I've heard that confidence is the sexiest thing, and that's what I want to be on my honeymoon. The wedding is in two weeks...help me, please!
2006-09-13 12:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It can often take more than 2 weeks to overcome a bad self-image! To start, though, you have to remember that your fiance is marrying you because he loves you and is attracted to you! He finds you beautiful, so why shouldn't YOU?
Next, stop looking at all of those ridiculous fashion magazines or tabloids, or whatever it is you look at that tries to tell you what a woman's body should look like.
ALL women are different! ALL women are beautiful. ALL women have their own sexy qualities.
What is it about yourself that you DO like? Figure it out and emphasize it! Go to a lingerie store and tell them that you feel awkward about your body, tell them what you don't like and ask if they have any suggestions about types of lingerie that my flatter your figure. You haven't mentioned if you are over or underweight or normal, so I can't give you any advice on this specifically.
Confidence IS the sexiest thing. If you feel out of shape, start trying to get some excercise, even if it's just slowly jogging for 20 minutes every day. That can boost your confidence a ton!
Keep reminding yourself that he's marrying you because he loves and is attracted to you! If you just remember that, and wear some sexy lingerie under your wedding dress, something that will surprise him, he will look at you with a "you are gorgeous" look and you will feel AMAZING!
GOOD LUCK! FEEL BEAUTIFUL! YOU ARE!
2006-09-13 12:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by J B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing on your flaws and each day point something good out that you see. Even if it's the littlest of things. Like your eyes, the way your hair turned out, your outfit, etc. Then start taking evening walks. On the walks, keep telling yourself it's going to make you feel better, you are going to look better and you have a goal to reach in two weeks. Then wait for the day to arrive. By that time, you will have lost about ten pounds, your confidence will be soaring and being sexy is going to come naturally.
Good luck on the wedding honey.
2006-09-13 19:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In two weeks? Start walking everyday that will make you lose some weight and have confidence in yourself. Do not worry about it your new husband will like you the way you are. Think positive. Take a deep breath and clear your mind of any negative thoughts.
2006-09-13 20:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to tell yourself that no matter what size you are, that you are beautiful. Don't worry about what others think. Most importantly, the gentleman that you are marrying in two weeks loves you just the way you are.
2006-09-13 19:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up at the rehearsal nude. The comments will either really boost your confidence or turn you off to wondering.
2006-09-13 21:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think about it the man chosse to be with you for many reasons, and when i n love your partner is the most beautiful creature alive. to him there is no one on this earth who is sexier than you.
2006-09-13 19:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH! exercise! if you start running and doing situps you will feel better, but you have to commit!
2006-09-13 19:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
buing sexy lingerie
2006-09-13 19:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋