Ok...my husband know is like a horn dog...wanting sex every minute..I mean all the time...calling me at work trying to get me to do something...when we are driving he keeps grabbing me...and when we get home...OMG I can't get away from him...I don't have a problem with it but I used to have to beg..I mean beg for it... So whats the deal??? Hormones???Guilty??? It just started happening after I had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago...Is he trying to make up???Any advice.....I just want to know how to approach this issue...
2006-08-04 05:34:55 · 22 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is probably having a hard time showing you how he feels about the miscarriage with his feelings, so he has converted it to sex and assumes that sex is the same as affection. He's a man he doesn't know any better.
2006-08-04 05:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an important part of a relationship and its called *Communication*.Use it, that's the best way to find out whats on your partners mind, by asking.It really sounds normal to me and you should be really glad that he is doing this.Most women feel less wanted when they have had a baby or like in your situation, had a miscarriage.You need your partner to want you.Talk to him and tell him that you are so flattered that he wants this so much but you would like to fill some of that space by doing other fun things in your relationship and that you are letting him know so that if he had some ideas on what you both can do together and both enjoy just as much.Sit and think, talk about it, it will all work out.
2006-08-04 12:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by MS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him about it. He probably does want to have another baby and does not want to talk to you about it. He maybe afraid talking to you about it will make you upset. Continue having sex with him, don't push him away. However let him know you have noticed a change and wanted to know the reason behind it. Communication is always best!
2006-08-04 12:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems as if he's tryin to make up for all the times you beg. He could also be feeling bad about the whole miscarriage thing. sometimes you ust want it all the time.
2006-08-04 12:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best approach is straight forward, ask him what's the deal here? Honesty works wonders, but be prepared in case he gives you answer you may not want to know.
Good luck.
2006-08-04 13:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to try to have another child. Why don't you bring it up in front of him. Just sasy that you don't mind and enjoy the attention but maybe there is a bigger issue that needs to be adressed and you want to find what it is.
2006-08-04 12:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that he's not able to articulate his feelings so he's trying to show you that you're still attractive to him and that the ultimate show of love is being intimate with you.
If it's not a problem with you, then go for it while it lasts!!
But if it is a problem - then talk to him - cause really, who of us here really knows what's going on in his head???
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-08-04 12:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through phases especially with being pregnant and you can't have sex and now he was deprived because it wasn't available to him and now he wants to make up for lost time, go with it he will calm down eventually. I went through this myself. Good Luck!!
2006-08-04 12:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to make you feel better and maybe he is finally understanding that sex is important to you. Enjoy it!
2006-08-04 12:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your complaining because you used to beg and now you don't? Woman are nags.
2006-08-04 13:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋