Marriage & Divorce - 4 August 2006

I am 38 Male Single always. I am Dating a Women 56, divorced 3 times and in relationships many times.

I seem to like her...What are the possible problems in this relationship?

2006-08-04 17:26:19 · 4 answers · asked by Shaun S 1

i have been with my ex 2X so far since we split up 6 months ago
why of we called it quits why are we still wanting to sleep with eachother ? then sometimes he is back to seeming like he dont care about wanting to get back together but wants to sexually be wit me

2006-08-04 17:17:41 · 8 answers · asked by lindsey w 1

My fiance of 6 months and I were having no seen problems whatsoever. Three weeks ago, out of no where, our relationship snoballed, and this passed Wednesday, I went to his house and he told me numerous things. One minute he was saying he needed to find himself and the next he's saying that he's doing me a favor he cannot give me what I need. None the less, he ended it with me. The only thing that was constant out of his mouth was that he does and always will love me. Boy were the water works coming from him! He's not an emotional person...why cry is this is something you want? He didn't give me a straight reason as to why...nor did he ask for the ring back. Surprisingly, he told me that he was going to continue to make the payments on the ring and that I should hold onto it...what is really going on? We were together for three years and this was the one I was stopping with. I know I'm probably going to get some ugly responses, but I'm ready so let's go...thanks for the help!

2006-08-04 17:16:50 · 42 answers · asked by ConfuzedBluEyez 1

Don't want the baby to have his last name because he acts like an idiot.Doesn't understand I don't love him. He thinks after the baby is born I'll fall in love with him but I'm not. And has been going to my job and talking trash about me to my co workers. What do you think I should do?

2006-08-04 17:15:32 · 22 answers · asked by Bebee 1

2006-08-04 17:14:11 · 20 answers · asked by doublewidemama 6

I have serious doubts, and am curious as to other's opinions on this matter.

2006-08-04 17:07:42 · 13 answers · asked by jokerscard692000 4

I'm in the military and I've been separated from my wife for almost seven months. We're on the virge of getting a separation agreement signed. Also for the past seven months she had a restraining order put on me. The weird thing is that the judge made clear that there was no physical abuse but there was 'verbal abuse.' The verbal abuse occured after I made some discoveries that she wasn't telling the truth about her affair she had last fall. Basically I was pissed off and used the f word like it was second language. I was also accused of marital rape, but the judge threw that out. Fortunately for me, my commanders see the truth. We have a two year old and the past two visitations, she mentioned that she wanted to have sex one last time. She even tried to arrange a place, time, and date for it. She told me that she would be waiting for a reply. She even calls me with an unlisted number. (I think it's her, can't be 100%.) How do I turned this disturbed woman down?

2006-08-04 17:04:33 · 20 answers · asked by Thomas K 3

2006-08-04 17:01:15 · 19 answers · asked by zeekandthefam 5

2006-08-04 16:46:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-04 16:45:06 · 48 answers · asked by Tulip 3

2006-08-04 16:41:51 · 26 answers · asked by shyprincess 1

I found out my serial cheater boyfriend is "at it" again. (We have kids) After begging me back for 6 months after I left due to his cheating, he's been all lovey dovey since I been back. Then I find out he's still cheating. The crazy thing is, I didn't blow up. I told them calmly that I knew they were still seeing each other and that I was "done", and I aint even mad at the girl. I used to go all psycho when I used to find out what he was doing in the past, but I didnt the last few times. What does it mean to feel this way? Why didnt I really FEEL it like I used to?

2006-08-04 16:39:34 · 24 answers · asked by Nuni 1

But, your kids (over 18) are stopping your from doing what really needs to be done?

I really am in between a rock and hard place with no where to turn. My ex-husband had been cheating from the day we were married. Spending all of our money on his mistresses, and not on me or my kids and now he is just being nice to my kids to impress his girlfriends now. Our kids have no idea of what he is really doing, and I really don't want to hurt them anymore because of him. My ex-husband has ruined me financially, emotionally, physically (medical) and any other way he can think of. what should i do???????? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

2006-08-04 16:35:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-04 16:31:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

they cant trust each other? They do have children, but damn, life goes on. All these people do is take turns hurting each other, it's pathetic.

2006-08-04 16:22:23 · 9 answers · asked by Nuni 1

should i believe him? since genital herpes may be dormant and just came up only now(3 years after)? he has been a very supportive husband, let me go back to school and advises me to finish it.everything is good about him except for this one time cheating which he was really sorry. my doubts before were awaken because of this disease. please let me know the best way to face this problem. he swears he does not cheat on me, should i take his word? is this genital herpes a package that comes along with that cheating? only serious advise please, i am really really vulnerable at the moment.

2006-08-04 16:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there a precise moment, and how or what makes you realize it? is falling out of love something that can be chosen?

2006-08-04 16:15:13 · 15 answers · asked by honey 2

My partner is so secretive. So secrective that I've started looking for things to see if I'm being cheated on. When my partner found out that I found some emails and pictures, I was told that I was wrong for trying to find this information. That I was trying to find a way out of our relationship. I know that I'm being cheated on just from the emails, I just don't know how and when it's being done because my partner comes straight home after work, and were always together. Can someone answer this question, because I really want to know if I'm wrong?

2006-08-04 16:14:16 · 9 answers · asked by Good2Go 2

I found out on good friday that he's still seeing her, he asked if we could co-exist! Well i've been hanging in there and i found out today that its still goin on and he's even been braggin to one his family members about his girlfriend and that he's just waiting till our kids are grown. well, our youngest is 15. should I get a jump on things and leave him first? I feel like such an a**. one thing that is involved is that I take care of HIS mother who has alzheimers. I just can't believe that I have stood by him through thick and thin, rich and mostly poor, good and bad etc. and even clean his mothers **** and this is the thanks i get!

2006-08-04 16:10:21 · 14 answers · asked by brokenheart 2

2006-08-04 16:08:22 · 12 answers · asked by ten 2

2006-08-04 16:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by wittbelle 3

What does your hubby do that you find a turn on? I mean no sexual thngs; playing with the kids, helping around the house etc.

2006-08-04 15:58:56 · 15 answers · asked by JaMoke 4

I want to feel sexy again.

2006-08-04 15:52:05 · 44 answers · asked by kc 3

2006-08-04 15:51:10 · 9 answers · asked by healthnut 1

My husband and I knew within a month- that was 18 years ago

2006-08-04 15:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by hagren 3

well im a malaysian,indian kristian,and the guy im having affair with is also a kristian .may be i dont get sex satisfaction from my husband and im looking for it elswhere and found it in this young guy who i had fallen in love with. He has several times asked me if i would get a divorce in few years and willing to marry him..he wants to marry me ...but my family(mum ) disagree totally as she is already suspecting my relationship...my husband does not want to leave this marriage just coz of our kids future and he does not want to hurt his family's feelings. im so confused i dont know what to do but i cant stop this affair cos its not just sleeping with him i love him and care for him a lot

2006-08-04 15:49:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it bad to have a baby before marriage? We have a 1 year old and we are living together and are staying together, but don't plan on getting married. Why would people consider this bad? All marriage is to me is a last name change and a ring. The divorce rate is so high, so why get married? We are still a happy family.

2006-08-04 15:38:30 · 12 answers · asked by tricksy 4

You can't trust your live-in boyfriend not to cheat again, and he can't trust that you really love him or want to be there and that you may leave again if you catch him cheating again.

2006-08-04 15:37:06 · 24 answers · asked by Nuni 1

2006-08-04 15:30:22 · 23 answers · asked by TipToes 1

my marriage is not working well,now it has been a year we never engage with sex or any intimacy,we hardly communicate.its like we are together for the kids sake. I met a guy younger than me 6 months ago and now i end up having an affair with him and i realise we love each other so much. yes we do have our diffirent ways and character's but we do love each other. I now dont know what to do he is 20 and im 28. i cant imagin life without him.

2006-08-04 15:29:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous