My Husband always force me to have sex even if i am tired or not feeling well. I agree that he is a very sincere person and loves me very much but when ever i try to tell him that honey i am tired he says that you are my only wife,lover,girlfriend and everything then why are you stopping me. And i always had to do it. I like to do with him but sometimes i need a break at least one day. How should i tell him so that he could not get hurt.
2006-09-10 07:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by salima_guriya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You really should appreciate your husband a lot! But i understand that sometimes you don't feel like having sex....Here is what you can do: you can tell him that you are tired and you can offer to do something else together: a delightful hot bath, lovely cuddling, sensual kissing, candle-lit fantasy-sharing, etc. If sex is getting a bit boring or monotonuos, you need to think of some way to make it enjoyable again. Try with an extremely looooooooooong foreplay and navigate your husband to do what you want him to.......I am sure this will bring the pleasure back. You are not only going to like it, but also your tiredness will disappear! :)
2006-09-10 07:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you maybe his Wife ,lover,and girlfriend, but you are not his property! If he gets mad,don't worry,he'll be back. In away, that is a form of controlling you. And in some states it is consider rape. Let him think that over.
2006-09-10 14:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i wish my husband wanted me that much.. count ur blessings that he does, havent u seen how many girls on here are wondering why their husbands wont have sex with them or how their husbands never initiate sex anymore.. girl put up with it, cause one day it may all change and ur going to be wishing for these days back..
2006-09-10 14:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree you are not his property and he cant force you to do anything. If you dont want to you dont have to. Just be honest and explain to him how you honestly feel. Honesty is the best policy!
2006-09-10 14:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend yawned in my face one time.
That changed a lot of things!
Good luck.
2006-09-10 14:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, even if we dont have sex everyday doesnt mean i dont love you, it just we dont need to do it daily. we can do other things watch a movie, go shopping, go out to dinner, and just cuddle.
2006-09-10 14:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fake some wicked leg cramps or something?
2006-09-10 14:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not seem to worry about your feelings so why should you worry about his. Just tell him straight forward
2006-09-10 15:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there any way you can let him see this?
2006-09-10 14:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by stephaniewilliams414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur tired...
2006-09-10 14:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by KYthehumpit ₪scrappyboy₪ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋