2006-09-10 15:35:25 · 10 answers · asked by Wifey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think Dear Abby put it best when she said, "Ask yourself, would you be better off with or without him?" Is the love gone? Has there been infidelity? Is there any attraction at all? Have you exhausted all resources: counseling, clergy, etc.? I always find it interesting how people can read one line, knowing absolutely nothing about you or your situation, and tell you what to do. Only you can answer this question. Either way you go, it won't be easy. But whatever your decision, in the end, hopefully, you will be find happiness. Good luck.
2006-09-11 03:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you just can't take anymore. Whatever it is. Cheating leave right away. I strongly feel once a cheater always and cheater. BUT if it is something else, you will know when you have had enough. I just left my husband of 1 year this weekend. After we got married it all changed and finally I just knew I have had it and I told him I needed a break. You will know, you will just wake up one day after fighting or a long day of you thinking and you will just know. If you pray your answers will come to you too. Just keep asking what you are suppose to do and he will tell you. Good luck.
2006-09-11 00:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by why?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages that are working have four things: Respect, Admiration, and Passion. A marriage will survive with 2 of the three. But if the fourth outside item is gone, these three fail. And that fourth outside item is trust. How is your marriage??? Only you can analyze it.
2006-09-10 22:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the cons outweigh the pros. Write a list of all pros and cons for staying or leaving. Everything you can think of from big to small. Everything! Good and bad.
2006-09-10 22:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word cheating either partner.
2006-09-10 22:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When what you get out of the marriage isn't worth the pain you pay.
2006-09-10 22:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your ready to move on.All is lost,When love turns to hate.
2006-09-10 22:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my case i knew it was time but was unable to accept it so instead of getting up the nerve to go thru with it i just let it get worse and worse!!! if you suspect that its time to really call it quits then chances are it is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-10 23:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only valid reason is if your spouse is unfaithful, PERIOD.
2006-09-10 22:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the sight of your spouse just makes you want to vomit.
2006-09-10 22:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋