After the meeting, the 3 of us become close. However, recently the wife file for divorce just because of the love bites on the husband. Well, I dont have the intention to be his second wife. I have helped them so much that I am in huge debts and selling my house. How to make these two people feeling guilty of making use of me. They are now avoiding me due to my big financial problems.
2006-09-10 15:52:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You DEFINITELY deserve WHATEVER happens to you.
2006-09-10 15:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They won't feel gulity of making use of you. You have nobody else to blame except yourself coz since you already know the guys is a cheat why do you believe in him and get yourself into a huge debt. At this point of time, I think you can only repay your debts and not think how to make them feel guilty.
2006-09-11 00:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello honey,
i think both of them are trying to conn you..
the wife may also hook up with another man and so on..
so the wife now ask her husband to hook up on you, so later try to patch up, but need money from you to help out their financial problem..
becarefull honey, you have been cheated by both of them
2006-09-11 00:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get that money . They will drag and make stories you never gave any money. In world have crazy wife could do anything to protect their man to be as dog or whatever. Money can makes friendship worst coz no proof. thats danger . never have such ppl in life but money need to get back from this couples
2006-09-10 23:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gather up any proof of how they used you and caused you to be in finacial troubles and then take each of them individually to small claims court. You can sue each of them for up to something like 5,000 bucks in small claims. You dont need a lawyer and it just costs a small fee to file papers. Walk down to your local small claims court and ask them where to get the papers to sue them. Do it asap! Gather all evidence you have of money they either stole from you or you loaned them.
2006-09-11 00:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when cheating,good for the wife that she is not staying with him,and you what did you do try to buy your way out to make you feel better about it
2006-09-10 22:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... What to say..... My Grandpa used to say, "lay down with dogs and you will come up with fleas "... Is true...Did you really expect this situation to be a "happliy ever after" scenario ???If they have taken advantage of you, get a lawyer and sue their asses off...Small claims, if nothing else...If not, lick your wounds and try to put it into some sort of prospective so you will not get scammed again. Quit messing around with married men, there are plenty of single horny men to go around, pick one better suited to your needs....Good Luck....
2006-09-10 23:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by mobileminiatures 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your English is confusing. Are you saying that you became involved with a married man, and the three of you became an item, you spent money on them and now they are avoiding you??? Don't get it, sorry.
2006-09-10 22:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were the one to be the other woman and you got used. Never date a man until the divorce is over. Yeah they used you and you let them.
2006-09-10 22:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What?...you get what you get...you came into someone else's home and now you want them to feel guilty...looks like your the fool...not his wife...she saw what you were about and took you for the ride.
2006-09-10 22:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by dod civi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were stupid to get involved in that whole mess in the first place.Once u found out he lied to you,you should have left.lets see how much they're gonna help you once your homeless
2006-09-10 22:55:23 · answer #11 · answered by jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋