Has anyone here ever wanted to be with another coup_e (m_n and wi_e)? My wife tells me that I am si_k to even think about it.
What is your honest opinion?
2006-09-13 13:57:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Done it!!! Swinging is very common. You still love your partner even if you want to do it. The biggest issue you will face is jealousy, especilly if the couple you hook up with is missmatched (one is prettier than the other, usually the woman). Finding a couple that both of you want to screw is the hard part. Most of the couples at swinging parties are old, or the woman is way more attractive than the man.
2006-09-13 14:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your wife, I would never want to share the intimacy that I have with my husband with another woman. Maybe you and your wife have a different kind of love for each other. That doesn't mean that you don't love your wife, maybe it just means that you don't love her the same way that she loves you. You are obviously willing to risk your marriage to some degree, after all you really don't know how your wife would react after seeing you with another woman. Your wife on the other hand, is not willing to risk loosing you. In any marriage, if you both don't agree on something then it is a bad idea for your relationship. So, in short...You're out of luck Bud. I know, ya can't hurt a guy for trying right? WRONG. Mention this again to your wife and then see who's hurting...Ha Ha.
2006-09-13 21:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not sick. It's perfectly normal and you'd be surprised at how many people actually do it. I use to bartend at a gentlemen's club and once a month, we'd host swingers parties in our back room. They place would be packed. I will tell you though, that this ended my fantasy as well as my husbands. Swingers, at least the ones we had at those parties, are NOT pretty people. It was a total turn off and killed any curiosity I may have had. You are better off sticking with porn.
2006-09-13 21:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find the 'group' thing appealing at all. Not only that, but I'd never consider it with someone that I was in an important relationship. (Husband/Wife) She may think you're a pervert for wanting to do it, but I bet more than anything she's hurt that you want to do it. Be satisfied with one woman as she should be the most important woman in your life. No need to mess things up by adding other people to the equation. Correction, no need to mess things up any more than you already have by adding more people.
2006-09-13 21:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her don't be so quick to judge something she hasn't tried. And the fact that you are communicating is wonderful. So, give her some thoughts.. blind fold her & give her the alusion that there is another person in the room. Do all things different and try something to drive her crazy..All these can help as well. Good luck and have fun.
2006-09-13 21:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I really never have, but my friend gets involved in swinging all the time and loves it. I personally could never be with another man while watching my husband doing it with another woman. It just goes against what my ideals are about marriage in the first place.
2006-09-13 21:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife is telling you the way it is don't push it it is sick and things like that end in a bad way most of the time so let it go good luck to the both of you
2006-09-13 21:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the type of person that beleives that if you have a thought of being with someone else, obviously your not in love and don't need to be with the person your with... If you wanna Swing... date around.... play someone... do what you do....
2006-09-13 21:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by nitefxgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't, I just think it goes beyond the whole marriage thing.
2006-09-13 21:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.. i already felt sick thinking abt it. Its not normal to think abt it. For me it suppose to be man and wife only!
2006-09-13 21:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋