Marriage & Divorce - 24 August 2006

2006-08-24 17:13:49 · 37 answers · asked by Elaine 1

She's crazy but she's also an excellent liar and con. She can convince just about any body on anything. My problem is I am honest and don't want to hurt anybody.

2006-08-24 17:02:38 · 24 answers · asked by LaBoner 2

My ex husband has begun to make deductions from his monthyly child support to pay for sports, etc. I pay for half of the children's activities but he has decided to deduct without my approval. Is this a legal option for him?

2006-08-24 16:58:26 · 26 answers · asked by wondering 2

My boyfriend and i was talking ( mainly yelling) and he said that there was some married people that did not sleep together ,That there was some married people that was married but did not have sex with their spouse ,They had other partners. Is any of this true and if so why?

2006-08-24 16:58:04 · 19 answers · asked by dasiy s 1

Don't get me wrong I love my husband very much and i wouldn't do anything ..
I have known my ex crush way before i even met my husband..

2006-08-24 16:57:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi i wanna know is it right to marry a 47 year old guy if u are 22....in this case i am looking at the scenerio love....so tell me what kinda love exists for these two couples where the men a 47 year who had three kids from previous marriage remarries a 22 year old girl saying at last he found his love for all reasons he is happy?...the girl is said to have a maturity of a adult but is it ok to marry a 47 year old....she is a single girl and its her first marriage...oooh if u wanna know my perception i think its wrong for all reasons but i wanna hear from a old guy and a old women and yes probably some youths there sitting who think they can give me valid reasons to say its ok to the marriage....i wanna know what kinda love is that that u really leave all youths of ur age and settle wid a guy who is of ur fathers age.....and for the men that u forget ladies of ur age and marry someone of ur daughters age....plus a bonus thing what is love?????????????????

2006-08-24 16:50:34 · 9 answers · asked by Vinny C 3

Everything seems to be my fault. Yesterday was a big moment in my childs life. She won a city level essay competition defeating students from as many as 240 schools some of whom were older than her because of the higher standard that they are studying in.She won amongst other things a Sony Handycam. On our drive back my husband said that she won because her expression is good, her knowledge of english is not so good.She would have been good in english if I had taken interest in her. He wants her to learn 5 new words daily.She does that on and off but that's not good enough for him. She has always been a topper but a finger is always pointed at me if if she loses a mark coz of a careless mistake 'u don't teach her concentration u don't make her practice enough' if there is sometrouble with boys then Iam not having a control over her. This is just the top of the iceberg,everything is my fault and no credit is ever given to anything I do or anything my child achieves coz of my training.

2006-08-24 16:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm tired of meeting guys who disrespect or hurt me. I want someone who will love me for me, someone I'm attracted to.

2006-08-24 16:49:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am pro. firefighter. ex wants to take my daughter away. I have her every other day now. I try hard. Make some mistakes but nothing worth going to court over. Is it that bad to spend some time w/ my buddy and his family? Is it bad to have a little dr. pepper in the am? I love her more than anything. I do have a job. It requires me to be gone 24 hrs a day three times a week. When we are together it is awesome. Lawyer is helping, but this sucks. Help/ advice?

2006-08-24 16:38:44 · 13 answers · asked by good dad 1

ive been married for 6 years but ive not kissed or cuddled my husband for 5 years now, i dont feel the connection, the spark, that feeling you get when u kiss the one you love,thers nothing there when he kisses me, i dont feel anything at all & its now come to a stage where we dont kiss or cuddle each other at all, ive been thinking about leaving him because im quite positive that i dont love him but my husband loves me alot and would do anything for me and when we speak about getting devorced he gets really upset and when i see him crying or hurting it makes me feel really sad also and i start to cry aswell and end up deciding to live with him because its to hard for me to see him hurting so my question is is this love? do i love him or not? i personally think that i dont but i dont want to make the mistake of rushing in to things and divorcing him.i feel like the reason it hurts me alot 2 see him hurting is because ive spent 6 years of my life with him and cant see him hurting

2006-08-24 16:31:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes a great guy but even wen i was seeing him it was just a casual affair for me and before i know it he wasnt ready to let go.
I did not have the heart to leave him stranded ,afterall he had been good to me .So under all that pressure from him and my family(they liked him)i had to succumb to the marrige.
i cried through most o fhim and cursed him.Once we got married i just coudnt get myself to accept!i was all of 23 years married,n then married to this man who i never even really enjoyed being with.i never wanted any of that,life became hell and i accused him of having forced this marrige on me.He wasnt ready to take any blames,he gave me back the **** i gave him.I got violant and hyterical at times.He got violant on me too.The first few months were truely miserable but things got better with time .We still fight a lot sometimes even violantly .I feel maybe its all my fault but there are times i feel its his fault too.My best friend thinks twas a huge misatke and says v shud part

2006-08-24 16:31:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean really LOVE to have SEX? Or am I not normal? Is it bad if you are in a commited relationship?

2006-08-24 16:27:34 · 18 answers · asked by Not Spoiled Just Loved♥ 3

I was trying to be understanding of his emotional state, but I'm concentrating on me! We were supposed to talk, I was patient with him getting the nerve up to have a discussion. A week ago he left a message "checking in to see what was going on" with no mention of the talk. I have not returned his call, and will not! Am I wrong?

2006-08-24 16:24:09 · 21 answers · asked by nychichi 1

If the your sinificant other says they want the divorce but all you can do is sit back and remember the statements that were made in a positive manner and you honestly know how they feel truely about you what do you do?

2006-08-24 16:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by Brandi R 1

he is definitely a great guy! he got everything women looking for. he is very popular to women. his colleagues are crazy about him. he's approached by women many times on the street and in a club.. all the phone calls and text-messaging from women,
when I’m with him, I feel so insecure but he really likes me and has been waiting for me.
I don’t care how he looks and I’m happy being with him, but the insecurity I feel inside really bothers me. I don’t wanna be with someone who’s bugged my women all the time. Even though, he never cares about them, but I really don’t wanna get pissed off all the time. I am not a generous type of girl. I’m not pathetic, can u imagine going clubbing with him and there are bunch of women ask for a dance with him? and it's not the 1st time.

I don’t know what to do. help pls. !

2006-08-24 16:21:16 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3

and I waited for him 4 years ..he send me an e-mail last year telling me that he was crazy to be with me and make the family we always had dream about...when he got here he toldme that he had another person in his life and that the only thing he needed it from me was to get the papers...I divorced him and after a year he broke up with his girlfriend...he sent me a letter telling me how much he love me and that he regrets everything ...after a year he is telling everybody to help him ...sorry I forgot to mention that I almost had a heart attack by having the anxiety and depresion when he left ...he cryes all the time and he is acting desperate this situation make so nervous...what /i can do to make him stop...I do not want to talk to him ..it will be a way to let him in

2006-08-24 16:13:34 · 11 answers · asked by Yami 3

Have been married for 5 yrs now, I got married at 18 and have two wonderful kids. I care about my husband cause he's the father of my kids, but I dont love him anymore. I guess I just git tired of waiting for him to change and start caring about our kids and me, that now that he does, its too late. I met someone else, and even though we havent been intimate, I love him so much. When Im intimate with my husband Im thinking about him. And it really sux opening my eyes and see that its not the person I was making love to. Makes me feel dirty and sad. I would've thought by now he would have noticed that my feelings have change, but it seems like he doesnt, either I am a good actress or he just doesnt want to accept the fact that I dont love him anymore. What should I do?? Im so confused.

2006-08-24 16:09:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just today, my wife made a delicious meal and had it ready and the house clean before I got home. i was pleased, but the kicker was that she washed and detailed my sports car. I don't usually ask her to do this becaus ei don't trust her with it. How should I reward her? Should i give her an allowance bonus? Maybe let her ride in my car tonight? Could I let her watch more than 30 minutes of television?

2006-08-24 16:07:31 · 29 answers · asked by Walker T 1

he is always gone at night. to be honest all night. he think nothing is wrong with that because we are married he can still do whatever he wants to do. i feel i am alone in this marriage. to be honest i want out this marriage.

2006-08-24 16:05:14 · 7 answers · asked by attitude b 1

Relationship with them or visit? Or would you cut all ties to them because they cheated and they only spend time with the child when they feel like it even if it very rare! I was listening to the radio toady on my way home from work and the question was like this on Michael Baysdon (don't know if I spelled it right but anyhow they played so many darn songs I didn't get to hear the comments) Also what would you tell the child when they are old enough to understand why you all aren't together! (Be honest imagine if you were in this situation right now)

2006-08-24 16:02:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Normally when i see me boyfriend it takes a few seconds to warm back up to each other. But the other day I needed to talk to him so he calls me at 9:30 at night and asks me downtown. Now when i get out of my car he greets me with a hug and a kiss. And later in the night he starts singing special song to me, and like softly touching me while i am sleeping. He refuses to break up with me even though i give good reason. Now don't get me wrong I am in love with him so I don't know... also that night he asked if i wanted to go to reno to get married. and in the shower he said that he loved me... now you would think that, that would answer that question but i don't feel it i guess

2006-08-24 15:56:32 · 7 answers · asked by campos_shannon 2

how old do you think yo ushould be before you marry someone? just wondering...i always wanted to know what everyone thought about this one!! lol!!

2006-08-24 15:56:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-24 15:48:19 · 8 answers · asked by Landau C 1

I asked a question a few days ago about my husband being emotionally/verbally and sometimes physically abusive to me. The thing I'm wondering about now is why he's mean to me for a few days, even weeks at a time, but then suddenly he becomes nice again for a few days or even for weeks without saying anything hurtful to me. I wonder if I should still make a plan on how to leave him and take care of my 10 month old daughter, or should I just tough it out and stay with him? I am 19 years old. I know he isn't the one for me. He conned me into this marriage. I love him as a friend. I'm so lost. I just don't know what to do. The reason I'm hesitating on leaving him is I'm not sure how I'm going to provide for my daughter. I need your opinions on this please. What do you think I should do?

2006-08-24 15:39:18 · 29 answers · asked by Carrie! 4

If both marriages are bad, no sex is involved, just talking and being their for each other when spouses are not. Does God consider it adultry? Trying to help a friend out and need opinions.

2006-08-24 15:33:32 · 19 answers · asked by polly b 1

If you are a man, have you ever hit a woman? Why did you do it and did you regret it? My husband was in a rage the other night and he was really hurting me, so in the process of blocking his blows, I gave him a black eye.(By pure accident, I assure you.) But of course, that only made things worse for me. We are separated now, but it still doesn't erase all of those bad memories. Please tell me why these things happen? Don't men understand what this can do to a woman's soul? (and face for that matter.)

2006-08-24 15:32:28 · 11 answers · asked by Ava R 1

2006-08-24 15:31:55 · 8 answers · asked by massage and hair girl 1

She was my first love and like a lot of relationships it started with a BANG then fizzled out as the years past. I never thought it was possible to fall out of love with someone. Or even to love someone but not be "in-love" with that person. We have always talked about our differences and ways to be better but in the end not much changed. We would argue over the silliest little things. When arguing, we would disrespect each other like no couple should.

I moved in with her after living at home with my parents. I don't think I've ever had a chance to mature on my own. We have a daughter and it hurts me to see her leave. I feel like I have made the right decision for both of us. I have always been faithful to her but it seems as though we are on seperate "tracks" in life. She has been gone for 3 days now and I miss her but I don't regret my decision. Just need some advice from someone who may have gone through a similar situation. Thank you.

2006-08-24 15:19:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I have been married for 5 years. When we got married we just went to court house and got married. No big deal. Now when everyone else is getting married they actually have a wedding and now I regret not having my own wedding. Since we have only been married for 5 years it would be stupid to renew the vows because of course we didnt have any vows to begin with. We now have 2 girls ages 3 and 10 months. What should I do to get over this when I see other happy couples getting married and having an actual wedding???

2006-08-24 15:17:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-24 15:12:25 · 20 answers · asked by corazon 1