well im a malaysian,indian kristian,and the guy im having affair with is also a kristian .may be i dont get sex satisfaction from my husband and im looking for it elswhere and found it in this young guy who i had fallen in love with. He has several times asked me if i would get a divorce in few years and willing to marry him..he wants to marry me ...but my family(mum ) disagree totally as she is already suspecting my relationship...my husband does not want to leave this marriage just coz of our kids future and he does not want to hurt his family's feelings. im so confused i dont know what to do but i cant stop this affair cos its not just sleeping with him i love him and care for him a lot
2006-08-04 15:49:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would have to say that you have more of a relationship with your husband than you do with this lover. You probably meet in secret, sleep together, giggle, and eat some pizza. That is not reality. You might end up with him and then the two of you not even get along when life and reality and the kids come into the picture.
2006-08-04 15:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married!!What's your problem?You are NOT up for grabs and this homewrecker should know it.It doesn't matter why your with this guy,love or sex,it just matters that you shouldn't be with him.Leave him alone and work on your marraige.I thought you claimed to be a Christian?Yes,Christains do make mistakes,their human BUT they learn from them and try to do WJWD.Wake up,before it's too late.
2006-08-04 23:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What came first, the love or the sex? If you two had a casual sexual relationship that turning into something more, then it's probably lust and not love. If you're confused about it, then it's most probably lust.
2006-08-04 23:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just sex. You ain't ready for true love yet.
2006-08-04 22:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on your marriage and say goodbye to the lover.
2006-08-04 22:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by him n her♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋