i am married for 2 years, it not at all going well from the start,?

Question

i he always interested in other girls, when ever we go out he never cares about me, always interested in other gals, i not able to tolerate at all, but i want to be in this relationship

Answer 1

Then it sounds like you are going to just sit there and suffer, aren't you?

YOU need to make a change, he won't and you can't change him. You sound loyal, and need to find a man who is as well.

The best of luck, whatever you choose to do.

Answer 2

Dear Kiran ! i suggest you two option for yr problem, which ill request you to apply one by one.
1. try to make him in love with you. Be ready in good make up whenever he comes from office, hug him say u came late darling, I was waiting for u since long.Try to make the dish he like verymuch daily. also give enough time for his liking at home.
When ever you both go out , you plz make good prepration on you. wear clothes which he like u in,most.try to prais him he looking cute etc etc. Use this atleast 15 times.
2. If u still find no improvement. Make yrself dramatic for 15 days.
prais yr neibour males whenever u get a chance. Whenever U R out with him, prais some male infront of u. Also prais the couple enjoying with each other.
I hope within 30 days U will certainly see a drastistic change.
bye bye take care

Answer 3

that means he takes u for granted, first let him know ur importance, dont talk or meet him for a day or two and then when u do, hv a hearty talk and try to reson out. mayb hes trying to make u jealous or something. so first dont feel low, act with an attitude and dont be at his beck and call. he will come ur way himself, u dont hv to worry, even aft this, if hes the same, then he is not worth u and u deserve someone who treats u as an equal and gives u respect and feel proud of u. thats more important in any relationship.

Answer 4

Dear Bhabhi
Pls. dont ever think of breaking this relation,men are most of the time like that looking over other gals,tell me seriously Kiran don't u turn ur eyes towards gud looking people. U just think bout gud things u find in ur hubby,his love,his support,his caring attitude etc.etc. u'll get lots of merits in him.He loves u Kiran but ho sakta hai he might not be able to express his love.Shayad mera bada bhai bhe thoda unromantic hai to mai apni bhabhi aur apki condition ko similar samajh kar reply kar rahi hoon.GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

Do you guys have kids? because this man will probably end up cheating on you further down the road. Just tell him that you feel like your love is dying and maybe get marriage counselling?? also you can tell him it hurts inside when he never pays ne attention to you and checking out other girls. i hope this wouldn't be hard for you to tell him, because when you get married you are more like best friends than anything. you should be able to tell him stuff comfortably.

Answer 6

u married a little boy trapped in a mans body... he said his vows the day he married u but he didnt mean them , he only wants to be married when its convient to him.. instead of living by them every day.. He is disrespectful to u yet u want to be in this relationship.. so that tells me u have zero respect for yourself..
Stop putting up with it, stop enabling him to treat u this way or he'll never stop.. more then likely hate to tell u but ur going to eventually end up being one of the girls that is complaining that their husband cheated on them eventually if u dont do something about this behavior..

Answer 7

Have you told him how you feel?...does he care?..does he look at other girls?....what do you mean by interested ....do you mean he doesn't pay attention to you outside?....do you wear what he likes you to wear?.....if you have answered yes to more than 2 of these LEAVE him . Sorry darling work out why you want to be in that relationship. Obviously it doesn't make you happy !
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Answer 8

Do you look the same when you married him 2 yrs ago. We have a tendency to get comfortable with our partners and often forget about what attracted him to you. I f you have changed, get it back do all the things you use to do when you guys first met, try new things in bed, hell, if that don't work find you a sexy woman!

Good luck!

Answer 9

Sorry to say it but you sound very much like the old hound dog who was sitting on a sand burr howling with pain and was too lazy to move off the thing.

Answer 10

Study his tastes, what he likes in the other girls and try to do accomplish his longings.Be patient! The process will take time to yield but never get disheartned.Consult a psycologist.