im a very picky person i neveer tried oral sex and is not planning on doing it untill im married and it will be hard for me to ajust to that type of practice. but will my husband think im a slut?
isnt it nasty if lets go in your mouth?
2006-09-13 11:07:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yahoo stared it out i meant sl ut
2006-09-13 11:10:11 · update #1
It's great that you're picky. You can't just go down on any old body. I commend you for that. But once you do get married you should do whatever your man likes in the bedroom and vice versa. I think you'll be surprised to see just how much of a turn-on it can be for YOU once you see how much it'll turn him on. ;)
2006-09-13 11:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Nocturnal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to get used to doing that for him and him to you. I is a little nasty to start with but some men taste real good and others don't taste good at all. If you decide not to ever do oral then your future husband should understand. When you get married, both of you will grow with each other and figure out what each of you likes and dislikes about having sex. AND no you wouldn't be considered a sl## to give oral to your husband. You would be considered one if you practiced it on 50 guys.
2006-09-13 19:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little bit...I always said that I was never going to put a penis in my mouth, but when I fell for the guy I'm with now, things changed. I knew that he loved that type of pleasure, and me knowing that I held that power of delivering the ultimate high for him, was actually quite amazing. I always told him at first to pull out just before, and it was fine, till one time, I guess he didn't quite expect it to happen so quickly, and he ejaculated in my mouth. It wasn't as nasty as I thought that it would be, and he enjoyed it that much more when I swallowed. Not too sure why, but he said it was hot...a girl always loves to hear that. I think that your attitude will change when you are with the right guy, cause no matter what the two of you do together, you'll want to do it together, learn from it, and grow with it. If at any time you don't feel comfortable with it, tell the guy, and he should respect you enough to stop, pull out or whatever it is you want.
2006-09-13 18:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband will love you for who you are. Oral sex is another expression of sexual love. You both should discuss it together. Communicating with each other will put you both on the same page. If you both are comfortable with it then go for it. If you both don't feel comfortable with it then your relationship will be just fine. Just make sure you talk about it.
2006-09-13 18:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by RelationGuru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only found one woman who did not like to go down and it just the same for most men who like to eat their feamle partner. It alway's feel's great for a man to have a woman take it in their mouth and swallow. This does not make you a sl ut.
2006-09-13 18:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan Wilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know till you try it and do not just try once and say yuck! It took me a few times before I relaxed enough to start enjoying it...both giving and receiving. You will find that the control you have over a man when giving him a BJ is amazing! What ever you do just relax and enjoy.
2006-09-13 20:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by hope4best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot more important things in a marriage than just oral sex and when i get married if my wife likes or not that's her choice i still love her no less.
2006-09-13 18:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he loves you , he'll understand . he might be happy you never done it before , some of these girls today are so nasty , they suck every guys penis . at least he'll know you are clean. practice on a banana until you get it right. in order to do oral it has to go in your mouth lol.
2006-09-13 19:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriend said its not nasty but its weird, so do what you want. but if your gonna wait why not tell him that your goin to kinda in a joke type way and see where it goes....maybe it will work, good luck though. oh and if he thinks your just kiddin, then kinda lead him into it and just act as if you know what your doin and dont be ashamed
2006-09-13 18:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are obviously curious. Nothing wrong with doing it. I love to do it! Are you asking if your husband will think less of you if you do it? I know men.......he ain't gonna think any less of you ! LOL!
2006-09-13 18:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋