Marriage & Divorce - 13 September 2006

is seems like i like making love more than my husband.. it hurts me everytime he pushes me away when i ask him to be intimate with me. we have a long distance relationship, we see each other twice a year, for just a month or 2. so every time were together i want to get initmate.. i like giving him a man wants but i get so down when he says no to me :( is there a problem with me?

2006-09-13 12:31:03 · 18 answers · asked by addiee 3

I'm recently divorced for the second time. My ex was incredibly insecure and was giving me a hard time because at 30+ I don't look 25 any more and I want a steady career because I can't be a model forever.

My problem is that he is one of these guys that everyone likes and I'm a woman who everyone has always joked about how many guys I must have because I'm fairly good looking even though I've never actually been promiscuous. During the divorce my husband hinted heavily to a lot of people including my family that I was cheating. I was doing no such thing but he was very mad because I wouldn't give up my career to be his housewife. Everyone believed him probably because they found it so easy to think the worst of me when I was the one complaining about him all the time.

What I want to know is whether other divorced women out there have had this kind of experience with a lying ex. Is there any way to clear your name or do you just look forward and try to do your best from here on out?

2006-09-13 12:26:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Apparently, it is to give you time to prepare for the wedding but does there need to be such a fuss. why can't it be that the couple just tells people that they are in getting married in for example march and start planning instead of gettin an engagement ring and usin the proper term of 'fiance' while engaged. If am being extremely cynical, i would think its just a ploy for the ladies to get a ring.

2006-09-13 12:19:19 · 21 answers · asked by Quiet Storm 2

I'm married to a wonderful man. However, it's been a concern of mine if he still harbors feelings for an ex girlfriend he dated years before he met me. I knew they were friends after they broke up and after he and I married, we started hanging out in a group along with her boyfriend. At first I didn't mind and I never felt anything between them, but lately my thoughts have bothered me enough to not take any chances and I told him I didn't want him talking to her anymore. At first it bugged him but now he promises it doesn't matter to him one way or the other. He insists he only thinks of her as a friend and has no interest in her, but little things he's confided in me (like expressing his concern over her well-being of jumping around from guy to guy) really settles in my mind and no matter how many times I ask, he always insists there's nothing there. He's never cheated on me and I fully believe he never would, but I still wonder if there's more in his heart than what he's telling me.

2006-09-13 12:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by barkbarkshark 1

I've seen it, I've lived it, I've heard about it.
Are these the usual tendencies, based on gender?
Is there another way of looking at it?

2006-09-13 12:10:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies,

Would you be offended if your spouse asked you to go down and finsh him off after he's already been in you?

I personally dont think that is too much to ask but for whatever reason that request upset my wife. She prefers to either just give me a BJ and finsh me off that way or for me to just do her and finish that way..

But she has no problem asking me to go down on her after I have been in her. She claims it's different.

2006-09-13 12:02:50 · 36 answers · asked by RedEye 3

2006-09-13 11:52:28 · 8 answers · asked by yourqueenofall 3

when my dad was little my dad's dad had an affair with another women.when my grandma found out she didnt divorice right away...well in that time the women he was cheating with had baby so he had to legally adopt her. i know where my "grandfather" works and would like to meet him. But I hate him sooo much.So when I go I wanna say something hinting towards that..but not saying im related to him..what should i say??

2006-09-13 11:50:53 · 16 answers · asked by Melinda=] 1

i mean i want to but its just that i did it before and some of his pre-come cme in my mouth and i almost pucked. i never tried again it grosses me out

2006-09-13 11:48:22 · 30 answers · asked by motherof3 1

What is it about our society that doesn't give a second thought to getting married and then getting divorced? Are people not choosing their future spouses correctly? Do people not really know their future spouse well enough to get married forever?

2006-09-13 11:44:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

after about 6 months seperation, even though we live in the same house, I'm hoping that my wife will be my love and wife again, after 18 years and 2 lovely children, the marriage went stale, she wanted her freedom, so I let her have it, I left her a post it today asking if she would go on a date with me next week, I've had no answer yet, but she has just came home from the pub and said goodnight, the first time she has really said anything and ment it in months, I don't want to give up on her, she's my life, I need help not to **** it up, excite her but not pressure her, please please help.

2006-09-13 11:43:46 · 18 answers · asked by saxons_uk 1

What are you planning to do with it?

2006-09-13 11:41:54 · 13 answers · asked by rainfingers 4

I realize love is sacred. But, in this day and age LOVE doesn't pay the bills. I feel marrying your best friend is great. You can always tell your best friend everything. Do you believe this?

2006-09-13 11:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by always 4

Say you are a married female and you have a lover (no dating-just sex) outside of your marriage-- what's this guy called? Is he still called a boyfriend?

2006-09-13 11:32:21 · 29 answers · asked by suebdoo518 2

MY husband has sex with me and turns over and goes to sleep. He give me no attention whatsoever during the day. If hes not working hes watching tv or playing his play station and doent care what I do or where Iam at so long as he is occupied.

2006-09-13 11:29:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Ohio in Franklin county and need to request a hearing for divorce issues. I no longer have an attorney and need to know how to fill out this request. The court is of no help.

2006-09-13 11:29:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

hoping to change her man and a man marries hoping his woman will never change?

2006-09-13 11:18:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

im new at this so bear with me.try to answer my other question.thanks

2006-09-13 11:18:03 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 11:17:55 · 33 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 1

2006-09-13 11:08:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was good on the rent for the first year of our marriage, but after that, no. I told her "If you are going to live under my house, you will pay rent." I am fed up, should I kick her out?

2006-09-13 11:08:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a very picky person i neveer tried oral sex and is not planning on doing it untill im married and it will be hard for me to ajust to that type of practice. but will my husband think im a slut?

isnt it nasty if lets go in your mouth?

2006-09-13 11:07:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

latley she has been treating him unfairly and in effort to get her fired he says he was going to make up a story that she tryed to get him into bed and i got mad because i thought that must have been true for him to think of that but he says thats the only thing he can think of to get ther fired.Does it seem like he's lying,for the record he is an otherwise trustworthy man.thanks.

2006-09-13 11:06:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with my girlfriend but we have been together since we were 18. I am 21 now and I feel like I need to experience other things on my own for a while before it gets to be too late. We are going to take a break right now and I would hope we find each other again, but I don't know if this has actually happened successfully before. We love each other and we don't want to have a relationship with anyone else, so I am hoping this works out. Any previous experience with this would be helpful.

2006-09-13 11:03:31 · 18 answers · asked by Big Timer 1

I am hearing the whispers.

2006-09-13 11:02:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes your boyfriend doesn 't like to check his e-mail in front of you.
Do you think that he is trying to hide something?

2006-09-13 10:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by CHICA24 2

Our marriage has been in trouble ever since I stopped working(due to trying to go back to school & open up a business), my husband has been very disrespectful and very distant with me. Yesterday, he left and I haven't heard anything since, so I need to know what I need to do because I don't work and we have 3 kids. Serious answers only please

2006-09-13 10:57:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 10:51:22 · 52 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 1

Or is that too harsh?

2006-09-13 10:50:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend Rocio is married. she loves her husband but lately he is treating her bad. they have sex not like they use to. and she met this guy that treats her much better and the problem is he is also married and she can;t stop thinking about him, she just waits for the time of day to see him... is that wrong? What should she do? She asked me what she can do, but honestly i don't know what to tell her Help me people please?

2006-09-13 10:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous