what do u do if you feel bored from the marriage,specially if there are a lots of sacrifices in return there is no appreciation from your spouse?
2006-09-10 06:28:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Having done this, I can honestly say it could possibly save your marriage.
Many, many marriages would be just perfect, if the partners were more sexually in tune with each other.
A one night stand can either destroy your marriage, or strengthen it, depending on how well you are satisfied in the other areas of your relationship.
Not telling you to go for it here, but you do need to weigh all the options before proceeding.
Need to point this out .....
are you appreciative of your spouse? This is a 2-way street you know.....try showing your spouse more appreciation, and more appreciation will come your way.
As far as sacrifices go, what kind and how many does your partner make? Lots, if you think about it.
Try different rooms for sex, different times of the day, different positions, go for something new and exciting, I bet your partner can hardly wait for it.
Most of the time, a person cheats out of simple BOREDOM!
2006-09-10 06:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You communicate with your spouse and let them know what you want, find out what they want and start meeting each other's needs. Having a one nite stand is the same as commiting adultery and it is a sure way to end a marriage.
If your bored then starting finding out what rut your in and change the situation. By really understanding your partner and what they want instead of what you decide they want and get the same back.
A lot of people want to decide what the other person wants and then don't get in return what they seek! Look deeper into the problem and make sure your partner know what it is you really want then spice things up.
Good luck!
2006-09-10 13:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit with your spouse and have a serious talk to that person tel ur spouse how u feel .
If that does not work and your spouse still does not appreciate u, or pays attention to u communicat with u totally neglects u and does nothing for u maybe its time to move on with ur life get seperated or devorced find someone who wil excite u spend time with u and make u happy u deserve to be happy and have attention too
i would talk to my spouse if that doesnt work i would move on
no not one night stand that usually turns out a mess
2006-09-10 13:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a one night stand, you are only running from one problem into another not to mention the sexually transmitted diseases that are lurking out there. You need to sit down with your spouse and have a heart to heart.
2006-09-10 15:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by lessonslearned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, IT IS NOT HEALTHY,IT'S CALLED BEING UNFAITHFUL AND THAT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE, IF U R NOT HAPPY W YOUR SPOUSE U NEED TO TRY TO WORK IT OUT AND IF ITS NOT WORKING THAN U NEED TO GO DIFFERENT WAYS, IT IS DISRESPECTFUL , U NEED TO THINK ABOUT CONSEQUENCES ESPECIALLY IF U HAVE KIDS, WHAT HAPPEN TO "TILL DEAD DO US APART" PEOPLE NEED TO REALIZE THAT MARRIAGE IS SOMETHING SERIOUS AND NOT A TOY THAT U CAN PUT AWAY WHEN U GET BORED....GROW UP AND FACE THE WORLD
2006-09-10 13:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by j4eimh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it can't be healthy and quite frankly you're never going to convince anyone let alone your spouse of that.
You and your spouse should seek out couples counselling.
2006-09-10 13:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on hopw understanding is ur partnetr. or maybe, just dont tell hi about one-night-stand u did...
have a nice day...
2006-09-10 13:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by friendsseason9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced... It's better than cheating!
2006-09-10 13:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some toys.
2006-09-10 13:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO.............
FIX THE PROBLEM, DON'T CREATE MORE. LEARN WHAT IT TAKES TO MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK, AND APPLY IT....
2006-09-10 13:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋