You can't trust your live-in boyfriend not to cheat again, and he can't trust that you really love him or want to be there and that you may leave again if you catch him cheating again.
2006-08-04 15:37:06 · 24 answers · asked by Nuni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think that it's possible to continue a relationship where there is no trust. A relationship needs trust to be healthy and move forward.
2006-08-04 15:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT GOOD! it seems 2 me that there was no trust n the relationship prior u moving n 2gether but then again there must have been something that made want 2 move n 2gether. if i was n your shoes i would leave him cuz 1) there is no trust 2) he has cheated on u and 3) he doesn't seem 2 love u the way u love him. because if he did then i think he wouldn't of cheated n the 1st place. i believe u just need 2 sit down & think about your relationship and ask yourself, is this relationship worth saving?
2006-08-04 22:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Scooter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend will need to talk and decide if you want to stay together and if you're willing to work on your trust issued. You both will have to help each other to trust.
One of the things that helped us when we went thru our pre-marital counseling (we both had trust issues) was we were told to let each other know where we are all the time. We both have cells, so we still to this day call each other all day, it became a habit. We are always checking in with each other and always say we love each other at the end of the conversation. This helped us both, as we always knew where the other was.
It takes work for a relationship, and you both will need to decide if you want it to work. If you have the "want to" it will work.
2006-08-04 22:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Trust" is a key to have a healthy and successful realtionship. Lack of trust may lead to misunderstanding and worse, break-up. One must remember that part of loving is to trust the person whom you love. Love without trust is not love after all. Remeber that the best thing that one can give to his/her partner is "trust". Moreover, love is also a responsibilty. So, if one is in a certain relationship, he/she must take that responsibilty. Take note that it is easy to trust somebody who is doing his/her responsibilty. So, trust is very important in a relationship. Without it, a certain relationship will only lead to misunderstanding.
2006-08-04 22:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by jed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is everything. once you truly trust someone fully and completely and THEN that trust is lost. it is almost impossible to trust anyone again. Any future relationships; you will always wonder if you can trust her or him . it is a terrible terrible thing ,emotion, experience to lose that trust. i know because i am in that situation.
2006-08-04 22:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need trust and honesty...I know that love can be strong but the wondering if someone is cheating on you can drive a person mad.
2006-08-04 22:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by rita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks, you know there maybe something really special about this person if they could just grow out of it,but when you go through so much-it can really drag you down. I'd suggest some marriage counseling , so that you two could really hash out your differences to the point of being resolved- then I think the trust could come back.also make sure he KNOWS your gone if it happens again.we all go through these hard times but they wont last forever stay strong
2006-08-04 22:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is very important in the relationship if you guys can't trust eachother, I say split because you guys don't want to end up being hurt again and again.
2006-08-04 22:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot have a healthy relationship without trust. No trust = no relationship
2006-08-04 22:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by Pappa Poopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With out trust what relationship is there to stay for?
2006-08-04 22:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋