2006-08-24 10:09:51 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Er no
2006-08-24 10:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by jameshens 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO!
Some people seem to think that marriage somehow closes a door and ends their possibilities of finding sexual satisfaction. If your heart and mind are in the right place, just the opposite is true. Marriage FREES you to drop your defenses, to open your heart, to be totally vulnerable to your mate in a way that no hookup ever could. It should REMOVE the fear that the person you're banging is banging someone else, and therefore you don't have to hold back some part of yourself just in case you get shafted.
If people would save themselves for marriage and then be totally committed to their mates, we would be one big bunch of happy f***ers, that's the truth.
Now before all you married guys not getting enough crucify me, I will admit that there are times in a marriage, particularly after kids come along, where you're not going to get as much as you want. Well grow up. Communicate with your spouse. Get your needs and expectations out on the table. She might surprise you.
I've been married 27 years. We've had ups and downs, sure. But the sex we're having these days is 100x better than what we even had when we were first married. Not more frequent, I'll give you that, but more satisfying and more amazing.
2006-08-24 10:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by newbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't catergorize all married people as a group! It depends on the couple, their relationship, and how they communicate! After 11 years, things are even better for me! Having sex when you're married and having sex when you are single; is comparative to cheap wine and wine that has been aged! It should only get better with time! But, you have to be in love for this to happen!
2006-08-24 15:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's grossly incorrect! On the other hand, you enjoy it more with your spouse since you don't feel guilty of committing a sin to repent for it later. Sex between spouses can be a source of eternal pleasure if you are sincere, understanding and devoted to each other. Besides, sex between spouses, if they are honest and devoted, is always safe. You have all the freedom and time in the world to enjoy sex with your spouse and make the bond of love everlasting!
2006-08-26 14:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by believer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been married for 27 years and I still think my wife is the hottest woman I've ever seen.
She's recuperating from an operation at the moment and it's quite trying for both of us as we can't indulge in the physical aspects of our relationship.
Not because we don't want to but because it's too painful for her and we don't want to set up some kind of aversion therapy.
So we're waiting patiently and getting by with just flirting with each other.
2006-08-24 15:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im married and i love having sex with my hubby, there is so much more enjoyment, satisfaction and pleasure when u can have sex with your spouse and know that u can completely drop your defenses and just enjoy the sex.
im not sure where you are getting your information from but i would suggest looking at the answers here because it seems quite apparent that sex in married life is much more satisfy and enjoyable than in single life!!!!
2006-08-24 11:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of nonsensical question is that kit kat? If you enjoy sex, you enjoy sex, whether you're married or not.
2006-08-24 12:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by micksmixxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, they do enjoy sex very much with other married people.
2006-08-24 10:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by jack 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is more to marriage than sex I have been married for 21 years there is something called 2 paychecks and trust without them no marriage will survive
2006-08-25 02:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Terri L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you crazy ?? For 3 years it's gotten hotter and hotter !!!! You just have to pick the right one. Mine is 44 and still one hot azz woman. Don't marry a fat chick and you'll be all right !!!!
2006-08-24 10:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by gozedown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do but only for 4 years. By that time the female loses interest.
2006-08-24 10:11:38 · answer #11 · answered by Norman Bates 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋