Marriage & Divorce - 10 September 2006

Marriages seem to be statistically doomed.

2006-09-10 08:33:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

In these times marriage is starting to look like a joke with peoples childess ways its nothing like the past where the vows actually meant somthing and is marriage a joke now???

2006-09-10 07:57:09 · 24 answers · asked by crook_sta 1

She's lie's so much about things. She lie's about being sick when she's not and takes off from work. She calls in sick from work so much that we are behind on every bill we have. I ask her to get direct deposit started at her job then she quits one job and jumps to another. With her doing this I can't afford to buy things for my daughters. I brought a 3Brm house we can't afford and two SUV's. I started with great credit and now after being married to her my credit is shot. I work in the military and have another job, but it's not enough to pay ower bills. She complains about me barthering her when I try to kiss her. I love being passion with my wife but my wife does not. My wife even said she was faithful and I found emails to another man. I love her very much but she is forcing me to stray in the arms of another woman. I keep in shape but my wife has gained weight, but I still love her. Some associates say I should leave her, but I'm not a quiter on the other hand it takes two.

2006-09-10 07:52:43 · 13 answers · asked by maximumone2u 1

How do I let go of the man I promised to love "till death do us part" even though he is cheating on me? We've been married 15 years, the last of which he has been involved with another woman. I'm an attractive woman, intelligent, we share 2 beautiful children and I never thought in a million years this would happen to us. He is seeing a recently divorced woman (yes, they were together even before SHE divorced) 4 children under 7 years old and she is a little more than lacking in the smarts dept.

I guess I can see the logic as to WHY to let him go, but how do you tell your heart to follow suit? Any advice, suggestions would be greatly appreciated; nasty comments are NOT welcomed. I've seen a lot of posts here and even though I am opening myself up to rude comments, I would love to see some compassionate answers. :o)

2006-09-10 07:50:00 · 25 answers · asked by spudette70 1

Been married 2 years and we never french kiss. Not even during doing it. Is that how other married people act or are we strange? I think my huband sucks at kissing anyway and tastes like stale cigarettes.

2006-09-10 07:46:32 · 24 answers · asked by animal_mother 4

I've been seperated for over a year from My ex, I haven't heard from him for over a year, I found out that he's been in jail for 2 months for drug related charges. He called Me and says he wants to try again.that he still oves me and has changed. I do still have feelings for him but I'm afraid it's all lies.

The reason we split in the first place was because of money..he didn't want to work..I totally supported him. ..you know in the vows when it says for richer and poorer..soI put up with it for awhile.

Should I give him another chance...or forget about.?

2006-09-10 07:45:19 · 26 answers · asked by Catherinefaith 2

At school we were very gud frns,never in relation with each other, later departed for carreer building,now both of us r well setteled.Moms had gud talk last month & asked for my opinion bout him,I without thinking seriously said...puri zindagi ek joker ke sath,No Way....but now I feel I'll be very happy if I get married to a known family and a jovial and lovable person.Seriously very much confused.Pls help

2006-09-10 07:37:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Husband always force me to have sex even if i am tired or not feeling well. I agree that he is a very sincere person and loves me very much but when ever i try to tell him that honey i am tired he says that you are my only wife,lover,girlfriend and everything then why are you stopping me. And i always had to do it. I like to do with him but sometimes i need a break at least one day. How should i tell him so that he could not get hurt.

2006-09-10 07:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by salima_guriya 1

I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 1 month. We've had a lot of ups and downs, good times and bad, as all relationships do...
but lately things have been horrible. I am an insecure person, so sometimes I can't help but get mad that he is best friends with his brothers girlfriend. I try to accept that they're best friends because I am good friends with her too but when he is mad at her (like for yelling at his lil sister) instead of bitching to her about it, he bitches at me because he is TOO scared to yell at her since shes not his girl.Also, when we argue I never call him bad names. He constantly calls me names like *****, sl*t, whore, white trash (and he knows I am not white trash because I buy him THINGs and I own more gold jewlery and name brand clothes then he will ever own in his LIFE).
I told him it hurts&makes me cry and he promises to stop but everytime we argue he calls me those names again.
I love him but I hate the way he gets... what do u think? wat should i do?

2006-09-10 07:23:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-10 07:16:36 · 41 answers · asked by Cap'n Donna 7

Is it true that you guys are afraid of making commitment of a marriage? If yes why? and if no why?

2006-09-10 07:16:11 · 24 answers · asked by Nadia Miller 2

2006-09-10 07:11:58 · 27 answers · asked by johnny 1

I find it very difficult to . It seems that every person in my life that has said they loved me, were just waiting for the opportunity to tear my heart out, and stomp it in the floor in front of my eyes. Do you feel the same way, or do love freely, and openly?

2006-09-10 07:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by olderbutwiser 7

2006-09-10 07:00:02 · 17 answers · asked by olderbutwiser 7

Sister has no children, married a man who just won custody of his 5 children. The man can not read or write. My sister has to help all 5 children with their homework each night. It takes several hours each evening because they range in age from about 6 to 19 years old. When they have questions about schools, or when they need to be registered or when a teacher needs to meet with a parent my sister is expected to handle all of this. She helps them in the AM to get off to school. Husband leaves for work at 5am returning at 1am. The real problem is that her car broke down. They had limited money. She's not working currently. He told her to donate her car to charity (tax w/o) and he would fix up one of his 3 broken cars and give it to her because that was cheaper. She complied. The cars all are still broken down. If she asks to borrow his car he says no b/c he doesn't want anything to happen to it. She has never been at fault in an accident not even a speeding ticket. He's had many. Input?

2006-09-10 06:57:07 · 13 answers · asked by Book Diva 2

i was unhappy in our relationship, thinking of getting a divorce for other reasons, i met someone else that i want to be with. he caught me and wants a divorce, which is the best thing all around. but he is from another state and needs to stay with me until he can save up money to move back, which is fine with me cause i would never kick him out with out any money. but i feel really horrible for hurting him, and though he is angry with me, he is being so nice to me! we still care about each other and wish nothing bad to each other, but i don't know how to handle being "roommates" with him, it is so wierd!

2006-09-10 06:49:59 · 42 answers · asked by sweet serinity 2

i he always interested in other girls, when ever we go out he never cares about me, always interested in other gals, i not able to tolerate at all, but i want to be in this relationship

2006-09-10 06:46:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-10 06:36:31 · 16 answers · asked by pretty_dafodil 1

what do u do if you feel bored from the marriage,specially if there are a lots of sacrifices in return there is no appreciation from your spouse?

2006-09-10 06:28:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do u do if you feel bored from the marriage,specially if there are a lots of sacrifices in return there is no appreciation from your spouse?

2006-09-10 06:27:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

idk you tell me?

2006-09-10 06:22:22 · 26 answers · asked by thomaswoodsman1981 1

I went to a party about 4 weeks ago and had little too much too drink and woke up with my ex. bf naked at his house we apparently had unprotected sex. i rarely party and up till then had not for 6 months . i am in my second year of college this year and am terrified . i am pregnant with my ex. bf child . i have a bf of my own we dated for 6 months and were on a break when this happened. i attempted to call my ex. bf but his gf called me a liar. my bf was pissed when he found out and really angry because my ex. bf is his best friend but forgave me . But my bf told me apparently my ex.bf is married to this girl for 2 months now she was pregnant and it turned out to be a tubal and due to emergency surgery may never have children.

2006-09-10 06:22:14 · 17 answers · asked by jackie w 1

I found out five months ago my husband was having an affair. We were having problems in our 10 yr marriage - ones that I believe could be fixed with communication and counseling. When I found out about the affair I filed for divorce and it was final in 3 months. Probably some kind of record. Now I am focusing on getting our son through this mess. I am a woman who believes adultery is wrong and the worst thing you can do to someone. I believe in marriage vows. So why does this hurt so much? He is a lying, deceptive pig. Why is it taking so long for my heart to catch up with my mind??

2006-09-10 06:19:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it is for the best because he was mentally and physically abusive towards me. I was not the best wife eigther. I said a lot off mean stuff too. I am so sad because before we were married we were friends for 17 years. He lives with me for the time. How long will I hurt for? Anyone out there who has had a similar experience?

2006-09-10 06:15:53 · 12 answers · asked by Marie 3

I am a young 60 but need more in my life. I have a great job and I love it and great kids and grand kids but now I want to Find a little somthing more.

2006-09-10 06:14:34 · 8 answers · asked by psmiley 1

i filed for divorce this week. i feel awful - just not sure at all it was the right decision, and wondering if i'm making the biggest mistake of my life. i was married for 8 years and not happy the majority of the time - and even knowing i wasn't happy, it still feels even worse to have filed. is this normal or is this telling me i made a mistake?

2006-09-10 06:11:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women always say they want to make love...but don't you think f-ing is more fun once in a while? I think thats why people get bored with their sex lives. They don't f eachother's brains out enough:)

2006-09-10 06:08:38 · 10 answers · asked by sasha 4

I do want to be special for my new spouse......

2006-09-10 05:53:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my first love for over 15 years, married for 8. We are still currently married however due to miscommunications we both chose to date other people. We are both now in serious relationships, as soon as he gets back from Iraq we are planning to divorce, I am now 5 monthes pregnant with my boyfriend of almost 3 years and I am feeling so confused. I cant stop thinking of my husband. I miss him terribly. I know he is happy with his GF and it kills me that she took my place. I listen to sad songs and go through old pictures and memories in my mind. He was a good man to me and my 1st love my first for everything. We grew up together. I dont want to get a divorce now. i want him back even though I am pregnant with another mans child. The other man treats me like a queen. what is going on????

2006-09-10 05:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

my husband of 20 years left me after i let him come back he doesnt pay bills he says he never has money but always has money to smoke and gas in his car he stayed in motels for 2 years until he got fired from his job and now is living with him mom he refuses to see our 8 kids and i am strugglling he owe 7 grand in support i still love him but i dont trust him he continually accuses me of cheating and i am not i am working or at school or with m y kids i do love hime eventhough he doesnt do anything
i asked him for a letter of release to our old house and refused so i have decided he is willing to give do and have nothing for this family so i decided to divorce him even though i do love him i hate his racist mother she is a pain in the butt they mistreat my kids and i am just so lonely am i doing the right thing i just want a drug free lifestyle a little house and a safe place my kids came come home to is that wrong i have not completed college so i am doing that now i feel overwhlmd

2006-09-10 05:36:52 · 22 answers · asked by Larelle 2