wanted him to stop yelling, especially in front of the baby. I told him I would get out if he didnt stop screaming. So he tells me to get the "F" out. Backround: Im pregnant with our second, it was 9:30 PM and dark, in a town I didnt live in. He left. He just never came back! He took our son and just left me there. I left 2 voicemails telling him I was cold and didnt want friends to know he left me. I cant wrap my head around this. We have been in counseling recently, he has major problems with feeling inadequate And I have problems giving directions.

We havent talked for two days (Im staying at my parents) Im 34; no young kid. What should I do? I mean would a man no matter how angry just do this if he REALLY loved his wife? HELP

2006-09-13 09:06:05 · 21 answers · asked by Loosid 6

serious answers only, just a kid who needs a story about divorce, and how stressful it is.
Thank you.

2006-09-13 09:03:51 · 3 answers · asked by susan s 2

has never been married, has no kids, and is still renting (no house) attractive?

2006-09-13 09:03:20 · 9 answers · asked by hockey70 1

Recently i've switched positions at my job where i am only guy in dept. and there are women flirting with me.I am also flirting back as well as giving advice when asked but i want to know am i doing anything wrong.My wife says flirting is cheating but what do you think.

2006-09-13 09:01:42 · 16 answers · asked by Albert W 1

my husband of 3mo. thinks that there should only be one person in conrol of the income mine and his i have three older children that are not his but he has helped me raise for 17years we have one together he is 7 know i work out of the house 8 hours a day he also works 8 hours anite and dose interperting at the courts in the days so i my daughter recently has recived ssi for cancer and he wonts to be in control over that money also if he buy me something out of his money i usual have to pay it back or i,ll hear i took u out to dinner i asked him for gas money why did i do that he,s like i should not have to ask him for money if i did not give him my check first of all the ssi has nothing to do with him and second i have to pay $200 a monuth for child care for our son and still take care of my other two teens who if anyone has any knows there cloths and shoes are not cheap and help with the morage and house hold bills i make $10 dollars an hour he makes $12 and interpenters make good mo

2006-09-13 08:49:41 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have been through a stressful divorce, i need your story!
Thank you!

2006-09-13 08:48:29 · 12 answers · asked by susan s 2

2006-09-13 08:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Suddenly, husband of 15 years "doesn't know what he wants". I sometimes get the feeling there is someONE else (tho he denies it). Should I wait until he "knows" what he wants or try and leave with some dignity and not just stick around waiting for him to love me back?

2006-09-13 08:43:33 · 11 answers · asked by Canada 1

2006-09-13 08:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by tajenka 1

Even when the ex was not evil at all?

2006-09-13 08:39:05 · 26 answers · asked by Alijoy 1

I shot myself in the foot perhaps early in the relationship by joking about 'never getting married again'. But since then we have moved in together and have been very happy for years. I know it sounds silly but refering to him as my 'boyfriend' is just driving me crazy!! I'm 32 and everytime, I say it I feel like I'm either back in high school or people think I'm not rooted. Besides that, the tax benefit and health insurance benefits are worth a possible $500 divorce (un romantic, I know but practical). He's very shy and had admitted that he's so happy that I suggested we move in together because it would've taken him awhile to sum up the courage. I don't want to propose to him because he is so eager to please, I'm afraid in the future I'll wonder if it was really what he wanted. How do I let him know I want to get married very SUBTLY? Besides this issue we have a very communitcative relationship.

2006-09-13 08:38:12 · 17 answers · asked by jody s 1

Do you accept yourself physically?
Is there anything you would change?
Or HAVE you changed something already ???
thanks

2006-09-13 08:37:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long have you been married?
What is the average number of pounds per year she's gained?

2006-09-13 08:33:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I am addicted to "cybering". It turns me on sooo much to meet and talk to guys on here...wouldn't be a problem except I am married.

2006-09-13 08:31:29 · 15 answers · asked by justhanginout 2

It's true.

Don't get married, just have a lot of sex.

Me and my boyfriend do just that. We're dating and in love, have crazy sex, but we will never get married because right now he would need parental permission.

Once he's 16 (11 more months!) we're planning on running off together and living in a big house with lots of beds ;) ;) ;)

Doesn't that sound much nicer than stuffy old marriage?????

2006-09-13 08:30:51 · 29 answers · asked by Zero 1

For those who are divorcing or are divorced:

At what point in your marriage did you realize that your marriage would not make it?

Did you realize you had nothing in common, was it infidelity?

How long were you married when you realized this?

I have known people who say after 5 years they knew it would end, but remained married for the kids for several more years.

I was wondering if people see the end coming way before it actually happens.

(I am happily married, but just curious)

2006-09-13 08:28:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with another man. I am not saying I don't love my husband, but it is a different kind of love. I respect and admire the other man - I don't my husband, he is more like a friend/brother.

I have NOT cheated. I have not disclosed how I am feeling to either party. My love currently has a girl friend (they don't live together). But, he MAY only like me as a friend. My intuition tells me otherwise though.

What do I do? Do I move out of my home to an apartment and tell my husband I am in love with someone else, or just tell him I am not fully satisfied with our relationship?

And do I live alone and pine away since the man I love is with another woman? I guess I am asking is it better to live alone without the one you truly love or instead stay with someone you love but not as deeply, who loves you for sure? This is tough.

2006-09-13 08:23:13 · 23 answers · asked by Shebaby 3

Whether you marry at 20, 25 or 35, you will constantly change as you age.

I have know couples who married in their 30's figuring they were "safe" from divorce at that age, only to divorce 15 years later stating they "grew apart."


My parents and grandparents are all still married. And they are still very happy, I see them compromising and communicating when they disagree. They seem to let the little things go and just ENJOY each other. That seems so rare now a days! I think that's how they have learned to grow together after so many years.
In your opinion:

As a married couple, over many years, how do you grow together instead of growing apart?

2006-09-13 08:21:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my husband is cheating one me. My cell phone bill has given me tons of evidence to support this, however, he denies it and so does she. I have already installed a keylogger on my computer, and so far it hasnt revealed much of anything, except my husband is obsessed with porn, but, yes, I have made mental notes of all passwords and will check his emails frequently. What I am looking for is for a sure fire way to catch him and confirm my suspicion or to ease my mind. If anyone has any ideas that have worked for them, please share. Oh, please avoid recommending buying books or downloadable advice you have to pay for. My husband keeps a strict budget and I would have to explain any out-of-the-ordinary expenses. I dont have my own stash of cash, we jointly share everything.

2006-09-13 08:21:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you have dependant children? How long were you with him/her? How hard was it?

2006-09-13 08:20:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 08:07:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been single for while after now after leaving a thirten year relationship. I found out he'd had son he'd 'forgotten' to tell me about. We were engaged, bought a house etc etc. The thing that hurts the most was the covering up his family did for him the whole time we were together, and if he'd told me when I first met him it wouldn't have made a blind bit of difference.

The whole experience has left me with a deep distrust of anything anyone says. I want to move on, but after spending so long with someone who lied to me about something so personal, how can I ever believe another man?

2006-09-13 08:06:52 · 17 answers · asked by tc 2

My ex has a new life and girlfriend and I have moved on, but the very thing he claims that gave him pain is the very thing he wants back into his life.

2006-09-13 08:02:36 · 16 answers · asked by babydoll 1

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/here4you
Help please
Controlling behavior- decides where you will go, who you
are "allowed" to see, is bossy. gives orders and expects them to be
followed, makes all the decisions in the relationship, does not
respect your opinions, wants and needs, tells you how to dress,
accuses you of things you didn't do, everything has to be his/her
way.

Isolation- through behaviors or words tries to have you all to
him/herself. Does not like you to be around anyone but him/her. Sees
friends and family as competition. Expects you to stay home alone if
you are not with him/her.

Blames others for problems- does not accept responsibility for
his/her behavior, always thinks others or the world are out to get
him/her, sees everything as anyone and everyone else's fault but
his/her own, will not hold him/herself accountable for words or
actions, always has an excuse.

2006-09-13 08:02:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous