Is it true that you guys are afraid of making commitment of a marriage? If yes why? and if no why?
2006-09-10 07:16:11 · 24 answers · asked by Nadia Miller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it's about commitment. I think that if one has set morals and standards and is financially able, one will most probably settle down for marriage. Most people that are promiscious have low standards and moral behavior and/or are not financially stable.
2006-09-10 07:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by synkronyzer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not a matter of being 'afraid" of commitment. Women are more emotional than men and so more prone to spontaneous or impulsive behavior. Men on the other hand are more rational that is to say we analyze and weigh the potential consequences before acting ,this often takes much longer.Obviously these are generalizations and not true in ALL cases ,but I believe in most cases to be true. I also believe a loving couple will come to the same conclusion even if at different times.
2006-09-10 14:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't speak for every guy but I'm VERY afraid of making a commitment unless it appears to be a good choice for both of us.
2006-09-10 14:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are yes. If they are they probably think there might be something better out there for them. They don't want to close the door on a better chick. In this case, they have "the grass is greener syndrome" and you should find someone new. However in rare cases its the girls fault. I have a girlfriend whos' man works every weekend. She goes out with her girls anyway. EVERY weekend. Comes home drunk etc. Its been 6 years and he hasnt popped the question. If I were him, I wouldnt either.
2006-09-10 14:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by itsmetia25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not afraid of making a committment. In fact I'm looking for some to committ to. But I am afraid that I might be committing to the right person.....
Of course I haven't found her yet...but I am seriously hoping to find her.
2006-09-10 15:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do but are afraid to sometimes. While dating women accept us as we are. But as soon as we say I DO they go out of thier way to change us. I am what I am. I am a REAL MAN, I DONT CRY I DONT SHOW EMOTION AND I LIKE SPORTS. What is wrong with that. Nothing that I can See. If I have something on my mind I will tell ya. Dont keep bugging me about how I feel or to show emotions. I wasnt raised that way and I sure aint starting now. You accepts us while dating lets leave it that way when we marry you.
2006-09-10 14:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girls have this terrible habit of being one way when you date and another after your married. so yeah freaked out that the girl i feel in love with is some facade that she created to be around me, and that she isnt into all the things she says she is. plus girls want to run way to fast on that side. ive known my guy friends for over 10 years and im still learning about them and it took me a while to get to know them and to let my own barriers down so 6 months not enough time to get to know someone but that seems to be a girl threshold for where is this going and the like. i need a little more time to decide if i want to spend up to 50 years with you. kinda big decision when you look at it like that.
2006-09-10 14:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, we are not afraid ... we just see no need for it since there is no longer any economic or social value to it .... women marched for equality, they got it and became more of a liability than an asset. they compound it with political correctness .. they want us hamstrung in speech and in deed ... now they wonder why we have no desire to be stuck in a commitment with very few pluses ... as long as we can still attract them, why settle down? they outnumber us in all age brackets and there will always be one around when you want one. be careful what you ask for, you just might get it
2006-09-10 14:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.Some men yes,because they want to live forever as singles men.Others are afraid,because are immature men and have not idea if they will marry with the right woman.Finally few of them know what they want, and what to do,so: they are ready and want to be marry.
2006-09-10 15:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no when you find the right person in your life you are never afraid of that, but if you are only doing time pass with the person you are intimidated of commitment
2006-09-10 14:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by akash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋