what I mean is : is there one person out there only meant for you or could there be many other potential "soulmates." whats your opinion?
2006-08-24 10:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by hearts_bleed_dark 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is a hypothetical question i m just looking for opinions lol
2006-08-24 11:16:34 · update #1
i think people can have either many soul mates but only one true love...or many loves but only one true soul mate...
2006-08-24 10:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say yes. I mean I'm not going to make such a serious commitment as getting married to just anybody. Or because they have alot of money. I'd rather find that one with a really good personality, understands me, where I'm coming from and vice versa, also there is all the caring and support and things that trully matter in the relationship. I mean when you date, you are just searching for that special one through trial runs with those bf/gfs. And I really don't think ppl should get married if they think they need to have more than one person. Because that is not fair to the other person in the relationship that is being faithful. I mean that is not even close. I really don't see why ppl wish to mess with a really good thing. I mean you are married and have someone amazing, y in the hell do you need someone else? Do you realize some ppl would love to get married and find that one person but never do, and the ones that have want others? What in the world is up with that?
2006-08-24 18:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there isn't just one person for everyone. Come on, consider what the odds would be that ANYONE would ever find the person they should be with. How many people are on the planet? How many billion to one would that make the odds? So how on earth could people in the same small town meet and marry someone? Honestly, the whole 'soul mate' thing is an illusion a fairy tale and unfortunately we all live in the real world.
2006-08-24 17:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider the size of our planet, the population, and the duration of time the human race existed... How can any one person have just *one* match? Of course there are infinite possible matches, but the number gets narrowed down both by circumstances beyond our control as well as the active choices we make.
Unless you postulate some sort of omni-present, omni-potent, omni-knowing higher power... Then you can justify just about any belief. But from a secular point of view, I don't see how the "soulmate" theory could make sense.
2006-08-24 18:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we connect deeply with someone, it feels like they are our soul mate. It is possible to feel this with more than one person in our lifetimes (and even your best girlfriend). Most marriages have bad patches and recovery depends on how much damage has been done and/or how hard each partner is willing to work to protect the union.
2006-08-24 18:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by carole0103 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in soulmates or love at first sight...I believe in love that you earn with trust and time.
2006-08-24 17:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are mistaking lust with love. Love one another, don't lust one another. true love comes once and the others follows. You live your whole life comparing between loves.
2006-08-24 17:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats something you will know, when you meet that special one just for you.after that, no others ones will matter anymore
2006-08-24 17:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋