what do u do if you feel bored from the marriage,specially if there are a lots of sacrifices in return there is no appreciation from your spouse?
2006-09-10 06:27:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well boredom isnt a reason to committ adultery.. theres no "good" reason or excuse to do that.. if ur that lost, then divorce but dont cheat.. so if ur not willing to divorce then that means ur still willing to figure out what went wrong in ur marriage. Marriage is about sacrafice. and unfortunately sometimes it goes with out appreciation.. sux but it happens.. the problems arise when one person is doing most of the sacrificing and theres never any appreciation.. so what do u do.. do u just go running to another womans bed???????why? what does that have to do with sacrifice or appreciation.. u think this other chic is going to appreciate u? hell she could be ur worst nightmare lol .. Use ur brain and figure out how to solve ur problem if u feel under appreciated then stop doing whatever ur doing.. if u feel ur sacrificing to much , then stop.. but dont look for excuses to cheat.. cause there arent any if u want to cheat atleast be grown enough to say u want to cheat instead of trying to excuse it..
2006-09-10 06:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't jump to an affair!
Instead, if you're bored with your marriage you should first try doing stuff with your wife. Take her out to a romantic dinner, have a picnic with her in the park, rent movies to watch at home while cuddling.
If after that you're still bored, you both should get marriage counseling. A marriage can easily be fixed with some communication and compromising.
Adultery will only make things worse.
2006-09-10 13:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
yeah some time its healthy coz after makin love, men feels his burden is lifted from his soul for some moments but usually it came bck the moment you leave the door on your way back home so choice is urs either go for a counsellin and try to solve the riddle in your marriage or get caught and break ur marriage for forever......
2006-09-10 13:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Victor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely NOT ... it creates guilt, low self-esteem, and breaks the trust of the relationship ... put that energy into sparking up yor marriage ...woo your spouse like you did in the beginning
2006-09-10 13:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your spouse about feeling unappreciated. And wear a condom...
2006-09-10 13:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfaithfulness is defenitely a negative thing, in no way this can benefit the spouse.
2006-09-10 13:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by etherberg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um yeah that sounds like ordianary married life to me.
2006-09-10 13:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is that what he told you ? it was only one night ?
2006-09-10 13:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave
2006-09-10 13:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋