She was good on the rent for the first year of our marriage, but after that, no. I told her "If you are going to live under my house, you will pay rent." I am fed up, should I kick her out?
2006-09-13 11:08:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I own the house and expect her to pay rent.
2006-09-13 11:47:18 · update #1
i don't understand do you mean she is late getting the rent to your land lord or do you mean she is late paying rent to you.?
surely you don't charge your wife rent do you ?
and don't worry if she is late paying the land lord you won't need to kick her out he will kick you and her out.
2006-09-13 11:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is a union where two people who love each other want to spend the rest of their lives giving and sharing and being an equal part of the relationship.
You are treating your wife no better than a lodger. Its is a disgrace. If you were my husband, the minute you told me you expected me to pay rent...I would have told you where to shove it and walked out.
Your wife is the one who needs the help to learn how to stand up to you. You seem nothing more than a bully.
I think you should kick her out because it will allow her the opportunity to find a man who is really going to love, nurture and cherish her. If you dont know how to be a loving husband to your wife, then give her the opportunity of finding a REAL man who will love her...Kick her out...give her that chance.
Youre not even a man's shoelace.
2006-09-13 11:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your mom pay the rent when you were a kid? If you are a real man, you should be paying all the bills and be supporting your wife. If she works, it should only be if she wants to work. Get some 'alls or put your 'alls to work. You should be glad she helped you out for a year. And by the way, you cant kick her out because you are legally married...and even if you arent married, she can get palimony from you.
2006-09-13 11:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
current wife? Do you split all even or you and her get different bills? Ain't the being married community bills. Sounds more like need to talk about other problems. This would sound more like a convenient relationship. Is she going out of the way to do other things around the house if she is not working that much? Is she having other problems that a husband should help her with?
2006-09-13 11:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you suppose to pay rent together it is called a marriage.
Look up the word marriage in the dictionary so you can know how stupid you are acting for trying to kick out someone you supposedly love.
2006-09-13 11:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR WIFE man come now get real be a man and pay your own bills matter of fact she need to kick you out! My husband take care of the rent and utilities I tried to help but he got mad and he don't treat me like a boarder. Because he is a 100% real man
2006-09-13 11:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Afrolicious35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a #1 asshole. If i were her i would never have even married you.. Being you wife she shouldn't have to pay rent. You are supposed to be the man. Having a decent job to pay the bills is also your responsibly too.. Marriage is a team and you should love her and respect her alot more than this.
2006-09-13 11:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by dragonfly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry she is in the process of finding a new husband who will treat her right and work as a team. Just hold on she will leave on her own or maybe she will kick YOU out and move her new man in. What makes you think she can't get the house in a divorce. Just keep the mortgage payments up. Her new man will be wanting a nice house.
2006-09-13 11:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I do not understand. Never heard of anyone making their wife pay rent. You must mean something else? Are you a team or what??
2006-09-13 11:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by gary o 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your wife?? If your married you both work together to pay your rent not separately. Get a clue.
2006-09-13 11:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋