Marriage & Divorce - 4 August 2006

Together 11 years. We both did things we're not proud of. We were at an impasse - so I ended it (nicely). Now, 6 months later - he is seeing somebody - but I think it is more for comfort. I told him I love him more than anyone in the world. He admitted he missed me & thought about me too, but he is burned & has a wall up. How do I break down that wall gently?

2006-08-04 06:11:07 · 19 answers · asked by CoronaGirl 3

My husband and I have been married 8 yrs. He was and is the man I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. He's a hard worker, but very quiet and doesnt share himself very well. I mean to get any info from him is the 20 question game and Im tried of being in the dark Im a talk things out person,he thinks if we dont talk things will go away. I do love this man but am so very unhappy. We havent had a real conversation in months. He go's to work comes home eats dinner then will stay outside till time for bed. This is very serious to me please no hate answers.

2006-08-04 06:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by pinkylee-35 2

I'm Female....Married, average looking couple, but I don't think about sex like my husband does....too much stress and tired.......the only way I can get "ready" and actually feel like having sex is to look at porn......pictures, movies, etc. Is something wrong with me?

2006-08-04 06:00:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her husband hates her parents. But She loves them naturally.. She kept a picture of her parents in her office, since he does not like it at home. Once he saw the picture and without any argument he quitely broke the frame during the office hours, She is upset with his behaviour and also embarassed in front of other staff members. What will u do in such situation.

2006-08-04 05:58:47 · 5 answers · asked by smr 1

2006-08-04 05:57:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-04 05:55:54 · 16 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1

someone who isnt their partner. Do I say something?

2006-08-04 05:53:49 · 39 answers · asked by TIGER_TELEGRAPH 2

I'm watching a documentary that states most argues/discussions a couple have, are mainly because of the his/hers family, specially because of each others mother-in-laws. It's you against their family.
Is this true? What do you think?

2006-08-04 05:53:45 · 17 answers · asked by Mary7 3

alone.Woking in dubai.wife went to india for vacation.

2006-08-04 05:51:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok,so my bf of a year and two months has already said he loves me and i know i love him so i say it back, and the other day he asked me to marry him and i said yes...we know things can change but for the time being i know he loves me and he knows i love him, do you think i am too young for this?

2006-08-04 05:39:59 · 85 answers · asked by Mandi 1

2006-08-04 05:36:43 · 25 answers · asked by rufuspufus2084 1

My boyfriend always accuse me of cheating and he is driving me crazy. What should I do?

2006-08-04 05:36:08 · 29 answers · asked by Ms. C 1

Ok...my husband know is like a horn dog...wanting sex every minute..I mean all the time...calling me at work trying to get me to do something...when we are driving he keeps grabbing me...and when we get home...OMG I can't get away from him...I don't have a problem with it but I used to have to beg..I mean beg for it... So whats the deal??? Hormones???Guilty??? It just started happening after I had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago...Is he trying to make up???Any advice.....I just want to know how to approach this issue...

2006-08-04 05:34:55 · 22 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

2006-08-04 05:31:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-04 05:30:33 · 6 answers · asked by Fatherson 1

2006-08-04 05:30:16 · 8 answers · asked by rufuspufus2084 1

Thinking of leaving. Loney wife. No long feel on the same page as husband we talk about but never seem to be on the same page anymore. Even did a little councelling He is not a bad person just drifting apart. Wondering if just feeling sorry for myself or if will be happier alone. or with someone else.

2006-08-04 05:28:35 · 10 answers · asked by soo 2

What do they do if their husband is cranky?

2006-08-04 05:28:19 · 8 answers · asked by rufuspufus2084 1

The guys are planning on taking a fishing vacation and I will be with my daughter. I think his trips make him appresiate me more so it is no big deal. But he does not like it when I am away (which I only do for business) Is a girls trip in order and what are some good girls trip ideas. I live in California but hate Vegas.

2006-08-04 05:22:08 · 39 answers · asked by monkey f 2

i think my husband is gay...i cought him watching gay porn.....i dunno what to do?

2006-08-04 05:20:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for just over a year...but it doesn't really seem like it b/c right after we got married my husband had to go away for 5 months for active military duty. Ever since he got back, sex hadn't really been frequent, or even GREAT for that matter. But we worked through it, and we finally got to where we were both satisfied. Or at least HE thought. After a while foreplay just went downhill. For him it's just hit it and that's it. I'm not being pleased. I hate to nag him so I don't talk about it much, but when i mention it, he says he doens't like foreplay.

As a Christian I can't deny him, so I have sex anyway, but i'm not satisfied. What should I do??? I know life goes on, and I'll live, but I want to be taken care of sexually. He's my only outlet.

2006-08-04 05:20:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for almost 5 years. All of his friends are female. Convieniently, I have met only one of them. He always makes his phone calls on his cell phone when he leaves. I am constanlty being hung up on when I answer the phone. Are these sure signs of cheating or I am I just being paranoid?

2006-08-04 05:17:34 · 33 answers · asked by Freshet 1

2006-08-04 05:17:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He and my son have been invited there this weekened without me?? How can I get through to him that this is not normal and that this is not going to happen all the time?

2006-08-04 05:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by fungirl 3

Clean house, dinner on the table, kid is gone, wife is wearing an apron and high heels, nothing else... sound good? I was thinking about surprising the hubby soon, we've been crazy busy lately.

2006-08-04 05:10:32 · 23 answers · asked by me 6

This is directed towards mainly married men with a pretty good sex life. I just want to know if there is 1 or 2 or more people out there you talk to about how good your wife is.

And if so, who do you tell?

2006-08-04 05:09:52 · 14 answers · asked by i.might.b.crazy 2

This morning I came out to the kitchen to find laundry on top of my craft table. Is my husband trying to tell me something?

2006-08-04 05:06:45 · 14 answers · asked by eddysmomma 4

Now I want to know what to do? Give him his divorce? because I want security a house at least a roof over my head... What do I do? We have no kids does that still entitle me to anything. I donlt want a divorce though I want to work things out. His reason for getting a divorce 'irreconcible differences'

2006-08-04 05:03:36 · 12 answers · asked by babie 1

2006-08-04 05:00:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

There was nothing we have not tried but he couldnt help it after 5 years of trying he has lost his job, family, friends, respect and dignity. I left as it was also doing my mental health serious damage. it is still damaging me knowing someone i love is in so much pain and there is nothing i can do about it.

you cannot imagine the pain, when i do go to see him to comfort him it just hurts more.please please please help im dying and so is he. its been 9 months since i left and time has not worked as a healer for me.

2006-08-04 04:59:52 · 31 answers · asked by dino 3