I have this crazy fantasy that may be disturbing to some but it's something that I think about a lot.
It starts off with my husband coming home and without a word grabs me by the hair, drags me to the bedroom, and shoves me onto the bed. He ties my arms and legs to the bed posts while I'm face down. Then he blindfolds me. He still hasn't said a word. He again pulls my head back by my hair and starts nibbling my neck- more like biting. Then he goes down my body- biting and squeezing me. Then he slaps my butt a few times really hard. Enough that it stings and probably leaves marks. Then he starts having rough anal sex with me. I have never had anal sex so I don't know why I fantasize about it.
I know that's crazy but does anybody have similar fantasies or have I just lost my mind???
2006-09-13 12:45:38 · 24 answers · asked by T B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have NEVER told hime any of this. LOL I would absolutely die of embarrassment! But after 13 years, I'm sick of soft and slow. I want to be man-handled damn it! *L* Just typing this is making me blush. *L*
2006-09-13 12:53:25 · update #1
Fantasies are normal. There's nothing wrong with you. You should talk to your husband about it. As far as the anal thing, if that fantasy really happened, you would not enjoy the anal sex and you will be in alot of pain. If you decide to try it out, be sure to talk to your husband about it and give yourself about 3 months to get use to it. It takes awhile to learn to relax the muscles so that it doesn't hurt as much. Bottom line, talk to your husband about it. I'm sure he will appreciate your openness.
2006-09-13 12:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kingdom_Queen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual Fantasies are normal and natural. Don't worry yourself that's it's a little rough. Some women fantasize about being raped, but that doesn't mean they really want to be raped.
Sometimes it's pleasant to just explore. If this is something that you think you would like, but not sure how your hubby will react, tell him that you had a dream about it. After all, you can't help what you dream about can you?
That way you can see what his reaction will be. If it's positive, then start out slowly. Use scarves or neck ties for the restraints. have him tie you loosly at first. Just the thought of being tied is enough sometimes.
Either way, be sure you tell him exactly what you want, or you may be disappointed. And if it doesn't work out the first time, don't give up. Remember practice makes perfect.
Good luck and HAVE FUN.
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2006-09-13 13:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by TCPBCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, I didn't like anal sex (i had it when i was 8, but i don't remember feeling much.) My husband has this obsession with my butt. at first we would only do it on holidays, but as time went on we did it more and more. the good thing about it is that u get REALLY, REALLY WET when u do it. just have him use plenty of lube and go in slow, at least the first couple of times. by the way i have rough fantasies too. I wish i could act on them--even if it's not with my husband!
2006-09-13 13:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by peaches_18 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were talking about sexual fantasies only yesterday. Tell him what you have been thinking and get his reaction!! I think most guys would be interested on doing something different (kinky) Men love anal sex so i don't think he is going to say no...
If you guys go forward on this just remember if it gets out of hand he has to accept your decision and STOP.
I had a fantasy about being with another woman.. So it tested it..not with my husband and i felt odd, it wasn't what was in my head (fantasy wise)
Look... if your husband is easy to talk to go for it
2006-09-13 13:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 09:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of women have fantasies like this. Most of them may not admit it. The best thing about fantasies is that you can make some of them happen if you want to. If it is something that you want to try, talk to your husband about it. Have fun.
2006-09-13 12:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are going crazy.. Everyone has fantasies but some are just to shy to share them. I think you should talk to your partner about it, and take it from their. When ever I have a fantasy or my husband we talk about it and then try it. If we don't like it, at least we know we tried it. But if we do like it we continue to do it. If you don't take a chance in telling him about it, you might just be missing out in something you both might love.
2006-09-13 12:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal girl. Maybe it's time to spice it up with your hubby. You don't have to do that same scenario if you don't want. Although it could be fun! Ask him to share a fantasy with you. If you told him yours, he'd be jumping your bones before you finished! Have fun!
2006-09-13 13:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me and my husband seen stuff like that on porn and we decided to try it. ya it definatley gave me a rush i espically like it when im layin on my back and he is on top of me and he rubs his body (right above the bottom of his shaft) against my clit i cummed like 5 times or more i cant remember god...it was good. hope that wasnt to much information. and maybe u guys could jot this down on your things todo list. and this is coming from a woman who usually likes to keep things simple.cya
2006-09-13 13:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by some_person 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF You and your hubby are okay with this fantasy then GO FOR IT he will enjoy this, and most men will be jelous... it might sound fun for him & something new for you ....MY hubby & I do have fanatsies once in a while & we do really enjoy it IT'S fun & new for the relationship ..... GO for IT & have FUUUNNNN!!!
2006-09-13 13:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋