Can you tell if your couple...?

Question

can you tell if you couple is having an affair?
what signs can help you detect the truth if you have the doubt?
if it was to be truth what would you do or say to him/her?

Answer 1

Some statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct and 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. If you have suspicions, consider some of the following and be as objective as possible

Have you noticed a

Sudden increase in time away from home
Decreased sexual interest with you
Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming
Cheating husband or wife is often “unavailable” while at work
Cheating spouse attends new functions outside of work and wants to go without you
Cell phone calls from you are not returned in timely fashion
Cheating spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone
Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly
Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual
Mileage on car is high yet he / she reports only short distance errands
Clothes smell of perfume or cologne
Cheating spouse gets his / her laundry done independently
Unexplained payments on bank statements
Cheating spouse has more cash on hand without accountability
Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration
Cheating spouse now has a phone card but never used one before
Cheating wife or husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse
Cheating spouse has suspicious phone voice-mail messages
Cheating spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed
Internet web browser history list (this is a record of web sites visited) contains unusual sites or is irased often
Cheating spouse begins to use new or free e-mail account
Cheating spouse is suddenly deleting e-mail messages

Ask for explanation first but not before you have few facts.

Answer 2

You can detect a cheater by the following ways;
1) Coming home late
2) Stay at work later
3) Suspicious numbers on Caller ID
4) Suspicious Calls
5) Lack of Communication
6) Lack of Intimacy
7) Smelling of sex

If it were true I would say, "I can't believe you and the nerve you had to cheat on me after everything that I've provided for you. I hope you're satisfied with the decision you made because there will be no more US. I really, sincerely hope cheating was worth losing me.... You should've thought about consequences before going about an affair. Goodbye!"

Answer 3

Unfortunately some people have mastered the art of lying and can fool the most clever of people honey. I was cheated on. My husband was having an affair for about a year before I suspected anything. My advice to you would be to go with your gut, it rarely steers you wrong. And there is nobody in the world that can tell you what to say if it is true. I always told myself that if he ever cheated, I'd dump him, he'd be out, end of story. We had two children at the time and I was pregnant with number three....I didn't leave him, I did the complete opposite of what I thought I would always do. Every situation is different. You are the only one who is going to know what is best for you and what we plan to say isn't exactly what always comes out of our mouths in the heat of the moment. For your sake, I hope it's not true and you never have to go through that.

Answer 4

My modo is once a cheater always a cheater. I'm not bragging or anything but the guy i'm with we've been together for 3 and a half years. And we've had our ups and downs but he has never cheated on me. I say if you can't trust someone then you shouldn't be with them.Good Luck with every thing.

Answer 5

Computer is quite a font of information if you know how to look. There are spyware programs out there for purchase that allow you to track what's going on when he's/she's on the computer. Look into it.

Answer 6

I think you can know without having proof but do nothing til you have that proof

Then confront them and give them the real deal

Answer 7

Bah! This is easy...all women cheat. There, I said it.