The major sign is staying away from home for long periods of time. starting arguments to lead to fights lying ever time you see them. **** like that or gifts out the blue just because.
2006-09-10 06:29:09
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answered by Rhonda S 2
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First of all, if they ever smell different, ask them why. If they say they got some new cologne, ask them to show you, and if they try to get out of it or say maybe later you may want to check it out
The biggest sign, loss of interest. if they aren't active in the bedroom, or they suddenly use new moves, it's a sign, as well as always being late home. If you have the day off of work when he does, tell him you have to work, then come home about an hour later, try to park your car away from the house and walk there. Go in quietly. To make sure he doesn't think YOU were trying to catch him, get him chocolate or something that he wants so if he isn't, you are "surprising him".
Also, whenever you get the chance, check his outgoing calls. If there are any you are unfarmiliar with go to google.com, and type the number, such as (123)456-7891 and then press search or whatever, and it may show the adress/name of the person. If it is a female, or even a male, keep track, see how many times he called the person, eventually, if it gets to be a pattern, ask him if hes ever heard of the persons name. If he says no, GO THERE or call them. Ask the person if they know your bf/husband "name" if they say no, you should be VERY suspicious.
-whitney
2006-09-10 06:34:39
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answered by thisxlifexisntxrealx2006 2
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Ok.. first sign.. they become emotionally distant from u.. suddenly they dont want to be touched as much, or kissed as much or feel the need to talk to u like they use to..
then they start actting happy one minute and bit*hy the next.. seemingly finding every excuse in the world to start an arguement..
Next they are always wanting to leave the house more often then ever before .. or wanting u to leave the house (usually so they can talk to whomever in private )
They start getting extremely defensive.. over things they never did before..
They act different.. and their typical daily patterns change.. example he use to go to bed by 9pm every night.. suddenly he's staying up till 1a.m. (usually waiting on u to fall asleep to either call, or use the p.c.)
So.. start watching the phone bills, hit redial on the phone when they've been home alone to see who was the last person they called.. go through the cars.. check the milage on the vehicles for when they say they are going out.. to see how far they really drove.. check wallets, purses, clothes..ect for anything suspicious.. go through the computer history.. to see if u can find anything there..
2006-09-10 06:38:35
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answered by brwneyedgrl 7
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1-They go into another room and whisper while on the phone.
2-Check their cellphone record for numbers you don't recognize.
3-They are inconsistent with stories.
4-They say they are working late but there is no difference in pay of their check.
5-They start fixing them self up more.
6-They want to try new things in the bedroom, out of the blue.
7-Unexplained receipts.
8-The feeling that something isn't right!
The worse thing is to let them know you suspect, start looking and gathering information. There are a lot of websites that can give you better things to watch out for. Hope this helps good luck!
8-They act differently.
2006-09-10 06:29:48
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answered by Cheryl K 4
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A married man that cheated on his wife once told me that the major sign to look out for is a change in routine.
good luck
2006-09-10 06:32:51
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answered by angel 4
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Hiding while they're on the phone, sending too many text messages, being out with friend more than the spouse and kids, getting new perfume and wearing it mainly to work, listening to a change of music, saying unfamiliar slang, not wanting sex as much, I don't know...that's part of what I've been going through with my spouse!!
2006-09-10 06:27:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Some signs include: "working late" at the office, a lot of secretive calls, a change in clothing or a sudden desire for weight loss
2006-09-10 06:24:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Sudden interest in a sport, hobby or past time, which does not include you.
Coming home late with flimsy excuses.
Lying.
Excessive mileage on their vehicle. You need only look through the window and write down the mileage and compare it when they return.
Spending less time with you.
General malaise.
Disinterest in things or activities they previously enjoyed.
Going lots of places without you.
Perfume or cologne, different smelling soap....*** in their undies...
sudden disinterest in having sex with you....
the list goes on and on...and on.....
2006-09-10 06:49:41
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answered by shortfrog 5
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1) Unavailable— when you call, they don't pick up and they never call you either.
2) Coming home odd hours of the night
3) Unusual numbers on caller ID
4) Suspicious Calls
5) Staying at work longer than usual
6) Lack of affection
7) Not saying I love you
2006-09-10 06:26:09
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answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6
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that is simple new clothes new cologn , the way your partner is talking to u, neglecting u , not paying attention, not being relyable, not returning calls, making up excuses not to see u, your partner is beginning to lie and not show interest in u or care
2006-09-10 06:56:07
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answered by Cat 4
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