She left today, same as one year ago: "I'm not happy". Only child age two, left him too. Last time she wanted to come home after 5 weeks. Suggestions welcome.
2006-09-13 15:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by Madji 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to develop a research project entitled "Methodology Development to provide sustainable happiness to wife" and do research on her for a longer duration. I am sure you will definately find the way out from your research output. You can even commercialize your findings man, many will be benefitted.
2006-09-13 15:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Biss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did it twice, now and left her 2 year old child as well? Don't you believe that both you and your son deserve much better than that. It's not fair to your child to have this woman coming into his life, then disappearing over and over again. Move on. A woman who would leave her husband and child is not mature enough to be a wife or mother.
2006-09-13 15:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-13 15:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by tetraedronico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce, ask for custody and child support. Obviously, she does not want to be married and it's cruel to make your child suffer the unpredictability and instability. At least if you are divorced and she gets alternate weekend visitation, the child will know she will eventually come back. And if she doesn't, you can raise him/her with all of the love and stability a small child deserves, free from her flaky interference.
2006-09-13 15:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy you are not doing the child any favors so be done. Call it a learning experience.
2006-09-13 15:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by creature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are going through this. Have you tried marriage counseling to try and figure out what needs to be different for her to be able to be happy in your marriage?
2006-09-13 15:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, do not take her back unless you want to go through the same thing over and over.
2006-09-13 18:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't live like that and it's terrible for your child. File for divorce and make sure you get custody of your kid.
2006-09-13 15:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by G.V. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take her back, move on with ur life, dont wait on her to come back and dont give her a chance to leave again
2006-09-13 15:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Sandeep S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things taken for granted too much! stop it....
2006-09-13 15:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by CH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋