2006-09-10 07:00:02 · 17 answers · asked by olderbutwiser 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am happy and satisfied with my husband of 7 years, but he does not exactly "complete" me. I am complete all by myself, and so is he, but we do complement each other. Kinda like popcorn is ok by itself, but adding salt complements it, if that makes sense to you.
2006-09-10 07:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hubby wife or partner can never complete you. You have to be complete without them. Be a whole person and happy with you you are. Your hubby wife or partner should only enhance your life not complete it.
2006-09-10 15:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance is awesome, but he does not 'complete' me. He does complement me, tho. I am a whole person by myself and can take care of myself and be happy by myself. I don't 'need' someone to complete me. I just want and need someone that can and will complement me, which is exactly what I have. I was in a 20 year dead end relationship/marriage where I depended on him way too much. I finally grew up, learned to depend on myself and take care of myself, and then was able to make it on my own. Then I found my fiance. What a difference my being dependent on myself and having a totally awesome guy makes! Even if something were to happen between us or he died, I would still be able to make it on my own.
2006-09-10 18:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am single and complete.....I cook and clean for myself. I have lots to do that keeps me really busy. I have my own money. I date a variety of girls.
I don't have to answer to anyone. I can do whatever I want and whenever I want. I can stay out as late as I want and I don't have to get permission and I don't have to compromise.
Why would I want to give this up? And with divorce laws being so biased against men.....why would any successful man want to get sucked into something like that?
Just my thoughts....
2006-09-10 14:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but with or with out my mate, I am a complete person, function just fine, can actually take care of my self, and NEED no one to fill me out. I do injoy my mate, we have a good life, but we also have a life apart, and I intend to keep it that way. I cannot imagine telling anyone that I NEEDED this person to live, to be complete, etc....that is not a good statement about myself.
2006-09-10 14:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, and then some. Of course, these are things that both partners need to take into consideration and communicate before they take that extra step.
2006-09-10 14:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by pizzasjedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no and no.
Not at the present time that's for sure.
Working on getting him to therapy, but I think the answers will always be No, No and No.....and then it's time to move on.
2006-09-10 14:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, no & no. i feel just the opposite, hence the reason I am pondering divorce. he puts me down, is verbally abusive sometimes and has no ambition in life. People who answer yes to this question are truly fortunate.
2006-09-10 14:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by animal_mother 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is the greatest thing that ever happen to me.With him i am complete
2006-09-10 14:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by flylilangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! No! No! to all of your questions.But I have made the choice to be happy and I am the one in control of how I feel.
2006-09-10 14:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋