Marriage & Divorce - 24 August 2006

Before I got married my wife took my asking her to sign as an indication of me having doubts when I seen it as " just in case "

I had already bought my house before we were married and if something were to happen with us i felt better knowing that I cant get jacked.

If you have money I think it's a must otherwise how do you know she isnt just in it for the dough.

2006-08-24 12:30:16 · 24 answers · asked by RedEye 3

If you already think someone is hot, and then they get pregnant, would you still think they are hot when their belly starts to get big?

2006-08-24 12:23:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seems like young newleyweds have that "Love is all we need" attitude. If you agree, then is it b/c there's less financial pressure at that stage in the marraige-no kids, small house, no rush to be home, plenty of savings... Are there odler long married couples who aren't so stressed by finances and busy schedules? Is it b/c those older couples are making all the money they need and are at home as much as they want to be?

2006-08-24 12:17:44 · 12 answers · asked by mistergenderbender 1

2006-08-24 11:57:19 · 9 answers · asked by wabawaba 1

2006-08-24 11:56:31 · 5 answers · asked by BB 1

He works full time and so does she. He drives around the kids, as does she. He takes out the garbage, cares for the lawn, pays the bills, talks to her, and watches some tv and plays PS2.

If this isn't exactly what a woman wants her man to be doing at home, then what?

2006-08-24 11:55:59 · 20 answers · asked by mistergenderbender 1

i cant understand why he wont try to work it out he says he is not happy with his self so he cant make me happy guess what he has made it worse all im doing is crying he saya he still loves me

2006-08-24 11:55:46 · 19 answers · asked by MICHELE w 1

Sometimes I feel this way. My hubby is really busy with work and school both full time, so I don't wanna bother him. I am also a full time student, and I spend my days taking care of our son. I know it hard to make time, but how do I go about asking him to make some special time for just us?

2006-08-24 11:51:06 · 10 answers · asked by DeAnna 5

My wife and I have a 3year old daughter. My wife feels as though I don't show how much I love her because I "spend" all my love on our daughter. My wife has become increasingly hostile and difficult to be around. Ironically, I'm finding myself less and less attracted to her because she's so volitale and nasty. From her perspective I have created the entire situation. Before the baby was born my wife was convinced I wasn't ready for a child and now that we have a beautiful little girl she upset that I am too good of a father? If i sound confused its because i am. What should I do.

2006-08-24 11:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by Hella 2

2006-08-24 11:48:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Unconditional Love

I will forever remember the day,
when my heart fell in love with you.

You’re beauty with the elegance of your smile,
made me feel, what my heart already knew.

Have I ever told you my dear?
How much I miss you, every time you leave the room
and when you put the phone down,
to help our kids, get ready for school.

If a man could be in two places, I’d be with you
tomorrow and today, beside you all the way.

You are my inspiration for all that I do,
and for the reason, why I love you.

I think of the times, I would feel sad, cause we had a little fight
but even then, my heart would tell me
It doesn’t matter, who was wrong or who was right.

There is no another woman, on this planet earth,
that could possibly change, the way I feel about you.
I also thank god for every minute we share,
and for the day, your mother gave you birth.

So I just wanted, to let you know,
that I’m grateful to heavens above.

For sending me you,
my unconditional love.
By: Kenny P aka- Cobra

2006-08-24 11:47:11 · 11 answers · asked by Cobra 5

2006-08-24 11:35:23 · 17 answers · asked by stephanie v 2

Women want men to provide for the family, but at the same time spend sufficient quality time with the family.
Women want men to make enough money, but not have to work the long hours to earn it.
Enough money to a woman doesn't factor in her shopping sprees, vacations he pays for, dinners he pays for, and his own retirement account.

2006-08-24 11:30:29 · 16 answers · asked by mistergenderbender 1

1ST YEAR AND A HALF WAS WONDERFUL.THE REST WAS HORRIBLE.HE TREATED ME REALLY BAD & PUT ME DOWN & CALLED ME NAMES A LOT...NO PHYSICAL ABUSE THO.I KEPT TELLING HIM IF HE DID NOT STOP BEING SO MEAN.I WOULD EVENTUALLY FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH HIM & FOR THE MOST PART I DID.I TOLD HIM I WAS LEAVING HIM & HE BEGGED & BEGGED & BEGGED ME TO GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE & I TOLD HIM I DID NOT LOVE HIM AS MUCH AS I USED TO & I WAS NOT HAPPY WITH HIM & IF HE COULD ACCEPT THAT THEN I WOULD. WELL BEFOR I TOLD HIM THIS...ABOUT A WEEK BEFOR...I STARTED TALKING TO ANOTHER GUY.I ALSO SAW HIM A FEW TIMES.BUT NOTHING HAPPENED AT ALL.I TOLD MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT THIS...FOR I HAVE NEVER LIED TO HIM ABOUT ANYTHING...HE ASKED ME TO PROMISE TO STOP TALKING TO THE OTHER GUY & I DID BUT I STARTED TO AGAIN.NOW I CARE ABOUT THIS OTHER GUY A LOT & I DO N'T KNOW WHY I AM FEELING THIS WAY ABOUT ANOTHER MAN. IT IS WRONG! I AM AFRAID TO LEAVE MY BF CAUSE HE CANT AFFORD THE HOUSE & HE WILL LOOSE HIS DAUGHTER THEN... I LOVE HER TO

2006-08-24 11:27:59 · 51 answers · asked by ♥ NIKKI .♥ 3

2006-08-24 11:22:33 · 22 answers · asked by babyboo 1

2006-08-24 11:20:09 · 6 answers · asked by dan a 1

We have been married 16 years and don't have a lot of money. We usually do dinner and a movie, and then spend time together at home. But I was looking for a fresh new idea. Anyone?

2006-08-24 11:19:28 · 9 answers · asked by Carrie 4

We were together for 5 years, and he started doing meth and he had me thrown out on the streets, i had to move away from him, he hates me, and doesnt see i love him more than myself, why can't i have the love of my life back, im hurting so bad, my days r empty, and hollow without him, i love u mikey please come back to me. god someone help this hurting stop...please

2006-08-24 11:13:02 · 13 answers · asked by James (JayDilla) 2

One week ago, I found out my husband was emotionally involved with another woman...actually his first girlfriend who lives in another state. He had confessed to this same thing 1.5 years ago, and I forgave him on the spot, and he said it was over. Well, I found out that it was not over, and that they had been exchanging sexually explicit emails and he had pics of her on his phone. We have a 9mo. old son. During this time, he hasnt been there emotionally for me or really there at all for the baby. It was a fight to get him to take care of the son that HE wanted.

Trouble is, now he is doing everything right now- taking care of the baby, doing nice things for me, etc. I am really confused. I asked him to move out for at least a week to give me some space to get my head right. When I am not around him, i am so sad and upset that I feel sick, but when I get home around him, things just feel normal. I am so confused!

What do you think?

2006-08-24 11:08:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

so how many of u live in a fancy home and is married and older and have lots of money ?

2006-08-24 11:06:32 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2

When my husband does something in bed that I don't like or isn't that good, I tell him. It seems to go in one ear out the other though. He continues to act like he knows all and is an expert on what I like. Sometimes he even skips the "introduction" and tries to just go for it. No matter what I say, he seems oblivious. It is causing me to want sex less and less. How do I get through to him? He is more experianced than me and tries to tell me what I will or won't like. I always thought that I knew pretty well what my body liked and didn't. Is he being stupid or concieted?

2006-08-24 11:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by Missy 1

Help!
I have a huge problem. I recently stumbled upon some information that I wish I didn’t possess.
My sister-in-law and her boyfriend are living with us. They’ve been together for about 5 years and have a 3 yr old child between them.
The other day I came home from work early and he was using the computer. He seemed a little startled and at the time I didn’t think much of it.
I thought about it that night and the next day looked at the internet history. Yep, you guessed it. He’s visiting and signed up to many sites, looking for dates. One link took me to his “profile” on a site which listed his desires for women and his ability to satisfy them with his “well-hung-ness”.
I plan to talk to my wife tonight about this. She’s my best friend and I can tell her anything but, this one’s going to sting.
My question is….. do I reveal what I know… or do I forget I saw it?
Telling the secret will probably break them up.
Help… what should I do?

2006-08-24 11:04:33 · 22 answers · asked by Husband with a HUGE problem 1

i am not milioner but i am not homeles either.

2006-08-24 11:04:05 · 10 answers · asked by culyoo 1

We just miscommunicated, she's working on the house & I thought she was insulating the roof and not the pipes. She's really mad and blaming me. Do you have miscommunication with your significant other sometimes?

2006-08-24 11:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-24 11:02:18 · 13 answers · asked by baymommy75 1

My husband and I have been married for 4 years and we spilt up 1 1/2 months ago and he was introdused to someone 3 days later bye someone who has me . and He moved her in 2 days after that . He tells me she is just a friend . That she is just there so he is not alone . When he is there he takes her to her moms on the weekend and wants me to stay with him While she is gone.He tells me that he loves me and wants to work things out but we have had so many broken promises. He is not ready .He says that we are so close to working this out but I don't know if he is lying to me about the relationship that they have . Is he telling me this so I will hang on so he can see if he has a future with this girl . He says that they are to the point where he is ready to take her home because all they do is argue . But What I need to know is should I hang on????????????????????

2006-08-24 11:00:02 · 19 answers · asked by angeleyes092602 1

My wife and I are close to our divorce date, I've been fighting to get her back. It doesn't look like it's gonna happen. Whats the etiquette about staying in contact with your in-laws. I honestly feel closer to them then I do my own parents. What do I do?

2006-08-24 10:58:55 · 14 answers · asked by choirboy5 1

My husband and I have been together for 6 years. Ive always knew that I was meant to be with him. I love him so much it consumes me. But he is sometimes disatisfied with his life and is unhappy because he feels he hasnt really lived his life. I know I was meant for him, but is it possible that you can be meant for someone who isnt meant for you? I have talked to him about it and he feels as well that we were meant to be together, but I just dont understand where these feelings would come from if we were truely meant to be. He has obsessive compulsive disorder and most of his life he has never been happy with anything in his life once he gets what he wants... I have been very understanding forgiving and trying to do whats best for him to make him happy but sometimes it just doesnt seem like enough... We are opposite personalities but we fit together so well. Everyone tells him that he has a great life but he doesnt think so. So is it possible to be meant for someone who isnt for you?

2006-08-24 10:58:31 · 6 answers · asked by hearts_bleed_dark 3

My husband and are seperated and during this time he came into some money. Could the money make him stop loving me and want out. Can money cange a person?

2006-08-24 10:54:57 · 5 answers · asked by September 2

what I mean is : is there one person out there only meant for you or could there be many other potential "soulmates." whats your opinion?

2006-08-24 10:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by hearts_bleed_dark 3