Marriage & Divorce - 10 September 2006

Ok...i met this guy. he comes into my work during lunch. Well we started talking and he came over one night to hang out with me and my friend and we ended up hooking up. I know he is married but i just got out of a 4 year relationship and i wasnt thinking about him being married. I dont want a relationship with him or anything. But i just want to know will it be strange in coming in my work..It was just a one time thing

2006-09-10 16:36:51 · 22 answers · asked by WhatNow 1

My husband has a drug problem and I told him if he messed up and left us broke again I was going to leave, but his daddy is in the hospital dying hooked up to a respirator and thats the only thing keeping him alive and my husband is messing up again. This time he gave me all of his money before i left so he wouldnt mess up but I know he is probably just selling his fishing poles and whatever tools he has. Would I be an awful person if I left him knowing he is suffering from his dad being so sick and may not live? What should I do?

2006-09-10 16:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by stormyblythe 3

I'm in my 40s he's in his 30s with 13.5 years lead on his age./..any stats on how frequnetly these pairings lead to long term rshp/marriage/success??? help appreciated!!!

2006-09-10 16:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by violet femme 1

If you've been in a long-term marriage or relationship, what do you think has contributed to the success and happiness of your marriage/relationship? I'm asking because I'm curious as to what makes a marriage work. My parents (mom and stepdad) are married, but their marriage is a joke. They're not at all affectionate with each other and act more like roommates. I just have a fear that I won't have a really successful relationship or marriage because I've never had a good example of one. I have a bf that I live with, but our relationship isn't that great since I'm too stubborn and don't communicate well (I don't like to get emotional... although I'm female). If you've been in a long-term marriage or relationship, I'd like to know how you made it work.

2006-09-10 16:35:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has ADD, possibly Bi-Polar too. Our marriage is crumbling because of his disorders. He is like two different people. We are having trouble getting help because he is active duty military. I love him and don't want to give up on him, but I'm tired of him pushing me away.

2006-09-10 16:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs. Waiting 2

Do you remember where? who? what made it so great?

2006-09-10 16:27:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-10 16:27:13 · 29 answers · asked by 2BaD4u 4

The bible states that God hates divorce and I want to do the right thing.What do I do?

2006-09-10 16:24:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

first let me clarify. my sons dog of 13 years just got ran over friday. i posted about it in the pet section if you want to read more?? anyway now my wife is blaming me for the loss and is talking about leaving. now i am not perfect, but i dont drink, do drugs or hit my wife. she gets to stay home because i make good money. so why is she blameing me and saying i am a bad person and saying all of thesse ugly things ?? my heart is already dying because of my sons greif. wahy is she doing this and is it my fault. i didnt kill him. someone else hit him witha car and i tried to save him. help because i am devastated!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-10 16:21:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-10 16:19:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi i have 4 step-children there ages are 12,9,8,5 and i have one of my own to there dad she is 1 1/2. And all i get every day is b***s**t from the 2 older ones i have found a letter (and no not by looking) that said that if there dad does not shape up he is going to loose his kids and i have to leave them alone and keep my nose out of their stuff and stop telling them what to do i have had these kide for 3 years now and nothing has changed they keep telling there mum that i am every thing under the sun and then after their mum hasent rang them for a month or two they start telling me how much they hate there mum and no i dont join in on it. so please help me what do i do i dont want to leave there father and i dont want my daughter to have to loose her dad. Please help!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-10 16:17:52 · 11 answers · asked by cowgirl85 2

How do I get my husband over what someone previously suggested might be a "Madonna Complex" after we had a baby 9-months ago?

2006-09-10 16:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex husband expects me to forward 130.00 to my child who lives away at college each week. According to his way of thought the money is hers. She stays here during breaks and Summer. Am I obligated to forward her the money? I maintain a lovely home for her and her siblings year round... Is there a lawyer in the house?

2006-09-10 16:05:54 · 12 answers · asked by boop5492 1

I started a "blog" 360 page on a whim one Saturday, added about five entries in a month just figuring it out. Put on some pictures of my family , then showed her what I was doing after the five entries,and she blew her top,since I hadn't told her for the whole month. She says "blogging is wrong and dangerous" made me delete all and I tried to remove from the web.
I think having a blog is just fun and I still want to and just leave comments about her and my kids out. She says now it is about trust and she doesn't have any now Anybody want to comment to us their opinions?

2006-09-10 16:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I suspected an affair for the entire time. He aggressively denied
it, even implying that I was "crazy". He cheated during my whole
pregnancy. He never used condoms with her. Ever since then ,
4 years ago, I am unable to trust him. He claims he'll never be
unfaithful again, but our relationship is not the same. I'm even
wondering if he was in love with her. He did tell her he loved her
and explained this by stating he said it only to get what he wanted
and that was sex. I'm so confused. I can't start over unless I'm
sure. He seemed really sorry. I made him go for a variety of
tests to make sure he did not contract anything.

Two weeks ago, he "accidentally" said her name while talking
to our daighter. Her name was Laverne. Instead of saying
Avril Lavigne, He said, Avril Laverne. I feel that she is still on
his mind. I feel he isn't being honest with me about his feelings.
Please advise.

2006-09-10 15:59:26 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1

My wife left me for another man about ten years ago. Well, last year I won a significant amount of money from the lottery. I'm set for life. Now she wants to come back to me. Am I wrong to tell her to get lost?

2006-09-10 15:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by samson316 3

I am 22, married, and starting a great career, but I feel lost. I feel like this isnt the life I am suppossed to be living. It is almost like I fell into some mold. I am proud of my acheivements and the things that I have accomplished. But this isnt me, I have become what others want to see.

I am still trying to figure out how I got to this point. Like I was myself one day and this person the next. But now I think I am in denial trying to convince myself that "this is it" this is what life is made of. I feel I am in so deep it's too late to turn it around.

I have set such a good example for my family, that if I try to be my true self I will truly dissapoint them.

I want to know are there any others that feel lost like me? And if so how do you cope with it?

2006-09-10 15:58:10 · 4 answers · asked by lalala 4

After the meeting, the 3 of us become close. However, recently the wife file for divorce just because of the love bites on the husband. Well, I dont have the intention to be his second wife. I have helped them so much that I am in huge debts and selling my house. How to make these two people feeling guilty of making use of me. They are now avoiding me due to my big financial problems.

2006-09-10 15:52:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-10 15:49:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

does it vary from state to state if so what is it in kansas

2006-09-10 15:45:55 · 15 answers · asked by king cobra 3

is it because the blood flows straight to the heart??

2006-09-10 15:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by rache0116 3

2006-09-10 15:42:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

people from my church make me feel like I haven't tried to work it out.

2006-09-10 15:38:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been married for 12 years. we're separating. how long should i give him to pack up n go out the door ? we're still being friendly and civil at this point.

2006-09-10 15:36:57 · 14 answers · asked by StonerChick421 2

2006-09-10 15:35:25 · 10 answers · asked by Wifey 1

2006-09-10 15:25:43 · 2 answers · asked by guwap_a@32 1

I know the divorce rate for hetero couples bounces around 50%, but have there been any studies out there that calculate the divorce rate of gay couples who have recently been married in Massachussetts and other gay-friendly court systems? (Please don't waste your time by responding with your views regarding the validity of these marriages.)

2006-09-10 15:22:40 · 2 answers · asked by moofisilla 2

I have been having an affair for about 4 months with a married man. His wife of 24 years has for the last 3 years been having lesbian affairs. He seems to be more worried about losing his assests than his wife..so wont file for divorce. I have ups and downs about the affair. We are best friends and i want to be there for him.. but i find myself wanting the divorce for selfish reasons. He is a good person who admits he still loves the woman that he married but also says that she isnt that same woman. I began to believe that she was doing meth, at first he didnt admit it but while i was away on vacation they had a rift and she has moved into her lesbian friends home and he admitted she is indeed a meth user. It is a sad situation especially since there are children involved. My question is should i jump ship or stand by my friend? He has been very good to me and i feel bad that i would desert him in his time of need. What to do???

2006-09-10 15:18:37 · 28 answers · asked by sweetbaker2003 1

Here's the deal. My husband whom I love very much, has not gotten me off in 3 years. He doesn't care. It's all about him. Litterly he sticks it in for MAYBE 2 minutes (that's being generous) and he's done. He know's this bothers me, But he thinks it's really funny. So my question is, if he wont take the time to do it, then am I justified in finding someone else who will? I love him and I wont leave him, but I'm sick of doing things myself. There comes a time when I just say enough is enough. And I have to to get it else where. Is this wrong?

2006-09-10 15:11:33 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

death? My husband and I have tried so hard to put things back together, but it's just not working. It works for about a month then it all falls apart, every time I see him now when I pick up the kids, he's so sad. I'm just at a loss, I don't know what or how to make it better. We've tried counseling, and we've split twice before and always came back. But now I just can't do it again, I just can't...I just feel so sad. Has this happened to anyone else? How do you get through it?

2006-09-10 14:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous