Some men don't ejaculate during intercourse or any kind of sexual activity, except maybe for procreation purpose. This is either because of some physical problems (like painful ejaculatory spasms) or he is practicing Tantric sex. I know most men are against this practice, and I would like to know women's point of view. Thanks.
2006-08-24 10:36:41 · 25 answers · asked by xenos mc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know how I am, and I would really start to feel like I was not pleasing him.
I am very picky about things like that,a nd honestly I know after a while it would break my heart.
I would feel inadequate, even if it was something he had a problem with before me.
2006-08-24 10:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by cookies_n_cream0218 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the reason but I would want the satisfaction of knowing that I give my man the ultimate pleasure so it would not be fulfilling on an emotional level. I suppose if it was painful for him and I really loved him I would live with the disappointment. I wouldn't be interested in anyone who purposely didn't orgasm unless it was painful or unhealthy for him in some way. He could practice Tantric sex on someone else !
2006-08-24 17:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As superficial as it is, sex has a huge impact on people's relationships. Some women love sex, some hate it. However, most women will want to be satisfied at least some times. There will be women who would date/marry a man who didn't finish but there will be many that won't
2006-08-24 17:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by oohaybel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would depend on the women. For some they have the complete opposite problem....would one consider a marring a man that had (ED)?
If it's painful - (for the guy to ejaculate) and she loves him I suppose, if it were me - I would still be with him. Because It would not be love, if it were selfish and not taking consideration of the other persons feelings.
2006-08-24 17:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it's said that love covers a multitude of sins but there will be a problem especially if the other partner is used to getting her good sex. For me personally, It's all about the way I am treated in the relationship but he would have to come up with some other ways of satisfying sexually.
2006-08-24 17:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though it is somethng private for him, i feel it is best to talk to him that you prefer ejaculation. If he agrees and still don't, then he needs to consult a doctor. He may be overstressed or with physical defects. Give him more encouragement if you love him. Work something out with the doctor. Who knows you may get the world's best sex partner. Good luck.
2006-08-24 17:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guy has been somewhere before coming to you. that's why he can't finish. how often is this fenomenom? You know first ejaculation comes fast, the second longer, if the third one although very rare, he might not come. He will have what you call dry ejaculation. Coming without sperms. May be he is sick or he cheating.
2006-08-24 17:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the woman gets to finish, she probably does not even notice if he has finished. As long as he can perform and get hard, that is all that matters, unless he needs help to fix some sort of problem.
2006-08-24 17:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, myself, would DATE a man that wouldn't finish.I strongly doubt if I would MARRY a man that couldnt finish.There would have to be some type of understanding so that I know it's not just me.I would most likely think that I'm the reason that he doesnt finish the moment.*hugs*
2006-08-24 17:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by diva_n_chuck_taylors 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as a woman I wouldn;t mind if the man didn;t finish as long as he let ME finish know what i mena, besides that the *** is discusting even seeing it grosses me out. so i would def. NOT mind a man not ejaculating during intercourse
2006-08-24 17:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by bluemoon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋