I realize love is sacred. But, in this day and age LOVE doesn't pay the bills. I feel marrying your best friend is great. You can always tell your best friend everything. Do you believe this?
2006-09-13 11:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by always 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yourqueen-same sex marriage is only legal in Massachuettes.
2006-09-13 12:28:55 · update #1
LOL.....In a way you are right. Marrying your best friend should be one of the "specifics". But, what if your best friend was a girl? Should I marry her? I mean, you gotta have some feelings for the person you are marrying. You can't just wish and hope for something to come out of friendship. Love is not scary. Love is what you make of it. People go through break-ups and stuff every hour. It happens. Haven't you ever heard that money isn't everything? A marriage should concist of a few things, in no specific order: friendship, trustworthy, love, dedicated, always have there back no matter what. Everything does not fall in place. You have to place it. Marrying your best friend would be one of the greater things in life. But sometimes we have to look at reality, and say yes money does matter. You can't have good health if you don't have the money to pay for it. : )
2006-09-13 11:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by yourqueenofall 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Very true, love doesnt pay the bills but love united will conquer all, including bills. Love has no boundaries nor any time period so this day and age has absolutely nothing to do with anything. Love is still today what it was centuries ago, only the people have changed and the way they deal with todays challenges. You still have to be friends before you can become anything else. So having a best friend that youre in love with combines the best of all worlds, and you can talk about it and make up.
2006-09-13 18:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is the ONLY reason to get married. You can have all the money in the world and be with a jerk, have no life, no love but the bills are paid. Who cares about bills....love is by far the only thing that matters in the end.
2006-09-13 20:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by hope4best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no other reason I would marry for other than love. However, I guard my heart and am careful to not allow myself to fall in love with someone that is not compatable with my wants and needs in life.
If I were getting to know someone and considering developing a relationship, but found out that the person had financial problems or couldn't earn enough money to make ends meet, I certainly wouldn't allow myself to continue to fall deeper into a relationship.
Likewise, if I found someone that, on the surface, seemed to meet all the things I was physically looking for (financially responsible, etc), but the relationship never developed into a good one or a deep friendship, I certainly wouldn't (or couldn't) fall in love with someone that I couldn't be friends with or talk with.
God made us all, and when He did, He made someone compatable for us. If that person is not the "best" mate for me, then obviously that person is meant for someone else. And, why would I want to be married to someone's else's {intended} spouse?
Have patience. Your perfect match is out there. Don't jump the gun. You'll be glad in the long run.
2006-09-13 18:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Proverbs31Mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether you like it or not, Your best friend is the one you married for love, if you marry your best friend, but there's no love, guess what... the friendship you thought it was the best is gone.
When you marry for love, your marriage is blessed, and with love you overcome many odds in life, and you'll have enough to pay your bills because of God's Blessings.
2006-09-13 18:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I married my best friend and there's nothing that we can't work out together. Yes, I agree, it is great. U marry them because u love them, but when the going gets rough, it's good to know that u have a friend on your side to help u work it out.
2006-09-13 18:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you from experience - marry the person you consider to have a good heart with good intentions...........someone you can be best friends with. Everything else will fall into place. Dont fall in love with some thief or jobless person though.......
Marrying for money never works out.
2006-09-13 18:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely mary for love with a plan on how you are getting to get those bills paid. In the long run everything works out.
2006-09-13 18:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be married to your best friend and to be married to someone who is just there for money is going two different paths.
If you can live happy and be with someone that is compatible, have great communication, money doesn't matter as long as their is health and you have each other.
But when you marry for money, you feel unhappy, lonely, unwanted, and not loved. So why would you want, with money if you can't enjoy it with someone you love, and loves you.
2006-09-13 18:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by latina lover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never marry anyone you can't tell your deepest secrets to. The bills being paid don't mean **** without love. My husband is my best friend in the world, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
2006-09-13 18:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Miss E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋