My ex has a new life and girlfriend and I have moved on, but the very thing he claims that gave him pain is the very thing he wants back into his life.
2006-09-13 08:02:36 · 16 answers · asked by babydoll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't let him because he's not gonna change and neither is his feelings toward ur kids. Oh he'll change for a short period of time and then he'll go back to not wanting it. Only cause you and your kids hurt and confussion
2006-09-13 08:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by geminiblue26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that your ex needs some therapy or something. Maybe he didnt realize how much you meant to him until he didnt have you anymore. Same with your kids. Maybe he didnt realize that he loved them as much as you do until he wasnt with you anymore. I dont know whether or not you should give him a chance. Maybe he just wants to come back and start things over with you. Maybe you should give him another chance. I dont know. Sorry. I answered the best I could. Hope everthing works out for you okay.
2006-09-13 08:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it very slow especially for the kids sake. You don't want to bring men in and out of your kids' lives, it really is damaging. Also, if he is going to work on a relationship with you and your kids, then the girlfriend needs to be completely out of the picture. Hope it works out.
2006-09-13 08:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares?...you've moved on...right? If you have you wouldn't give a moment's thought to what he'd now like. Why are you even talking to him. Let him flounder..as for you?...onward & away from the jerk..once a jerk...always a jerk. Don't make the same mistake a second time by taking him back...his 'new' girlfriend probably just got tired of him already..lol...
Don't worry about what he wants...don't even talk to him.
2006-09-13 08:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it as is,its not gonna be any different if he does come back you will only cause more pain for yourself and kids.
2006-09-13 08:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by alwayssmiling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound fishy. I wouldn't trust him The question is what is he really after you could probably answer that. If he uses your kids to get what he wants. that's just selfish and wrong look out for them find stability.
2006-09-13 08:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he realized he really loves you guys. If you miss him as well then you should give it a shot. Good luck!!
2006-09-13 08:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him back into your lives. Make him live with his decision. Be strong and make him stay away.
2006-09-13 08:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different girl, different kids, different situation.
2006-09-13 08:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋