My friend Rocio is married. she loves her husband but lately he is treating her bad. they have sex not like they use to. and she met this guy that treats her much better and the problem is he is also married and she can;t stop thinking about him, she just waits for the time of day to see him... is that wrong? What should she do? She asked me what she can do, but honestly i don't know what to tell her Help me people please?
2006-09-13 10:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she just need someone to care about her to love her the way she want. I feel that it is not wrong to love another guy as women need emotional care and that guy can give her....
2006-09-13 21:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might sound wrong but she if isn't with a guy she loves then it would be wrong to stay with him and lead him on as if everything is okay. She might say she loves him but if she is cheating, thinking, and waiting to be with the other guy; Does she really love him? She is probably better off not being married now...
She is lusting for two different people. If the reason she is cheating is because they don't make love then she should talk to him about it. She isn't keeping her vows to him and that's wrong.
2006-09-13 17:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Rocio starts to feel like her world is coming down, she deserves it, she should have told her husband how she felt first, before she disrepectfully and horishly, Betrayed him.
Get it out now before she ends up on cheaters.
2006-09-13 17:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by marnold7714 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to have an affair with the other man. Tell her to talk to her husband and try to work things out with him. If she can't work things out with him, then file for divorce. But tell her if she has an affair with this other man, she will FOREVER regret it. I'm telling you forever. The guilt will eat her alive. Best if she separates from her husband before seeing anyone else and it SHOULD NOT be a married man.
2006-09-13 18:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to stop seeing this other guy IMMEDIATELY and work things out with her husband. A relationship will only dwindle without communication. She needs to be honest with her husband and openly express all of the things that have changed and offer solutions on how to fix them. Best of luck to them!
2006-09-13 18:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Nocturnal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not going to help her or her troubled marriage. She needs to be an adult and sit down with her husband and workout this problem together. Cheating is only going to make the matter very complex.
2006-09-13 17:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is wrong for cheating, If she is unhappy she needs to communicate with her husband. He probably dont know how bad off the marriage is. Men are kind of slow. They made vows to GOD. she should honor them
2006-09-13 17:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is loOKing for permission to cheat, and when she is found out, (and it will be) she can blame you for telling her its ok, why don't you advise that two wrongs will never make a right. She needs to clean up her own marriage, not ruin another.be a good friend as she really needs one
2006-09-13 17:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason she is so attracted to this new guy, is because he is a new guy. If she wants to cheat then she needs to get out of her marriage first.
2006-09-13 17:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm YES!! She needs to try to work things out with the one she said I DO to.
2006-09-13 17:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋