She doesn't mind, shes a deep sleeper. I told someone and they thought it was sick, why??
2006-08-24 10:23:16 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
omg, how can you do it without waking her up? What's the point of it if your not gonna make that much noise? I'll play with my girlfriend with my fingers while she's sleeping, but at least she will wake up in a good mood.
2006-08-24 10:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by general_stamey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that i think it is very sick too. When ppl are making love they should be aware of it. Why would you want to have sex with someone who isnt alert. In my opinion, i think you should maybe get counseling, and i dont say that to offend you,but maybe you've suffered a trama that you dont neccessarily think you have. If you have children, would you want a man to do the same thing that your doing to your wife to your daughter. Also, if your having sex with your wife while shes sleeping, what else are you willing to do if shes unaware of it?
2006-08-24 11:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by Britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't sick and if she thinks it is ok then go for it.
Whatever two adults do behind closed doors are between each other sexually, unless it involves animals, children, or injury & extreem pain.
Why are you telling people this? It seems rather personal. And as long as the wife agrees and knows it happens...then go for it.
I am sure stranger things have been done ;)
2006-08-24 10:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong in so many ways. For one it is almost like you are raping her. She isnt consenting to have sex with you, you are just taking it upon yourself to have a good time. Sex is suppose to be something that is consentual between two people not just where one person is really horny and just desides to invade her womanhood while she unknowing of it. Stop and think about it yourself would you like for someone to take sex from you while you were sleeping. If you would really think about it you would see that it is another form of rape even if you are married.
2006-08-24 10:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by teaser24162003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't care I don't see anything wrong with it. She is your wife after all. I wish my wife was a deep sleeper.
2006-08-24 10:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by shominyyuspa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OOH! That is so not right! It's wrong on so many levels! It is the equvilant to raping some one when they aare drunk; or being a peeping tom! Why would you even want to? Are the dead safe? Is this thing going to progress? If I were you, I would be concerned!
2006-08-24 15:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just became illegal in Alberta.
The Let Sleeping Dogs Lie Act
2006-08-24 10:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Yeti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! - unless she complains. The odds are pretty good that during your "loving", she wakes up and enjoys it as much as you - maybe more! - But, she's not gonna tell. - Why wouldn't she tell? - Like I just said, she enjoys it as much as you!
So I suggest you keep your "secret". - She may be thinking that, "I'm so attractive to him, he can't even resist me when I'm sleeping" - and that's a good thing!
Sounds like a pretty good relationship to me - But you gotta wonder, how much better might it be if you both admitted to each other just how hungry you are for each other?
BUT - if things are going well, why bother. - you lucky bastard!!!
2006-08-24 10:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by poormigalito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is taking sex from her when she isn't aware of it. Its called rape and you are sick. Besides if she can sleep through it you must not be much of a partner anyway!
2006-08-24 10:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be something wrong with how you are doing it if you can't provide enough stimulation to wake her up. You might as well be having sex (really masturbation) with a lifeless piece of meat.
2006-08-24 10:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋