2006-08-24 10:14:49 · 25 answers · asked by Ms. Topaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's b/c your priorities are not the same as any 22 yo. Your child is #1. In the back of your mind, any man who will fit you definition of love and happiness will have to consider your child. After being married with kids, family becomes an incredible cornerstone in what you are looking for in the future. Many men don't want that instant family. Then there are the few that don't care. And still there is a population of men who understand that the relationship is based between you two and not you, him and the child. The person you need to find is the one that understands that. The kind of person who understands that the strength of the relationship will ebb out to your child and build a strong family.
Good luck to you and take care of yourself.
2006-08-24 11:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing to do with your child. LOL! You're starting to panick about Mr Right at 22?! Good God Girl! I'm about to be 29 and just found my Mr Right a year and a half ago....it takes a while and you are still so young! The fact that you have already been married and divorced at 22 should tell you something honey...you need to mature a little and date a few different men so you have something to compare Mr Right to. How will you know if he's Mr Right if you don't know what Mr Wrong is like? You need to kiss alot of frogs to appreciate your prince! ;o) Just relax and go with the flow...date guys and don't try and make all of them into Mr Right...chill....wait.....and see...you'll know when he comes along....trust me on that one!!!!!! :o) Good luck sweetheart xx
2006-08-24 17:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does everyone say Mr Right? You have to know what you are looking for. Someone to not only love you now, but also love your child. Someone who is ready to deal with all the problems marrying someone who has children. The ex coming to the house and picking up the children and this. Why not try a group called Parents without Partners. It is a group made up of single or divorced or widowed people who are in the same boat as you.
2006-08-24 17:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by thebulktiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your expectations are wrong. There is no Mr. Right just like there is no Ms. Right. You will find someone with whom you share interests, find interesting and find you and your child interesting. This could possibly be a variety of people. For some reason a certain person will grow into the one you love and most importantly it will survive through the early infatuation sort of love most go through at first. He still won't be Mr. Right. You will have to take him as he is.
2006-08-24 17:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by brion1964 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is time for everything have patient. he's coming. by the way how long are you divorced? You know one thing, Young with a kid doesn't entice most men. That's bad. They feel you won't have all the time they want. I'm a man anyway. Look for an older guy. I think someone has given you that advice. keep in touch.
2006-08-24 17:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking? Where? Bars? Clubs? Well, you're not likely to find a good guy that way. Try church. Or take a college class, or network with friends. There are many guys that seek good women, and lots of women looking for guys. Finding singles is easy, people just seem to ignore what's right in front of them.
2006-08-24 18:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that hard you just have to look in the right places, Do you go to church? What a wonderful way to find a good man and bring your children up with God all at the same time
Good luck I'm sure it is very difficult
2006-08-24 17:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be extra careful now because you are a mother, you do not want to parade a lot of men through your child's life. Take you time and you will find love and happiness. Good luck and be careful.
2006-08-24 17:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 23 and im looking for mr. right too. Its hard because none of the men we come across are really the ones we can trust or have faith in. Men lie to much and they cheat for no reason messing up a good home for a one night stand. i want my dream man to spend all his time as a family man because family is important to me. Just keep looking boo or maybe you shouldnt look just pray for God to send you someone.
2006-08-24 17:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was a divorced mother of two, and i felt the same way for years ,until i opened my eyes and found out that the man that truly loved me was there throughout it all, we've been married for 6 years now, I'm 30. love can came in alot of packages, don't turn down someone because they don't look like your ex.
2006-08-24 18:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Toria T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋