Marriage & Divorce - 24 August 2006

My girlfriend" (against better judgement) - entered a relationship with a married man. Now, he claims that his marriage has been over for the last five years (out of an 18 year marriage). He has a child - doing so late in life. (the child is 3). Which in my oppinion (he will never leave his family- despite how much he claims his mariage is over. I dont see that.)
The girlfriend, finds it easier to date married men - (this I believe is used as a mechanism) because she was in an abusive marriage, and I believe it's her way of never getting close to a man that could hurt her again. But....what happens she, ends up with more confusions about "relatoninship issues" because this last man she feel in love with and now is dealing with.....the fact, he may not decided to leave his long lasted marriage I think this guy could do further damage;
Here is my question: How do I, as a friend, convince her to move on because, I see this could cause more damage to her already delusional idea of love

2006-08-24 10:38:53 · 37 answers · asked by ? 4

Some men don't ejaculate during intercourse or any kind of sexual activity, except maybe for procreation purpose. This is either because of some physical problems (like painful ejaculatory spasms) or he is practicing Tantric sex. I know most men are against this practice, and I would like to know women's point of view. Thanks.

2006-08-24 10:36:41 · 25 answers · asked by xenos mc 2

2006-08-24 10:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talking to this married woman and is friendly. I also know the husband very well.?
I have been talking to this married woman and is friendly. I also know the husband very well. I stayed in their house for a few days. I was talking to her while husband was at work, and I touched her and kissed her from behind which she did not resist. I asked for a hug which she said its for her husband only. Then I took shower and I came out with my underwear and she was glancing at my private part. Then next day she told me not to touch as I was complaining that she has body fat and she should loose weight. Then I left from their place and came back after a week and she gave me the biggest smile and I told her that I missed her and told her to call me. She also did loose a few pounds. She said she would call me and was very very happy as soon as I told her to call me. She still haven't called me and I was wondering if she likes me or not? Or is she just flirting with me.

2006-08-24 10:34:03 · 33 answers · asked by Shah_Ru 1

She started seeing an ex-BF, didn't lie about it, told me about it. I decided if she needed that it was cool. Now she wants a temporary separation. She says she loves me and she wants to be with me, that she just needs this time to step out and have some fun before she gets old. We've been together a long time. She wants me to do it to, I don't want to. Do you think she's just tired of me and trying to find a way to end it?

2006-08-24 10:33:25 · 33 answers · asked by A B 1

She doesn't mind, shes a deep sleeper. I told someone and they thought it was sick, why??

2006-08-24 10:23:16 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-24 10:22:11 · 10 answers · asked by dan a 1

I'm separated from my husband and don't have any single friends (or married friends that go out without their husbands). What is a good way to find other women to hang out with?

2006-08-24 10:16:04 · 5 answers · asked by DeeDee 3

2006-08-24 10:14:49 · 25 answers · asked by Ms. Topaz 1

If you and you partner/significant other split up, whats the one thing you wouldn't let them have in the sharing out stuff bit(excluding kids)

2006-08-24 10:11:51 · 34 answers · asked by sarkyastic31 4

2006-08-24 10:09:51 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-24 10:05:10 · 37 answers · asked by Flagger 6

on where to store the patio furniture? We put it under tarps last year, but it got wet and rusted a bit. That was her idea...I probably don't want to tell her "I told you so" huh?

2006-08-24 10:03:57 · 58 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-24 09:58:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-24 09:52:42 · 31 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1

2006-08-24 09:49:39 · 35 answers · asked by Slasher 2

how can i get my useless ex to pay towrds his 2 kids upringing without causing an argument? He thinks he,s doing me a favour giving me a tenner towards something once every 6mths, im on income support and so have been told i cant clain child support because apparently my income support covers the cost of lookin after 2 kids 7 days a week, (not). Plus he now has 2 more kids which seem to get everything from him, i feel like i shouldnt have to ask for things from him for the kids, as a dad he should want to look after them dont you think? Any thoughts please?

2006-08-24 09:48:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

if my wife divorces me do i still get half of everything or does that only work if i divorce her.
by the way she actually has kept everything

2006-08-24 09:34:07 · 19 answers · asked by areyou_looking_atme 2

Yes you should leave
Yes he/she is cheating on you...you should leave
Yes women want it as much as men...just not with you
Yes, we fake it so we can be done an go to sleep
Yes we wonder if your best friend is good in the sack
Yes penis size matters, sorry guys
No he will never listen
Yes he wonders if your best friend is good in the sack, he would do her anyway
Yes, his mother hates you, no there isn't anything you can do about it
Yes he's wackin off in the shower and looking at hustler when your not home, and it's ok
Yes he thinks your butt is a little big, no he'll never say it
No don't take him/her back, did I say that already?
Yes she wants a baby
No he's not ready yet
There no reason to aske anymore questions

2006-08-24 09:33:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you are in a relationship, why is it so easy to ignore the bad stuff? When your head sees the relationship for what it is and it's not great, why can't the heart let go?

2006-08-24 09:30:19 · 16 answers · asked by torn 3

He wants me to use a strap-on on him???????????????

He says he is not and it is supposed to feel good. WTF!?!

2006-08-24 09:25:23 · 26 answers · asked by blessed mommy 2

I asked women to stop telling every woman she has to get married or dump the guy. Some women were cool in their answers but others seem to think I am a jerk. I am NOT against marriage. I was only against telling women to make the guy marry you or dump him. Am I still wrong?

2006-08-24 09:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by jax0817 3

My boyfriend and I have lived together since December 2005. I think it is a good choice for us personally because we share rent and bills. I think it is also ok to do this, because you get to know what you are getting into before marrying the person, and weeding out a lot of possibilities for divorce later down the road. What do you think? Honest answers!!

2006-08-24 09:23:22 · 35 answers · asked by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5

and now we been togehter a total of 9 years. We had a baby two years ago and he still sometimes threatens me to leave becuse of it, but at the same time he has proposed to me and is planning our wedding with me. Is he just moving through the motions because thats what he thinks he is suppose to do? Or does he really want to marry me. I don't want to waste my parents money if he has no intention to ever let things go. The ring was a 1 carrot diamond and that to cost him alot of money. We go to couples counceling but he still always throws me cheating in my face every time we have a disagreement. Should I call things off?

2006-08-24 09:18:02 · 15 answers · asked by LOLITA 1

I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BF FOR 3YRS AND NOW HE WANTS TO MOVE OUT OF STATE FOR A BETTER JOB. WE ARE NOT MARRIED AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. I REALLY LOVE HIM AND I THINK THAT IF HE WOULD MARRY ME I WOULDNT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MOVING WITH HIM. AS OF NOW WE LIVE TOGETHER AND HE TAKES CARE OF ME AND MY 3 KIDS. I WANT A RING ON MY FINGER B4 I THINK ABOUT LEAVING THIS STATE. ALL MY FAMILY LIVE HERE, I WOULD BE LEAVING ALL MY FAMILY. WHAT SHOULD I DO?? SHOULD I TELL HIM THAT I WANT HIM TO PUT A RING ON MY FINGER?

2006-08-24 09:17:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to speak up. Women are constantly giving other women advice to leave their boyfriend if he doesn't ask her to marry him by a certain time. Does every woman believe the only definition of a good relationship is one that leads to marriage? Even 23 year old women get this advice. What ever happened to "I don't need to get married to be happy." Where is Ms Independence?

2006-08-24 09:12:51 · 35 answers · asked by jax0817 3

2006-08-24 09:10:03 · 17 answers · asked by robertspraguejr 4

She left me for another man ,a fling i guess. Now she wants us to try again. Should i go for it? She works with the guy to .should i ask her to quit? How can i tell if she's lying.Come on you girls out there, give a good guy a helping hand with advice!!

2006-08-24 09:00:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-24 09:00:07 · 11 answers · asked by curious 2

I'm going through a divorce now and when fighting for my children in court it counted against me that i had worked to support my family as i was considered secondary carer of my children do you think this is fair and have you had similar experience

2006-08-24 09:00:04 · 30 answers · asked by saint 3