I think I am addicted to "cybering". It turns me on sooo much to meet and talk to guys on here...wouldn't be a problem except I am married.
2006-09-13 08:31:29 · 15 answers · asked by justhanginout 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for all of you know it alls.......i spend plenty of time with him....not that he really cares.....I sit here and wait for him and for what i might as well not even be here
2006-09-13 08:34:42 · update #1
You are addicted to the rush of it, you know it isn't right and you need to stop. You need to go cold turkey don't log into chat rooms at all and spend time reconnecting with your husband. Tell him you want your sex life to be more exciting. You are probably doing this because something is lacking sexually at home. Talk to him and reconnect.
2006-09-13 08:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by lovelovelyme23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question.....and you are addicted because you said your & your husband lack intimacy so you are using the internet because....and I quote " spend plenty of time with him....not that he really cares.....I sit here and wait for him and for what i might as well not even be here"
You are not getting what you need from your husband so you are replacing him with your cyber activity.
Sounds like the two of you need counseling or at least some upfront conversation about what is lacking in your relationship.
Him being absent isn't an excuse for your behavior, but it is an explaination.
If you have an addictive personality then you need to replace one behavior with something else.. A healthy replacement for you internet addiction would be to spend that time cuddling on the couch in the evenings with your man and feeling connected and loved.
Your question is a huge red flag that you are waving in hopes to make some changes so that you don't need to reach out to strangers for your validation and intimacy.
2006-09-13 15:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with you, it is addicted. I do the same thing myself, but my wife sometimes will come into my room to see whom I am talking to on the computer. She hates me for doing it, but I always find a computer to do it on.
It may not be right, but I am an addicted person with the same issues you have.
2006-09-13 21:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your problem probably stems from your marriage. You're probably not getting something out of your marriage that you're getting out of doing THAT. So I would work on your marriage if not I don't know if your husband is the guy for you.
2006-09-13 15:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by booyah-baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the question? Maybe you should spend a little bit more time with your husband!
2006-09-13 15:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by confusedbuthere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop cybering and get back to enjoying sex with your husband.
2006-09-13 15:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a life
2006-09-13 15:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's ok buddy if you're on the down-lo or whatever. Gay, straight, bi: be what you want to be, but do be honest with your wife.
2006-09-13 15:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I THINK.....therefore I AM...".......
I am thinking that you have a problem....
Has being married stopped you so far ?
If you keep it up...one day your husband
just might ask you..why are you here anyway ?
2006-09-13 16:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your asking us if it's ok to cheat on your husband? I'm glad I'm not married to you.
2006-09-13 15:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋