2006-08-04 05:17:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most people marry for love, however there have been some who did not and fell in love til later. Although I wonder why you have not consummated your relationship. Is it out of fear or are you not attracted to each other? Most marriages, are consummated on the first night together. It usually stems from a desire of love and a desire to please. I have heard of arranged marriages before. It must be very difficult for you. If you are both in love, why not try to enjoy every aspect of marriage? Try a nice romantic dinner, music and see what happens...go slow, and enjoy yourselves. Get to know each other.
2006-08-04 05:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think so. You just met right? Why would you want to do that with a stranger??
I did not want any man that way before I met my husband. ( We did not have an arranged marriage). You need time to learn about the other person, develop respect and compassion for the other's feelings. When you really connect emotionally and mentally then it will just fall into place.
2006-08-04 12:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should discuss this with your husband. How old are you? How old is he? If you love him and he loves you - although the marriage had been arranged - there should not be any problem. The question is more: Do you want to have sex with your husband? Do you? Then take the initiative.
2006-08-04 12:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Maxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a normal marriage, it's not normal, but in an arrange marriage, i think it's normal. You guys need to get to know each other better before going to the next level.
2006-08-04 12:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by So_Wat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference in love & passion. While you may love each other, you may not be attracted to one another. Especially when the marriage was arranged.
Sit your husband down & discuss what the both of you are wanting from this marriage; including sex.
2006-08-04 12:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your parents arrange some sex for you. It kinda goes with the marriage.
2006-08-04 12:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for an arranged marriage yes, probably cause your still not conftable with each other. try slowly littile by little you'll come along.
2006-08-04 12:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all you should have had it the first night and every night since , what is wrong with your husband
2006-08-04 12:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, the marriage is Void unless you have sex!
2006-08-04 12:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but if both of you are happy then so be it.
2006-08-04 12:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋