Don't get me wrong I love my husband very much and i wouldn't do anything ..
I have known my ex crush way before i even met my husband..
2006-08-24 16:57:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm very honest with my husband and he knows that we talk sometimes..
2006-08-24 17:08:14 · update #1
Well, as long as you are talking to your former crush in the same way you'd talk to your friends, then it shouldn't be a problem.
It's not like you and your ex-crush were even an item... if you have no feelings left for him then it should be fine to talk to him.
2006-08-24 17:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exes are poison to a marriage. Maybe not now, when everything is going good, but maybe when the times are rough exes can be alittle more than just a shoulder to cry on. You know in your heart it's wrong, or you wouldn't have had to ask the question. You're looking for permission to do something you feel is inappropriate, and nobody can give you permission just because they say they think it's OK. Marriage takes sacrifice, and it can be hard enough without putting yourself in those situations that can cause you to comprimise your vows. Grow up, and realize you can't have everything you want, and still make your husband happy at the same time.
2006-08-24 18:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by runninfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is...IS he still a crush or not? I truely believe that men and women can be friends, sans the sexual basis. If there was some sort of relationship involved, that means that part of each other was given to each other. If the two people are mature and have self control, I believe friendship should prevail and not thrown away. I feel that way about many of my X's but unfortunately, either they have a spouse or gf that is envious, there is still anger involved,the guy doesnt feel there can be a relationship without physical involvement or they do not appreciate true friendship as I. True love never dies. That doesnt mean sex has to be involved. Good luck.
2006-08-24 17:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.PS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are yours or your ex-crush intentions to your conversations is the question!? If nothing more than just being friends and ALL parties are in on this conversations including your hubby...Then nothing is wrong. And plus you've already answered your question when you said "I love my husband very much and I wouldn't do anything..."
2006-08-24 17:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by nAiSa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is a rule that you should never admire another man around your husband unless he knows you adore him...it's an ego thing apparently. But it's nice to reminisce sometimes just do it without your husband.
2006-08-24 17:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend how much your husband is threatened by him. If you are unwilling to tell your husband, then you have already decided that it is not in the best interest of your marriage. Marriage requires trust....destroy that, and it will be over.... You decide what your marriage is worth to you.
2006-08-24 17:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your husband talked to an old girl friend ??? hmmmm "I wouldn't do anything" makes you sound quilty, sounds like you thought about "doing something"
2006-08-24 17:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by c k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not behind your husband's back, which is really cool.
But I bet he is still at least a little bit threatened by it. Keep your old crush at arm's length.
2006-08-24 17:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing it behind your husband's back and it would hurt your husband if he found out then it is wrong.
2006-08-24 17:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its wrong. You should be talking more to your husband.
Would you be so OK with this if it were the other way around?
2006-08-24 18:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋