death? My husband and I have tried so hard to put things back together, but it's just not working. It works for about a month then it all falls apart, every time I see him now when I pick up the kids, he's so sad. I'm just at a loss, I don't know what or how to make it better. We've tried counseling, and we've split twice before and always came back. But now I just can't do it again, I just can't...I just feel so sad. Has this happened to anyone else? How do you get through it?
2006-09-10 14:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-09-10 15:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by sharkscue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know... some times marriages don't seem to get a form because one of the partners is trying to change the other, in actuality works the other way around, changes have to be made, self changes, if you and your partner try this, who knows, it might work for you.
Do it for the children, your partner is sad, you are sad, but your children's little heart is being destroyed. It takes two in-love people two make children, it takes one responsible and smart to make it work.
Good luck.
2006-09-10 22:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first thing we need to do is stop lying to each other and put all the guns on the table. I know I have been hard to deal with but you are the one that started on the computer. You said you would get a job when cayden went to school but the computer stopped that. You fell in love with two people(maybe more) on there but they always tell you what you want to hear. I have been there since day one and I have always supported you. But I guess with what I have seen on the computer that it is hard for us to trust each other. I am sorry for that but I had to fight for what I want and you are it. I guess its not enough. Lets just end it peacfully and gracefully with no hard feelings. I guess it wasn't meant to be.
2006-09-11 19:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by tobadforus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it a day at a time.
that divorce stuff is the hardest thing I ever did. It is a death
in a way--the life your in right now is dying. I was lucky cuz
me and the ex-mrs are still friends and get along well.
Find something to concentrate on....live for the little victories.
then a month passes---and you look back and think I made that lets try another----well for me now its been 6+ years...I actually started to date again. And Life is hard but I'm finding my way!
Best of luck to you!!
2006-09-10 22:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went thru a divorce 2 years ago. It is a death, a death of the relationship at least. And, sometimes to me, it was worse than death-knowing he existed but I could not be the one to care for him, etc. I went thru a lot of therapy. And, I realized that being alone is better than being with someone that is not compatible, etc.
2006-09-10 22:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just step back and breath do not over react let him be and u go and get involved with your friends
2006-09-10 22:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by luvwyoming2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, good luck. It is not easy to get through it, but whatever your difficulties were, just reassure yourself that you deserve to be happy. Time heals.
2006-09-10 22:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get through it the best way you know how
2006-09-10 22:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋