he is always gone at night. to be honest all night. he think nothing is wrong with that because we are married he can still do whatever he wants to do. i feel i am alone in this marriage. to be honest i want out this marriage.
2006-08-24 16:05:14 · 7 answers · asked by attitude b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At first I looked at your question and thought what the heck is she complaining about because you put down why do my hubby never make me feel that he don't love me. After reading the other part I feel really bad for you. I can totally relate to you with my first husband he was the same way. He would go out and come home really late and for some reason would put the blame on me for him going out. He would not want to talk to me unless it was commercial time. I was very sad and put up with it like a dummy. He ended up cheating on me and told me to take our son and leave. I was devestated at the time I had all different kind of emotions. As time went by day by day I started feeling a lot better and started to realize I was a misarable person. I was unhappy and was putting up with mental abuse. He would say mean things to me and I allowed it. I am now glad he left me for the other woman. That was 10 years ago and I became a stronger woman and made a lot of changes in my life. You should live your life being happy not miserable life is short.
2006-08-24 16:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he may be up to something if he is out ALL night and never with you.
Why don't you speak to him about how you feel?
Sit down with your husband and ask him what is he doing all night? Doesn't he miss you? Why isn't he showing you the affection you deserve?
Inform him that his lack of love towards is you is turning you off and actually making you want out of the marriage.
You have to be open and honest with him to get results. If he says he'll change, give him a month. If he is still staying out all night and not making any progress then take a break from him until you know what is right for you.
2006-08-24 23:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if you could go with him.
If that doesn't work, tell him directly that you feel alone and you wished he could understand how you want to spend time with him. Better yet, make a date specifically where you two could spend time together alone. If you love him that much, plan a romantic weekend at some place you've never been before and see whether sparks fly again. If he flakes, Id be sorry to be in your position.
Best of luck to you.
2006-08-24 23:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by mykoo7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No wonder you want out, you are alone.
You should find something better for yourself. Marriage is not suppose to make you feel alone, but together.
2006-08-24 23:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and make him realize how much he's hurting you. If he loves you he'll stop his behavior. If he doesn't want to act like a married man then let him be single again. You need to be happy and it sounds like he makes you miserable.
2006-08-24 23:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your question already. Get out. What a punk. If he loved you he would be with you instead of out alley-catting around. What are you waiting for?
2006-08-24 23:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEN GO FILE THE PAPERS AND MOVE ON. FIND A GOOD ONE NEXT TIME. DEMAND RESPECT AND ALSO GIVE IT!
2006-08-24 23:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋